i'm just curious to know... Options

[missylou]

what does it mean when you never spoke to a guy and then he starts talking to you. Then one day all of the sudden he isn't talking to you as much anymore.i'm not talking boyfriend,i'm talking crush. but whenever i speak to him he's fine and sometimes he will still come and speak to me. it's just not as often as it used to be. and sometimes it's like he'll make an excuse just to speak to me after we haven't spoken at all for that day. any views?

[TearsOfAPhoenix]

Guys can be quite weird. Everything is usually unique to the guy. Generally when a guy makes up excuses to talk you its a good sign. It shows they want to get to know you better and are most likely attracted to you. If he's not talking to you as often maybe he's not trying to make it too obvious he is interested in you or maybe he talked to you and saw that he only saw you as a friend. It all depends on how he talks to you when you do speak, if he's flirty or what not.

Don't feel bad if he immediately detached himself from you. I was getting to know this one guy and we really hit it off and all of a sudden he stopped talking to me when I thought we would really be great friends and maybe more. It turned out he was really interested but he wasn't ready for a relationship or didn't want to let himself like me or something like that, but like I said guys are weird, just like girls.

So if he doesn't talk to you, you go talk to him and see if you get something going.