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Jerico Drum
post Dec 22 2006, 06:55 AM
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Why is it wrong for a guy to be a virgin. Be honest when I ask this, would you make fun of a guy if he was a virgin till he was 18. Most of my guy and girl friends lossed there viginity between 12 and 14 with someone that the broke p with not to long after. Some people used to make fun of mew when I was a virgin. i for one was proud because I was waiting for something special and it would be better then anything they had. I refused to ever date. I got asked out a lot in middle school and once in elementry 0.o but always said no...until i met Rachel and we had sex when I was 15 and she was 18...we are still together though and that was over a year and a half ago. Sorry, I am getting a little off topic. so anyway, why do guys make fun of dudes who havn't had sex? and as a second question have you ever felt pressure into sex.

Statistics say that 8% more men feel pressured into sex then women. I though this was intresting and I would like to here your imput.
 
 
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post Dec 22 2006, 08:40 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her.
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 06:58 AM
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Yea, I don't think there's anything wrong with a guy being a virgin.
It can be a turn on for some girls too,
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 01:26 PM
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just make your own decisions its not more mature if you have had sex... really the mature thing is to stay a virgin until you find that special someone.
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 03:03 PM
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There is nothing wrong with it. It's just most teenagers today that seem to have a problem with it. I guess they think it's wrong because a guy who wants to wait around seems as if he has feminine qualities, because you're more likely to hear a girl say that she wants to wait for the perfect guy.

I think it's impressive. It shows that you're really determined to do it with someone who means everything to you.
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 03:18 PM
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This topic reminds me of Joe.
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 05:04 PM
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It's not wrong.

Guys just think it's cool, which is fine if you don't _smile.gif
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 07:50 PM
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This topic reminds me of Joe.
 
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post Dec 25 2006, 07:53 PM
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QUOTE(onewaysalcha @ Dec 25 2006, 4:50 PM) *
This topic reminds me of Joe.


lmao. so what if they lost their viginity at 12, 14, whatever? i'd say that's pretty lame.

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There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her.


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post Dec 26 2006, 12:23 AM
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it's not. i think a guy staying virgin tells the girl that cares for her and would rather save it for later.
 
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post Dec 26 2006, 12:31 AM
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QUOTE(Jerico Drum @ Dec 22 2006, 3:55 AM) *
Most of my guy and girl friends lossed there viginity between 12 and 14 with someone that the broke p with not to long after.

Between 12 and 14?! Gosh...
 
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post Dec 26 2006, 02:14 AM
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i dont see anything wrong with it...i was still a virgin when i was 18 because i chose to be...i had many chances but turned them down...nothing wrong with it in my opinion.
 
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post Dec 26 2006, 06:35 AM
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why are so many girls replying to a guy's problem?

wanna know why? cause a guy who isnt willing to have sex doesnt have confidence. they have conviction, but on the outside, they appear to not have confidence to go all the way. in that sense, they are not truly a man.

or course we have a ton of hopeless romantics on this forum. and its admirable to save yourself for marriage. but many just dont have the patience or the strength of will to truly love someone w/o sex, or they just dont care.
 
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post Dec 26 2006, 06:53 AM
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QUOTE(lanbexx @ Dec 26 2006, 7:35 PM) *
or course we have a ton of hopeless romantics on this forum. and its admirable to save yourself for marriage. but many just dont have the patience or the strength of will to truly love someone w/o sex, or they just dont care.

That's kinda sad laugh.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2006, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(onewaysalcha @ Dec 25 2006, 4:50 PM) *
This topic reminds me of Joe.

Hella mean.
 
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post Dec 26 2006, 05:04 PM
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why are girls inputing hopeless romantic advice to a guy asking a serious question to other guys?

since, ya know, girls dont exactly understand guy problems.
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 12:43 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Dec 22 2006, 7:40 AM) *
There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her.



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i agree.
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 01:34 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Dec 22 2006, 5:40 AM) *
There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her.


^ agreed. thumbsup.gif
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 01:58 AM
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QUOTE(lanbexx @ Dec 26 2006, 3:35 AM) *
why are so many girls replying to a guy's problem?


hey, there are guys in the girl's locker room too.
Don't lose your virginity just to blend in with everyone else. I mean, unique is different but unique is definitely special.
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 02:13 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 08:33 PM
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there's nothing wrong with a guy being a virgin. most girls would be pretty impressed with you &it could be an "learning process".
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 08:46 PM
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there's nothing wrong with a guy being a virgin. most girls would be pretty impressed with you &it could be an "learning process".

Thats one way to look at it. Another way is seeing how pathetic you are and that you can't get any ass.
 
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post Dec 27 2006, 10:18 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with anyone staying a virgin til they met the right person. Even if they were 18 or older. Age is just a number.
 
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post Dec 28 2006, 01:55 AM
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It's not wrong..... just weird... i like my men READY... if you know what I mean!
 
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