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 Dec 3 2006, 02:29 AM
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 brandon demarin  Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512  |
so im a guy and my best friend is a girl. she got with this dude like a few months ago and i didnt really care but yesterday, i was just sittin around at school and i saw them hug and kiss and stuff and i don't know why but it kinda made me feel sad and jealous inside. i don't really know what to do now and im all confused and mixed up and don't know what to do.
after seeing them, it kinda wanted me to have a girlfriend but then like its so hard to find a girl and im not good looking and there's like all these other dudes who are like so much "cooler" than me and im shy and omg its just so frustrating. honestly, i dont really what you guys can say to comfort me or give advice but thanks for reading anyways. 
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Dec 3 2006, 02:38 AM
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you must like her, im guessing? =P
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Dec 3 2006, 12:49 PM
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aww, you probably just like her. and there's nothing wrong with that. in my opinion, most relationships start as a friendship. whenever i see my crush with another girl, i kinda get jealous and wish i had a bf, too. it's nothing major. just don't meddle. [spelling?
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Dec 3 2006, 01:00 PM
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You may just be feeling jealous that she now has another guy besides you who she likes to be with. There's nothing wrong with that, but you're just hurting yourself. You should let her know how you feel and maybe have your own hangout times together. While you may not be able to see each other as much as you used to, it doesn't mean you should always have to watch her with him and feel hurt.
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Dec 3 2006, 01:34 PM
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you might as they said up there like her but you never noticed it untill now.
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Dec 3 2006, 02:23 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
I think it just finally hit you that your best friend kind of left you somehow. Not completely but theres that certain comfort she left with. Its natural to feel a bit jealous and lonely cause someone you got great along with and who you shared everything with took her away from you. And now you wish you had the sort of relationship she has with her boyfriend. If you talked to he rabout it im sure she would understand. Just let her know if she needs someone to fall on your always going to be there =]
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