best friend problem. Options

[ariana8716]

okay so there's this boy i like,
well we had this christmas dance coming up,and i got my friend to go tell him she knew someone that wanted to go to the dance with him and go out with him,but not to tell, yet .

well supposevly since she wouldn't tell him,he said he wasnt going.
so then i said yes to this other guy,
and then a few days later my best friend runs to my locker and is like
"OMGOMGOMG guess who asked me to the dance?!"
and i was like "who?"

and she goes
"PATRICK!!"

and i had told her a few months before i liked him and stuff.

and so then
i had to pretend to be happy and i told her to say yes and stuff.

well my friend lateria told him i was upset and stuff because i wanted to go with him,
and so we were tlaking on AIM and he was like im so so sorry and stuff,and we made some
funny jokes and stuff and he gave me a few compliments.

then he was tlaking with osmeother people and my friend told me somebody was like who would go to the dance with ariana? and then patrick was like yeah who would go to the dance with her?

so my ffeelings were hurt and i was kinda mad/upset because like i really
thought he liked me because we went to a party and he was all over me
laying on me..putting his arms around me,tickling me..soo much stuf.

welll like 2 days went by, i played happywith christine[bestfriend] and then came home and cried.

well one day we were talking,and she was like "so are you ok with me and patrick
going to the dance together because you dont seem like it."

well i didn't know if i should tell her or not,but another one of my friends said it was time.
so i did.
and she started freaking out and stuff saying she couldnt do this to me and stuff cus she was like ur my best friend and i dont wanna loose you.

and so i told her to at least still go to the dance with him,and then if he asked her out or something we could talk about what she would say then.
she told me she wouldnt like do anything to upset me and she was worried about me not hanging outw tih her so much and she was like but we barely hangout anyways.
and i was like telling her i didnt care and it was ok but anyone in their right mind would know i wasnt okay. she also told me she swore i never told her i liked him,but i KNOW for a fact i did.

welllll lastnight was the night of the dance,
and he was going to ask her out.

well patrick was like r u still mad at me or upset with me and i just looked at him
and he goes well i like ur dress and then i was like holding my hand out and he grabbed my hand and i slapped his and said leave me alone.

and then i told christine he was going to ask her out.
and he goes well ariana i really really like him..alot.
and so then i walked away and later i found out she said yes.

=[
i dont know what to do.
help.

[xlitoxb]

So much for a best friend. This happened to my best friend, too and well.. she's not talking to her cousin anymore. >_< I guess for now, just follow your instincts and if you know for sure that you told ur bf you liked Patrick, and she just decided to not hear it, that's not a very good friend in my opinion. *shrugs* I would say don't let a boy get in the way of your friendship, but I don't know. It seems more complicated than it really is. GAHH, and I rambled so much.

Basically, just stay away from them for now, until you can clear out your head and really think about what you wanna do. =] Good luck my dear!

[ariana8716]

So much for a best friend. This happened to my best friend, too and well.. she's not talking to her cousin anymore. >_< I guess for now, just follow your instincts and if you know for sure that you told ur bf you liked Patrick, and she just decided to not hear it, that's not a very good friend in my opinion. *shrugs* I would say don't let a boy get in the way of your friendship, but I don't know. It seems more complicated than it really is. GAHH, and I rambled so much.

Basically, just stay away from them for now, until you can clear out your head and really think about what you wanna do. =] Good luck my dear!

thanks.

[ariana8716]

bump.

anyone else?

[PandaKnight14]

I'd like to say that in your situation, I'd put my friend's happiness before mine and take it, but really, I don't know... Good luck resolving it, though...

[letsPlaydoctor.]

this is why i think the word "best friend" is over rated.
best friends usually end up stabbing you in the back.

and f**k THE BOY.
boys come and go.

bro's before ho's, man.
:D
hahahah.
but be happy for your friend.
you'll get over the idiot.

i bet later he'll be kicking himself.
it usually happens.
then he'll be like, I LOVE YOU!
and you'll be like, NO.
and everyone around him will be like, DENIED.
and he'll go cry.

the end.
:D

[demolished]

GOD. YOUR ENGLISH IS SO HARD TO READ.

WHAT FRIEND? BEST FRIEND, REGULAR FRIEND? I'M SO CONFUSED.

[OhMyAnniee]

Aw, how sad.

I think you should ask your bestfriend for some time apart.
Tell her that she's not losing you in any way but you just need some time to think about everything. IF she's your bestfriend, she'll understand.

This guy...... he's hard to define, why did he take your hand?
Maybe he's just the type of guy who doesn't like it when people are mad at him?

[minioligo]

I'm sorry about your situation. ;[

Even though it does seem like your "best friend" stabbed you in the back, it seems like she's a pretty considerate friend anyway. The boy seems like one of those guys where they're assholes with their friends but nice to you alone. Do you really still like him after all that drama happened? I think you should find a new, genuine guy (: Anyway, just talk to your best friend about it like you said you would do in the beginning. I think you should consider your best friend's feelings and the boy's feelings as well--people can't help their feelings. I don't know, if it were me, I would probably let them go out anyway...because you know, who am I to say who you can and can't go out with?