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 Dec 2 2006, 04:08 PM
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 Peggy.  Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025  |
My friend (girl) got a boyfriend in the summer and she introduced her boyfriend to me on AIM, then her bf and I started talking online and eventually seeing each other at school because he has same classes with me. It has become so obvious that he does all kinds of PDA to my friend, but I don't get it why I receive the PDA too, for example, hugging, cuddling, and holding hands. Everytime he tries to do that to me, I brush him away and slap him, but he won't stop. Now he says he likes me, I am confused because I still see him kissing my friend every day and now he likes me? I don't get how he can kiss another girl and likes me at the same time, what a jerk he is. My other friends say that he is cheating on my friend for me. I need to save my reputation (I am afraid that it would become a rumor because the relationship between my friend and her bf is very publicized already) because I am not interested in him and I only think of him as a friend. Right now I avoid seeing him but we have same classes so it's inevitable that I will see him and talk to him. I don't know how to confront my friend about this because I don't want her to get jealous at me and start that girl drama, but on the other hand, I might need to tell her to stop her bf from getting too close to me. He acts so normal towards me when he is with my friend, but when we are alone or whenever she is not there, I just run away from him but I can't do that during class and I don't want to create that drama to change schedule because of that especially I am content with my schedule.
How should I deal with this jerk? Should I just go up to my friend and enumerate how bad her bf is and create a mess/drama? Should I just lose a friend (her bf) instead? I would thank you all in advance. |
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Dec 2 2006, 04:55 PM
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 it's just me ;) Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,527 |
^ I agree with you completely :)
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Dec 2 2006, 04:56 PM
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Yeah, you should end the friendship with the guy and save your friendship with the girl. You've known her much longer than you've known him, and friends come before boys. If you tell her that he's the one making moves on you and make it clear that you never wanted that, then she shouldn't get jealous of or angry at you. She should trust you.
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