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 Dec 4 2006, 10:38 PM
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someone you'd known since elelmentry skool likes you and now your in hs what do you do? hes at my bus stop and he never talks to me cuz of the whole weirdness thing..everytime i see him he looks at me and i know for a fact that he's thinking of something when he does. he'll talk to everyone except me and my bff i swear and no..its not a guy so he cant get jealus.i think i might like him too..but im not going to do anything im going to regret.
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Dec 5 2006, 12:04 AM
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is there anything else that makes you think he likes you?
anything else than he doesnt talk to you, and when he looks at you? cause you may be jumping to conclusions. |
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Dec 5 2006, 12:09 AM
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Genin Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,009 |
I wish I had a little bit more info. here lol
I agree, you may be jumping to conclusions. Maybe you have something on your face? Maybe he doesn't like your hair cut? Maybe he thinks you're amazingly hot? Maybe he wants you to help him get with you BFF? Who knows! And can you explain the whole "he'll talk to everyone except me and my bff i swear?" So..what...he talks to everyone else at the bus stop except for you two? "i think i might like him too..but im not going to do anything im going to regret." Also, you're not even sure of your own feelings for him. You never want to make a move on someone if you aren't even sure you like them. |
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Dec 5 2006, 12:18 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 474,883 |
oooh yeah.
i've done that before. THOUGHT i liked a boy, then he liked me, and i was like. uhhh...no? haha. but yeah. MORE DEETS! :D |
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Dec 5 2006, 01:08 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
And even if you guys do anything, you'd be scared shitless, that it won't even be called a relationship.
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Dec 5 2006, 01:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
Just talk to him.
Be like "we never talk anymore......how's life since ______?" Maybe that'll break the ice? |
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Dec 5 2006, 02:46 PM
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i agree with all of the above.
the jumping to the conclusions. whatever. thing. anyway. wait for more sings, unless there's more you can tell us? 
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Dec 5 2006, 04:59 PM
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This Conversation Is Over Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 465,013 |
im basicly sayin he used to talk to me and all of a sudden he dosen't he'll talk to any random person but he won't talk to me or my best friend.its really weird maybe i am jumping to conclusions but i wish guys could just say what they feel and not end upletting me guessing cuz then i get stressed out and worried and everyrthing else that goes along with it.because i wouldnt get worried if i didnt think that i like him too...
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Dec 5 2006, 06:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
You should just go up to him and say "Hi, long time no talk" to lighten the mood and lessen the awkwardness. Try to be friends with him again and see if there are any other signs that he may like you. He may just be staring at you because he's wondering whether he should talk to you or not since you last saw each other in elementary school. If it turns out he does like you, ask him to hang out and things should move from there.
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Dec 5 2006, 09:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
If you're too scared to talk to one another, how do you expect to have a real relationship? At least get to know him better, and don't jump to conclusions.
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Dec 6 2006, 06:32 PM
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Genin Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,009 |
QUOTE(!LA LA La LIE~ @ Dec 5 2006, 1:59 PM)  im basicly sayin he used to talk to me and all of a sudden he dosen't he'll talk to any random person but he won't talk to me or my best friend.its really weird maybe i am jumping to conclusions but i wish guys could just say what they feel and not end upletting me guessing cuz then i get stressed out and worried and everyrthing else that goes along with it.because i wouldnt get worried if i didnt think that i like him too... Like everyone else said, talk to him some how. I know it might be difficult and awkward, but if things work smoothly, it may work out. Wo0yaPo0ya said that maybe he stares at you cuz he's trying to decide if he should talk to you or not. I agree. I have a question though, when was the last time you talked to him? Anything happen that may have irritated him? |
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Dec 7 2006, 02:31 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe he just doesn't like you.
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Dec 7 2006, 06:29 PM
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1TRIPZ FUCC UP Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,242 |
No connection, just smile at the guy and try to initiate casual conversations, because you're not going to get anything out of him. You're just going to make him happy, don't lead him on though!
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Dec 8 2006, 01:38 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
hm, so he's cutting off communication with you, and making it obvious in doing so by talking to other random people.
well, chances are you are right that he is interested. now, you need to make him feel comfortable again. u've known him since elementary school, so just go up and talk to him. |
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Dec 9 2006, 10:41 PM
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This Conversation Is Over Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 465,013 |
thanks
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