complicated?, eh... just read it please? Options

[drummergirlmarim...]

okay so i like this guy. and i think he might like me. i know. total immature way of using these boards. :p ah well. deal. well. okay, honestly, im 15. ive never been in a relationship cept for a 3 week dating thing that didnt go too well cuz i was "too shy" but actually i didnt know what i was doing. it was my first time dating. what do you expect? well anyways, we're both in band. we're both in percussion. so we spend a lot of time together. and me, well im a happy person. optimistic. and kind of everything i do makes people think im flirting. actually its just me. im huggy, i love life, i kiss my best friend on the cheek (not a very asian thing to do). so now. and i just hold hands with anyone on a daily basis especially when im cold. and steal people's jackets. and whatnot. i should just tell you the facts eh? i like him. and i hold his hands a lot. his hands are uber warm. halloween i invited him to go with my parents and me to w. h0llywood. nice eh? not really. much too many explicit junk. and its so easy to get lost. and i kept on getting lost that he finally just took my hand and we held our hands the whole way. and in that "tangle fingers" way of hold hands. and we also did that when we went to universal studios with our fellow bandsmen m and t. well yeah. thats not the complicated part.
i hate people liking me. i think highschool relationships have too much drama. but sadly. many people mistake my me-ness as "flirting" (what is flirting anyway?! i dont even know what it is....) and they take it as a sign to make their move. and they start liking me. this boy h, p, k, r, and v like me. and its kinda annoying cuz h liked me since last year. same with v... hes kinda stalkerish. k and p are friends that dont like each other cuz they both like me (oh i feel horrible) and r likes me cuz i have no idea. but anyways... yeah. what am i supposed to do... turn completely horrible in order to shoo them away?! man. and i still have complicated feelings about that guy s that i dated for 3 weeks. but i know i like who i like right now. cuz he makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. idk, im blabbing.

[Laughsalot]

do you live in asia? or the U.S? i'm guessing you were born in asia but moved to the U.S? i have some freinds that are like that. i'm vietnamese. i live in vietnam and i have some freinds that were born in vietnam and moved to the U.S when they were 14. hah but i'm the opposite. i was born in the u.s and now i move to vietnam when i'm 14 now.

anyway if you like the guy and u know he likes you. then try to find out from his guy freinds or freinds or something.

[SimplicityGirl]

Well the things you do DOES seem a bit flirtatious =S Especially the holding hands part...

If you don't want ppl to like you in that way...why dont' you just ...don't pay so much attention to them? You dont have to horrible and shoo them away, but keep your distance from them. And if they still dont get it, you can always tell them in a nice way.

As for the guy, if you like him....and he likes you, go for it =]

[DORKalicious]

awww thats cute yeah i feel the same about hs relationships and about people liking me, theres alot of pressure from peers and stuff. but dont be like me..go out with the boy.

[*Pl-dot-lS*]

Three things to get him to ask you out.

1. Stop holding hands with anyone except for him.
2. Stop stealing anyone else's jacket.
3. When you two get close enough, run. Run as far away as you can. ( We love "the chase." )

[-sincerely]

so just 'flirt' [be yourself] with everybody BUT him?
tough one...

[drummergirlmarim...]

oh darnit. yeah, i guess it is a bit overboard.. :/ but its like ~_~ idk. imm just like that. i grab peoples hands. itsnot exactly "holdinng hands" but its like HIGHFIVE linger ish? im a slow person. reaction AND mind-wise.. bleh. ahh well, things will go as they go. im not one to linger at one problem or whatnotwhatnot. :) im really quite frank about everything and whatnot usually. sooo yeah :p

[AngryBaby]

theres this thing. i think its called paragraphs? yeah? maybe?

use them. my eyes burn reading it.

[hojax]

lol stop being such a tease

of course all these guys are going to like you because you lead them on and make them think you like them (even if it's "unintentional")

i have a friend exactly like you and frankly..she finally admitted that she did it because she loves the attention of it...so i mean...you may be like her..and it's all fun and games...but if you can't handle a relationship then maybe you should stop messing with these poor boys minds

just stop being so touchy-feely with everyone and limit it to the one guy.

[tokyo-rose]

You should stop holding hands with, stealing the jackets of, and hugging the guy friends who you don't have crushes on. It's very misleading for them because it seems like you like them (that's very flirtatious behavior), yet you're doing it to all your guy friends. Not to mention it creates a bad rep for you among your schoolmates when they see you doing this with so many guys. Hopefully those guys will stop liking you if you stop the behavior.

As for the guy you like, try to hang out with him one-on-one and see how he behaves around you. If he flirts back, then he probably likes you and you should ask him out.