what do you guys think about masterbation? Options

[coconutter]

homosexuality is hurting the person who thinks that way, they could go to hell! And as far as masturbation that's a touchy subject to talk with people, well .sept on the internet sense u dont have to see their faces :]]

first of all, you don't go to hell for being homosexual, even though it is a sin, a homosexual could still be saved and JUST because he is homosexual doesn't mean God won't forgive him, therefore they will go to heaven according to John 3:16.


Don't automatically asume homosexuals are going to hell, just because your pastor tells you so.

It's not up to you to judge people, that's Gods job.

[much2muse]

i dunno what i am. but, ehh, i really dont have an issue with it. -shrugs-

masterbation is a normal thing to do. it's wicked. probably better than the real thing 9 times out of 10

lmao

[Watttt]

im a guy and i do it..im not religious but damn..how CAN'T you masturbate??

[y0urelectrikk]

^ It's called self control.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

If you confess every week for something you know is wrong, then you can't truely be sorry for it .. if you know you're just going to do it again.

anyway.
what i said was a joke
and honestly its no ones buissness to push their beliefs on to anyone else pardon me but im not too fond of bible throwers. . you can chose to not touch yourself but others dont see things the way you do. try to respect that.

[sanspoh]

I don't think it's a sin, only that the Bible mentions a "man" would, as someone pointed out, "waste his seed". People interpret the Bible in their own ways.

I'd just go along with how you feel, sure. Of course I'm kinda slipping toward agnosticism from the extreme Catholicism that I was raised up with so I wouldn't exactly know.

The thing is for me personally, the thought that's keeping me from doing it is being able to save it to share with some special guy, hopefully my future husband. Just so it would be all the more special. But that's just me

[xhidethedetails]

Its fine and I dont care if you choose to do it or not.
I just dont choose to do It..thats what my boyfriends for.

[radinplaid2345]

I dont, personally...but i guess there's nothing wrong with it

[noiseandkisses16]

i masturbate all the time with my boyfreind we have phone sex all the time.its normal and theres nothing wrong with it. its normal.

[y0urelectrikk]

It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable.
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 (NIV)

[helloxtine]

i don't think it should be a sin. so how the hell are we suppose to have babies if we don't do it? i'm christian and i don't masturbate, but i read something about masturbation and it's completely normal b/c it helps you get rid of stress.

[y0urelectrikk]

^ masturbating doesn't make you babies.. & sex is for after marriage. There are a whole lot of other ways to get rid of stress than to masturbate.

[*annonymous.*]

^ I think she means that when you masturbate, it gets you horny, and then you'll have sex, then poof, a baby.

Some people would rather have sex before marriage, and it's really their decision.

[y0urelectrikk]

^okay thats lovely. I don't really care.

[skillxz]

Aint nothing wrong with it, what makes it corrupt is the big deal everyone makes out of it, bringing religious and political or whatever bullcrap factors they could into it. Just keep it simple. Do it if you please, don't if you don't want to.

[lemonpie]

^ Ewww. Do nuns do it too?

they prob. do. it's completly normal.

[Xspower]

christianity says its wrong but i do it im a guy btw but everyone does it

[*mishyerr*]

I don't think about it.

My friend told me Christians are allowed to do it, but I'm not sure if he knows or not.

Mormons can't masturbate, that's for sure.

[tomuchxes]

If you confess every week for something you know is wrong, then you can't truely be sorry for it .. if you know you're just going to do it again.

Although isnt it true that we are forgiven if we are truely sorry for our sins and ask the lord for forgivness?

so what you are saying is that if we are indeed going to sin again isnt it then imposible for us to be forgiven? so in theroy Jesus died for what? forgive thouse who will be without sin? isnt that the way it was before he gave his life for us? I beleave the lord wants us to try to be without sin... live our life with the lord in every aspect of our day to day lives...

The lord is understanding he knows that we are easerly influenced... he knows what we are thinking although he has patiants and he is loving in every way... he will forgive us for every sin when we ask for forgivnes... sin after sin... all he ask's in return is that we love him and be thankfull for his forgivness.

wouldnt you forgive your kids if they smoked weed and then got busted? and then the next week they do it again? you still forgive them wouldnt you? the lord knows it is difficult to be pure he sent his son to know the true feeling of what it is like to be on earth away from gods presence... god had no qlue before he sent jesus...

[*Intercourse.*]

Its better than you going out and just having sex.

[kameron]

I go to a christian camp every summer.. and the last summer they had like an hour discussion about it.
and it is indeed a sin. They gave a bunch of verses from the Bible.. showing how it's sinful. I don't remember them off the top of my head, but I'll look for them.

can you PM me with the verses.
im a christian && i want to look them up.
is it a sin for a girl too?

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

From reading other ppos post, i see that the majority says its normal...idk what to say, cause i think i should wait for the pleasure a guy can give, but sometimes i get the urge to masturbate, but i don't and i get very frustrated, LOL sexual frustrations is NOT cool, im still holding out though.....

[femmefatale4160]

masturbation is perfectly normal and fine. despite what crazy baptists might say, it's not a sin. better masturbation than sex, right?

I resent that. I'm a baptist, and I...yeah. Anyway, there was a sermon from a well-known African-American baptist minister (female) and she said that it's healthy, and absolutely not a sin. So boo yah.

[ryan_wasn't_here]

it's spelled masturbation...haha.

i'm not christian, and i used to masturbate. i don't anymore because i have a boyfriend but i really don't think there's anything wrong with it. i think that christians are against masturbation but i'm not sure. hell, there are religious christians who drink even though they go to church and stuff. masturbation is A LOT less harmful than drinking and it's actually healthy because it relieves stress and relaxes your body.

[Kim3rz]

i hate the fact that there are religions out there telling people what they can and cannot do with their own bodies. masturbation is completely harmless and if someone wants to do it, then that's their own decision. why do some people think it's necessary to be in someone else's private business?