Is no one scared to have sex Options

[evaleen]

Eh, it's up to you. Just don't give in if you don't want to. If he loves you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, he most likely be angry at you. It's your choice. I say no since you sound doubtful.

As for it hurting, I guess it really depends on the person. It hurts for some, and it doesn't hurt for others.

[klwfbh]

It's definitely alll up to you.
But if you said no & he left Because of that.
He wasn't worth it anyways.
How old are you?

[tropicalchic]

If you're worried and questioning on whether to do it or not, DON'T. Don't have sex untill you are completly sure with your desicion, you don't want to regret it later.

[splitnightsky]

wait. it's the best way ;)
like everyone else says, he's no man at all if all he wants is to deposit his sperm.

personally, I'm trying to wait til marriage ;)
only my husband will see my cash n'prizes (hehe..)
and boy, will it be fun.
I cannot wait :)
well, guess I can....ehe ^_^;

but as for it hurting,
everyone is unique there, depending on your specific anatomy ;)

[sweetfeet]

Do it. Just find a way to not get pregnant.

I agree! Sex is fun. Yeah, it hurts the first time, but honestly I was a lot more scared the first time I had anal sex. That hurt too, but it's also fun when you get into it.

[creamyxlicious]

That subject most definately scares the heck out of me.
Sex, it's a big thing.. Though I talk about it and joke..
Maybe even once in a while I think about it in great detail..

But even so when it comes down to the dirty deed
I wouldn't have the guts to do it.
For good reasons, I wouldn't do
it even if my body's just begging for it!

It is something mighty sacred,
would you really want to waste it
on some guy you might not even
want to know a few years from now?

Cool or uncool I say
don't listen to what that guy says!

[hojax]

honestly..i'm terrified.

the first time i used a tampon i blacked out because i was so freaked out (plus i think i did it wrong or something because it hurt like helllllll)


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you probably didnt need to know that.

[Stefanny]

Think of it this way. If you tell him that you're scared and he breaks up with you, then he's a complete jerk that just wants to get laid.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

I agree! Sex is fun. Yeah, it hurts the first time, but honestly I was a lot more scared the first time I had anal sex. That hurt too, but it's also fun when you get into it.

WHAT THE HELL?!? do you even read what the hell you type??!?! what kind of shitty advice is that???


ANYWAYS TO THE PROBLEM.
if you are not ready then dont do it there are some girls who will advice you to do it..obviously they only see sex as a way to have fun, let me just tell you it never works you can just end up with a sexual disease.

if this guy is sweet he will understand and if he doesnt well that is just his loss.

[noiseandkisses16]

ok first of all dont do it to make him happy. if he rally loves u he will wait o respect whatever decision you choose. it is scary the first time and it probably will hurt. but be SURE that YOU are ready. not justphysically but more importantly emotionally. it is a VERY big step and a VERY big deal to the both of you.
so be careful and good luck
<3

[multifaceted]

It is your body and you decide when you are ready. He's not you. Who knows? He might just want to have sex and then run away.

If you respect your body, you need to demand others to respect that too.

He should not be pressuring/ persuading/ however you like to put it you to do anything.

If he has been asking a lot of times lately, it is time to dump him. If he just asked you once and you said no, he should not be bringing it up anytime soon.

[emazing]

If you decide that you're not ready and he leaves you, that means he's both immature and not worth it.
I don't think you'd want to do it just yet, though.
Wait for the guy who you believe truly deserves all of the love you're going to give him, and a guy who won't pressure you into having sex, and hopefully you'll make the right decision.
There are a lot of things that I regret right now... I'm still a virgin, but. Yeah, that's as far as I'm going to go.

Mind first, desires later, and most importantly - think of the consequences before you act.

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

You'll know when your ready when your ready(:

[megggnasty]

Having sex without being 100% ready is the biggest mistake you could make. You will regret it, guarenteed. It is always better to wait until you find the right guy. If he cared about you, he wouldn't pressure you to have sex with him.

[mytangerine]

don't do it. the end.

[xhidethedetails]

your boyfriend sounds a bit moronic to me. they all seem sweet until the screw you then leave you. 90% of the guys you'll date just wanna get laid so they can tell their buddies about it. if it was me, i wouldnt do it unless i trusted him 110% and knew that he really does care about me. if your boyfriend is telling you that he'll run off if you dont have sex with him, then he's not worth your time.

Amen to that. I thought my ex boyfriend loved and cared about me until he started asking for sex and I was stupid enough and gave it to him. He now left me and is with another girl. Just think about it before you do it, you might regret it in the end.

[Aerjae]

yes. i am.