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baybeelovesoemo
post Feb 11 2006, 01:07 AM
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i personally like to wait till i kno he's into ME and not there just for sex, but ill sure as hell tease him to death biggrin.gif
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 01:36 AM
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I chose "Not really." I mean, if you think about it, there are relationships that last, where sex isn't a factor. Sexual intercourse can do two things - strengthen or weaken a relationship.

In strengthening a relationship, it has the potential to make many, if not all, insecurities go away. Both partners will learn more about each other, physically and emotionally. Of course, it's not something to rush into, as you should both be sure of yourselves and know of any consequences that might occur.

In weakening a relationship, one or both partners might actually become more insecure, as one or both can potentially regret rushing into having sex.

I mean, if you're really in love with someone and they're deeply in love with you, it shouldn't matter whether or not you two have sex. Having sex shouldn't be a determining factor for a relationship--there's so much more to that. Believe me, I know. :]
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 03:14 AM
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it depends on lots of things. if the relationship is meaningful, long lasting, and etc etc, then sex is inevitable. no point in giving it up early.

there is so much more to a relationship than sex. there are the dates, the deep conversations, the sweet cards filled with the one of a kind words from the heart, the being happy, the cuddling+watching a movie/tv, and etc.

if you want to know whether he's into you or not, then you should hold out and see what happens. i don't know about you, but being a tease isn't really a good thing...eventually it will be annoying. you can't just play with people and expect them to be okay with it.
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 03:23 AM
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As much as girls try not to seem shallow...they like a guy with confidence....if you can't show confidence.... then the person you are with...they will eventually stray elsewhere...to get what they want... _dry.gif
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 03:54 AM
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why must you make this topic so, uhhh sexy.

I personally think that sex isn't even close to being important in a relationship. Well depends what age you are. If you really want sex though, go to Las Vegas.

Maybe someone should make an official SEX thread and pin it so no more of these pop up.
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 08:51 AM
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no i dun think so....
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 09:45 AM
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sex isnt really that important but i guess the bases before reaching home base really give alot to a relationship.. it sorta spices things up.
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 01:28 PM
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i personally want to wait until i know i'm really into the guy and he's really into me...like when i'm married or something... wink.gif
 
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post Feb 11 2006, 02:05 PM
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post Feb 12 2006, 10:53 AM
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I do the traditional way... Marry then sex.
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 03:03 PM
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Sex shouldn't be important in relationships. If you only want that person for that one thing then whats the purpose of being together? In relationships sex should be the last option, there are more things to do with your bf/gf than having sex.
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 03:19 PM
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I like to wait till a bit into the relationship to see if it will last. It's not important, but it sure as hell makes things fun.
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 03:50 PM
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not really....a good relationship has good communucation....
but sex can also be good b/c it gives plleassuree
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 05:00 PM
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I don't think it's that big of a deal, but if you both trust each other and feel comfortable enough to have sex, then you're obviously doing something right.
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 05:27 PM
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I chose "not really". In my opinion, sex shouldn't be for every guy, for when things get boring, or for when kissing just isn't enough.
 
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post Feb 13 2006, 10:23 PM
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I chose not really because..

Sex is important but I don't need sex. To me sex isn't really something that is vital to a relationship. Lately it seems that sex is something so casual in life. I want to feel the little things. The romance. The sweet romance. Just getting to know each other. Sometimes when a person seems to push the sexual energy or whatnot it feels like it really does weaken our relationship. At least on my part.

But!
I completely agree with Just_Dream o.o
 
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post Feb 14 2006, 06:07 PM
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i think it is. it affects the relationship in alot of ways if you think about it.
 
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post Feb 15 2006, 01:02 AM
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no. i dont think its important but apparently the guy i used to date did. and i think he called it quits cause he wasnt getting any from me :D
 
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post Feb 15 2006, 08:14 PM
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Well, to me, sex isn't a big thing at all
in the relationship. For me the special thing is just being together. But then again,
I've never had sex, so I wouldn't really know. I'm sure after I have it I'll be speaking
differently, but for now...its just the other stuff. XD; After everything I've learned
about sex, though, I don't think I'll be having it for a longgggg time. :3
 
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post Feb 16 2006, 03:03 PM
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Not for me, but somewhat yes and no, depends on the person. I mean it feels good, but I can also have other fun aside from having sex.
 
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post Feb 16 2006, 08:09 PM
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Dpends... on alot of things i dont want to go into..
 
pinayprincess
post Feb 18 2006, 11:29 AM
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no, b/c you dont really need 'pleasurable sex' to fit your needs in a relationship.. its like that saying 'money doesnt buy people happyness'... hey its GOOD to feel but c'mon, in reality it COULD break somebodies heart... so really it doesnt matter
 
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post Feb 18 2006, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Feb 18 2006, 8:29 AM) *
no, b/c you dont really need 'pleasurable sex' to fit your needs in a relationship.. its like that saying 'money doesnt buy people happyness'... hey its GOOD to feel but c'mon, in reality it COULD break somebodies heart... so really it doesnt matter

Yes but you see, people like to believe that sex and money is important.. whistling.gif hahah

Keep in mind that both money and/or sex can strengthen a relationship, but it shouldn't be significant. With that being said, money can SOO buy me happiness, if it means that my boyfriend would give me a platinum ring.. wink.gif
 
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post Feb 18 2006, 08:21 PM
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^^^lol ; true true [sry about the double post!]
 
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post Feb 19 2006, 03:17 AM
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have you seen 40 yr old virgin? that movie was funny yet true when they said, "have sex with hoodrats, so when you have sex with the one you like you won't suck in bed." That or unless you study on how to be a good sek...ser...But if your religous then this would be considered immoral...


sex is addictive(watch out for aids) just like how nicoteen is...and both can kill you. Unless your well known in the world and have money like Magic Johnson and Lance Armstrong and buy a cure secretly for Cancer or AIDS and not talk about it in public
 
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