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pimpingurl12
post Jun 4 2004, 01:36 PM
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Ok, I am so in love with this boy named Dustin B. and I have had a crush on him since the last week of 5th grade (which was last yr.). Ever since he has become very popular and my eniemes and friends are going out with him, I feel more for him than be4. I'm not sure if he even notices me. So I need advice. !i!i!i!i I won't respond unless I feel I have to, usually I just read !i!i!i!i
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 01:40 PM
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u really cant do anything cuz he has a g.F. i'd still hope that they'd break-up so i could have him, but most likely i'd just forget about it. i dont wanna like get my hopes up just to get crushed in the end.

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post Jun 4 2004, 01:44 PM
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That seems reasonable...but I LOVE him....I can hear my heart cracking apart already
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 01:55 PM
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and your in 6th grade?? i didnt even know what love was in 6th grade
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 02:00 PM
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yea...its extreme
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 02:03 PM
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well if he has a gf... i would forget it.. and you said he doesnt even notice you!! it would be different if he did... well i wouldnt do anything about.. lets juss say i would crush from a far...
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 02:07 PM
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i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here.
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 02:10 PM
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QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 4 2004, 3:07 PM)
i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here.

it sound like lust to me
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 4 2004, 2:07 PM)
i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here.

prolly is...but u have no idea
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 02:30 PM
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"Wait till they're over, then ask him out"

Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol.
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 03:20 PM
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QUOTE(perdyperdybirdy @ Jun 4 2004, 2:30 PM)
"Wait till they're over, then ask him out"

Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol.

lol, yea...maybe I need to 'get' him to like me some how...I have to be charming...lolz...thats what I'm gonna do! thanks every1. I found the good choice!
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 03:23 PM
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QUOTE(perdyperdybirdy @ Jun 4 2004, 2:30 PM)
"Wait till they're over, then ask him out"

Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol.

^^ thats what i did .. nd it work out pretty well
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 03:25 PM
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QUOTE(StarryEyedSurprize @ Jun 4 2004, 2:55 PM)
and your in 6th grade?? i didnt even know what love was in 6th grade

shoot i couldnt spell it.

you know what just get to know him and his friends. they may seem like your eniemies..but you never know.
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 05:02 PM
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i guess just wait it out.... just get to know him, and be friends, even if that's the most you'll be...
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 06:01 PM
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yea, but there is a saying, keep ur friends close, but your eniemes closerrr
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 06:38 PM
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it depends if i think the girlfriends is fair ill let it go and forget about him. if not then "excuse me which girlfriends?"
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 07:36 PM
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I voted wait until they're over and ask him out.

This has happen to me before. We started as friends, I liked him a lot but I knew he had a GF. And somehow, he fell in love with me... Sohe broke up with his GF. And a lil while after that, we got together.

You didn't have a 'just be his friend' option or I would have voted that...
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 07:37 PM
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well, i say to forget about him. but i'm sure if you really love him, it's not as easy as it sounds. so if it is really that hard, then just wait till they're over. alowing him to cheat is not an option. and sabataging him and his girlfriend's relationship is really cruel. i feel sorry for you. i hope it works out for the best. _unsure.gif
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 07:41 PM
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forget abt him!.. you'll find another guy.
 
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post Jun 4 2004, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 8:36 PM)
I voted wait until they're over and ask him out.

This has happen to me before. We started as friends, I liked him a lot but I knew he had a GF. And somehow, he fell in love with me... Sohe broke up with his GF. And a lil while after that, we got together.

You didn't have a 'just be his friend' option or I would have voted that...

samething friggin happend to me. but his girlfriend was my bestfriend at the time. after he broke up with her, he asked me out a couple weeks later and then broke up with me for some other girl. and me and my best friend havent been friends since. sad really cause she was a great person and i miss her.
 
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post Jun 5 2004, 07:07 AM
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i think youre just infatuated with him... i dont think it's love.. forget about him.. stubborn.gif
 
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post Jun 5 2004, 07:44 AM
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well, you have no idea if its love or what...but I am falling apart cause I love him so much. But honestly since I haven't seen him in a long time (about a week and a half)(he isn't in the yearbook either)I think I am moving on....I kno I still have feelings but screw it, he only noticed me in 5th, and thats over.
 
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post Jun 5 2004, 08:51 AM
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ok i got a question. why do you think its love? i was just wondering cause you cant really love someone you barely even know.
 
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post Jun 19 2004, 10:31 PM
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After you've sorted out your feelings on love and your guy, just hang out with him casually! You said your friends were dating him? Just hang out as the three of you and get to know him- maybe he isn't all that cracked up as you seem to think he is. Make friends with the guy and once you get to KNOW him, sort out your feelings. =]

...Did you say your friends and enemies were dating him? Sounds like you it's a case of simple jealousy. Now that he's popular, you want him. Your friends and enemies can have him, so it hurts that you can't... Separate those feelings, hun! <=]

Sorry, I'm not trying to judge you, if that's what it seems like. Just saying what it sounds like to me. ^_^;;
 
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post Jun 20 2004, 06:15 AM
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It's not probably "LOVE" but "LIKE"....
Advice: If you really still do want to be around him, settle for trying to be his friend. Trust me, you'll be satisfied enough w/o being his gf.
 
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