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 Nov 19 2006, 10:32 AM
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ok, so first time I've ever actually posted a topic...stay with me here....
Alright, so for the past month or two, I've been into this guy. He's really nice, and has a great sence of humor. We talk a lot, and enjoy each other's company. Not the best looking guy in the world, but looks don't really matter to me. Anyway, I think he's been sending signals that he likes me, too. for instance, he's in band with me, and the past couple of times we've had 2-3 hour long bus rides to compititions and parades and such, we've been quite...cozy on the band bus. He's really funny, and can always make me laugh. He aknowedges my presence in school, talks to me, listens to me when I'm angry, and conforts me when I'm sad. ect. A lot of people have asked both of us if we were going out...and we're not....right now. I don't know what he thinks of it. and I don't think he's ever had a gf before. I really like him a lot but I don't know if he feels the same. how do I handle this? |
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Nov 19 2006, 12:22 PM
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i'm in the same situation!
 for now, i guess just wait for more signals. because that still sounds kind of friendly. i mean, friends talk to each other and listen to each other... well, maybe. because you said you guys are cozy on the bus. depends. i don't really know this guy personally, so it's hard to tell. |
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Nov 19 2006, 03:39 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I was in the same situation before me and my current crush got together. Either talk to him about it, or wait for more signals from him. You should be able to "feel" that he likes you...chances are that if you THINK he likes you, there's a high chance that he does. =] Good luck.
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Nov 19 2006, 06:12 PM
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id personaly try and make a move.
but i guess you could wait a while longer to make sure. |
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Nov 19 2006, 07:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
See if anything else happens
or maybe if he asks you to hang out with him sometime. If he does ask you to hang out with just him, ask him if its like a date and if he says yes, congrats! 
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Nov 20 2006, 02:58 AM
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 Watch This Group: Member Posts: 886 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,408 |
Tell him how you feel. You can't hold it in. You might hold it in too long. I did once before and lost my chance. I was devastated....
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Nov 20 2006, 04:18 PM
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^agreed.
tell him how you feel. drop hints |
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Nov 21 2006, 01:03 AM
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^yep. you can push it and tell him how you feel;
or not. |
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Nov 21 2006, 05:39 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Wait and see what happens or go for it, girl =]
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Nov 21 2006, 03:26 PM
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 Starving Artist Group: Official Designer Posts: 444 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,344 |
I was in the same situation with my current boyfriend.
We were always together, and everyone kept asking me if we were, but I didn't know how he felt about it. Finally he asked me if we were or not, cause he didn't know how I felt about it either. So maybe your guy is the same way, just as confused as you are. Or he's afraid to talk to you about it cause he doesn't know how you'll react. I guess the best thing to do is to talk to him, cause like someone up there said, you might miss your chance. |
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