is he leadin me on?, i need help! |
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 Oct 28 2006, 02:06 PM
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 stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(:  Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985  |
hi, this is my first time here. okay i'm a real confused girl. i like this guy senior of mine. he's graduating this year, or rather has graduated as the school term has ended in this part of the world i'm in. so i kinda got his number and msged him. we get along fine. he's real encouraging and sweet too. thing is, he knows that i like him. and apparently,his group of friends know it too. so the problem now is, is he leading me on? he knows that i like him and he sends me msgs to cheer me on for the exams/tests etc. is he leading me on? or is he fooling around with my feelings? or am i just reading too much into his actions which actually mean nothing?
he's the kinda shy type of guy. kinda a cool nerd but not really a nerd cos he's real outgoing and good looking too. he's a nice guy too. cause he didn't blow up the matter of me liking him. actually no one knows it at all, besides me and him and his friends, whom i guess he told but no rumors went round.. so that shows that he's a nice varing thoughtful guy right? so i'm real confused now. pls help me! thanks :) |
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Oct 28 2006, 11:21 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it doesn't sound like he's leading you on... he just sounds like he wants to get to know you more...i mean he knows that you like him and he probably likes you back, who knows?
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Oct 29 2006, 12:52 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
i don't think he's trying to lead you on. i think he's just trying to be nice cuz he knows you like him. so basically he feels sorry for you?
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Oct 29 2006, 08:52 AM
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Seems to me he just wants to be friends, but if your uncertain you should try to get to know him a little bit more see if hes giving you hints, dont jump into any conclusions and give it some time. If I was you I would wait it out.
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Oct 29 2006, 09:37 AM
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He could be, or maybe not. Shy types of boys like that are confusing because the shy ones tend to have a harder time expressing their emotions, or not know what emotions they even express. Be careful with him, but yeah he just might be trying to get to know you better, or he may be a complete jerk thats trying to get down your pants once you're comfortable with him.
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Oct 29 2006, 10:26 AM
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He probably isn't, leading you on would be like what my ex just did to me yesterday, saying he liked you and then going out and getting a new girlfriend.
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Oct 29 2006, 11:14 AM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
I don't think he's leading you on. I mean, if no rumors have started, and he's being a really good friend to you.. maybe he likes you, too? Try not to think into it so much and just go with the flow. =]
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Oct 30 2006, 02:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
well, has he told you how he feels? you should ask that sometime. and if he sends you messages out of the blue, then thats definitly a hmmmmm. hes shy right? you make the move. girls need to make the move more often man. its 2006!
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Oct 30 2006, 10:01 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
thanks guys! lol still rather confused on what to do next though. i guess i'll just wait and see what happens lol. but the chances of having a happy fairytale is slim right?
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Oct 30 2006, 12:08 PM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
erm reply to my question if you happen to read this. i'm like still lost and wanna know more from different people. thanks!
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Oct 30 2006, 05:43 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ use the edit button next time
but yeah why not try and make that happy fairytale happen? |
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Oct 31 2006, 09:30 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
but it's tough? man, he's like the shyest guy on earth.. lol my senior told me that to not msg him too much or he'll get scared when he gave me his number lol
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Oct 31 2006, 01:36 PM
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Well, I don't think he's leading you on. I think he's just putting you in the 'friend zone' for now until he knows you better. Cheering you on for tests? That's something a friend would do. Hang out with him more.. and don't feel awkward about him knowing that you like him, just go about things normally.
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Oct 31 2006, 10:48 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
if he would had really liked you he would have told you by now. i think he just wants to be friends so your feelings wont be hurt so basically hes leading you on.
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Nov 7 2006, 09:10 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
what's the reaction time of guys? he seems to be taking a long time.....
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Nov 7 2006, 11:18 AM
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^ sweetie, give him time. you don't want to be pressuring him. i think it's good to just be friends FOR NOW. when you guys get closer, and know each other better, maybe sparks can happen.
giving him time would show you're supportive and patient, which is a plus. :] |
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Nov 8 2006, 08:16 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
uhh okay lol
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Dec 24 2006, 08:56 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
uh still kinda need help here
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