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 Dec 17 2006, 04:57 AM
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Okay here's my problem: I really liked this guy and like fell head over heel for him. We became bf/gf and the whole other long story. Well, anyway, one of my guy friends that I had liked in the past came back into my life and i kinda developed a crush on him again. I felt so guilty. I didn't flirt with my guy friend or anything, but I just felt so bad. It was killing me and so i decided I should break up with my b/f. I felt too guilty to deal with all my emotions. I really miss my ex, and i know i made a big mistake. I want to know if anyone has advice on how i could fix my whole more than one crush at a time problem and how i can get over my feeling for old bf. I haven't even talked to him since i broke up with him bcoz i think he hates me now. Is it normal to have more than one crush?
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Dec 17 2006, 03:27 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Sounds like what happened to me. Try explaining to your ex about how you felt. Just try causually talking to him first though, incase he does have a little grudge or whatnot. I'm sure that if you took the time to explain to him that you didn't wanna hurt him by ur mixed feelings, then he might lighten up. =]
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Dec 17 2006, 04:30 PM
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Hormones. I agree ^ I know it sounds rude but if you're in a serious relationship with someone it should be exclusive. I mean, if you want him back talk to him about it and just let him know you were confused. It's not like you cheated on him so I don't think you have to feel guilty. Sometimes when someone comes back into your life you forget that you've moved on and it's easy for those old feelings to come back, but you also have to realize that your relationship with the old friend isn't what it once was.
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Dec 17 2006, 09:58 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
You have to decide who you want to be with and stick with that person. If your feelings for your guy friend are stronger than your feelings for your now ex, then act on them. If you want to be with your ex more now, then try to win him back.
Sitting around moping isn't going to do you any good. You have to go after what you want. If you want him back, apologize to him and try to rebuild the relationship. |
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Dec 18 2006, 05:37 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,866 |
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it.
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Dec 21 2006, 09:45 PM
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 Bonjour Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,449 |
totally normal.
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