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attraction factor, yeah.
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post Nov 4 2006, 08:52 PM
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We were talking about this at lunch, and I thought it was so true.


So many people say that looks don't matter and they base their relationships on personality. To an extent, it's semi-true. True, whoever you date doesn't have to be beautiful, but you have to be attracted to them! Right? I mean, personality's great, don't get me wrong. But you can't have a relationship where you're not attracted to the person physically at all. You can be great friends with someone's personality, but you can't date their personality! You can't have sex with their personality!

Personally, although this might be completely shallow of me, I really think that attraction is key in a relationship.



What brought this on... I have a guy friend who was really upset because his girlfriend texted him saying that she wasn't really "attracted" to him anymore, even though she really likes his personality and stuff. Basically, what she wanted was to keep on dating, but she wanted him to stop kissing her or hugging her, etc.

How can you have a relationship like that? So he was pissed off and they ended up breaking up. Fun.
 

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funk.this   attraction factor   Nov 4 2006, 08:52 PM
peggysturr   I think looks and personality are both important. ...   Nov 4 2006, 08:58 PM
Serendipity.   QUOTE(peggysturr @ Nov 4 2006, 5:58 PM) I...   Nov 4 2006, 09:39 PM
deus_ex_machina   QUOTE(peggysturr @ Nov 5 2006, 9:58 AM) I...   Nov 5 2006, 08:09 AM
ashopely   i think personality and looks are BOTH important. ...   Nov 4 2006, 10:08 PM
SimplicityGirl   Well...my bf isn't exactly what you'd call...   Nov 5 2006, 01:53 AM
tinasmileeetina   QUOTELooks...do play a part in a relationship. But...   Nov 5 2006, 03:24 AM
&/degradanca.   yeah... i agree with simplicitygirl. if someone l...   Nov 5 2006, 05:01 AM
Angelina Taylor   Call me odd, but I don't get attracted to some...   Nov 5 2006, 10:47 AM
ashopely   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Nov 5 2006, 10:47...   Nov 5 2006, 02:19 PM
Horib   The guy i currently like isnt..well he isnt that a...   Nov 5 2006, 11:41 AM
_sarcastic_   yeah i agree looks does count to a certain extent,...   Nov 5 2006, 02:43 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Nov 5 2006, 2:43 PM) ...   Nov 5 2006, 11:58 PM
a painefull euphoria   my boyfriend is what is defined is a average looki...   Nov 25 2006, 06:42 PM
gigiopolis   A part of me likes to believe that we are attracte...   Nov 25 2006, 07:00 PM
funk.this   QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Nov 25 2006, 6:00 PM) ...   Nov 26 2006, 08:57 PM
Crestfallen Shadow   Looks make up only 5% of someone's attractiven...   Nov 26 2006, 01:55 AM
lil_gymnast6   Looks don't really matter to me, I go for the ...   Nov 26 2006, 12:26 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   As much as anyone would try to argue, everyone foc...   Nov 26 2006, 12:32 PM
angel_revelation   "You can't have sex with their personalit...   Nov 26 2006, 06:02 PM
yrrnotelekktric   I don`t think that a relationship without kiss...   Nov 26 2006, 08:30 PM


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