I just got a new girlfriend.., And I need just a little help |
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 Nov 13 2006, 06:35 PM
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It has been a while since I had a girlfriend(about 10 months) and could anybody help me with stuff to do, how to be sweet, what to say whenever. I could use the help until I get used to dating again. Thanks to whoever helps!
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Nov 15 2006, 02:08 AM
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 oh baby! Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 404,785 |
Compliment her once in a while.
Haha, seduce her. |
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Nov 15 2006, 03:54 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
DON'T:
lie cheat ditch her for your friends ignore her in front of your friends flirt with other girls a lot tell her " ___(girl) is so hot!!!!" etc. DO: compliment her tell her she's pretty hold her hand, hug her, be sweet :) open doors for her send nice SMSes just because call her just because pay for her sometimes. introduce her to people as your girlfriend, not friend. yeah... :) good luck haha |
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Nov 15 2006, 11:18 AM
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tell her she's beautiful. make her laugh. :]
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 15 2006, 11:28 AM
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tickle her,
its cute and funny |
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Nov 15 2006, 02:42 PM
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QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Nov 15 2006, 3:54 AM)  DON'T: lie cheat ditch her for your friends ignore her in front of your friends flirt with other girls a lot tell her " ___(girl) is so hot!!!!" etc. DO: compliment her tell her she's pretty hold her hand, hug her, be sweet :) open doors for her send nice SMSes just because call her just because pay for her sometimes. introduce her to people as your girlfriend, not friend. yeah... :) good luck haha yes! that's the best advice. also: pretty NOT sexy beautiful NOT hot |
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Nov 15 2006, 05:39 PM
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Surprise her with big hugs!
Like hug her from the back or something, but don't attack her! |
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| *Libertie* |
Nov 15 2006, 06:03 PM
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QUOTE(ashopely @ Nov 15 2006, 1:42 PM) yes! that's the best advice. also: pretty NOT sexy beautiful NOT hot In the right context, of course. I don't mind being called sexy/hot - but early in a relationship it just feels like you're being objectified (not to mention it's creepy coming from a guy you just started dating). Don't overdo it - be yourself, of course. If she likes you, it's not necessary to put on an act to impress her. |
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Nov 15 2006, 06:23 PM
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Nah, just be yourself and if she cant accpet that then she isn't the right one.
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Nov 15 2006, 06:39 PM
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Salute. Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,420 |
Thanks to you all, I will make sure I be myself and reward her in all the ways she rightly deserves!
 So its all good, any more special advice though, im still open to it! 
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Nov 16 2006, 12:00 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Make her feel special. Say sweet and cute things to her. Flowers. Unexpected presents. Hold her hand. Hug. Kisses on the forehead, cheek, lips, neck, hand. Attention. Make time for her. Share an ice cream with her (I love to do this with my boyfriend ^^). Sing for her. Tell her you love her when you mean it. Make up cute nick names for each other. cuddle. snuggle. make fun of each other =P. Tickles. Put your arm around her shoulder/waist. Make her feel safe. Be proud to have her as your girlfriend and show that pride. Protect her. When she's cold, hug her til she's warm again. Play with her hair. Look into her eyes when you two are talking. Never forget to compliment her. Always tell her how lucky you are to have her. Tell her how much you like her. Tell her stories. Watch the stars together. Let her listen to your heartbeat, it makes her feel safe. Nap with her. Remember special days.
And of course...just be yourself =] |
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Nov 16 2006, 01:28 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
be yourself that's the most important thing
and pretty much what everyone else said |
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Nov 17 2006, 10:15 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
it all kind of depends on her preferences, if she likes being gushy or not, or more independent... i personally love it if a guy gives me his sweatshirt or coat when it's cold
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Nov 22 2006, 10:16 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,252 |
My friend was going to clubs to meet women but he was always having tough luck. He wanted to find a girlfriend like most guys.
He then stumbled upon the Attract Women website and took the Course with them on meeting and dating women. He now has a hot girlfriend! The site is [advertising removed]. I'm thinking to get an ebook "how to attract women naturally" apparently written by Alex Nova Dating Coach from Melbourne. Anybody heard of him ?? Cheers, Matty This post has been edited by Libertie: Nov 23 2006, 09:22 PM |
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Nov 23 2006, 01:24 AM
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Hey no advertising^
What was said above basically. But don't compliment her too much, then it sounds fake. Make a comment about what she's wearing, that works a lot. |
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Nov 23 2006, 08:29 PM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
just be yourself !!!
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Nov 23 2006, 08:44 PM
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Well--basically just yeah. Be yourself and treat her right. A sweet gentleman is always nice.
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Nov 23 2006, 08:45 PM
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Tell her how beautiful you think she is. Trust me, I wish my boyfriend would've said that more when we were dating. He swears he did, but he didn't. I definitely wouldn't have forgotten. And just be sweet, bring her a rose or something small ever once in a while. Make sure you tell her how glad you are that you two are dating or are together or whatever stage you are in. Girls notice the LITTLE things more than anything else.
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