he never answers!, his cell Options

[purrfecto]

the guy i like never answers his cell! i've confronted him about it, and even said i was going to call...but still he never answers. what should i do? i've seen him use it many time...does this mean he doesn't like me? my friend has problems reaching him too...argggghhhh why is it so messed up?

[*Infinite.*]

I suggest just not calling for a little bit, perhaps hes getting a little annoyed. I remember when a guy liked me at one point and he got to the point of being a little obsessive so far as to calling me constantly that I had to just ignore his calls. I ended up throwing my phone across the room so I wouldn't be able to hear the phone vibrate every freaking 5 min. And this was even after I told him I was busy.

I don't know though, perhaps once you get ahold on him to ask him for a honest answer. And no matter what the answer is you won't be worried or mad or upset or anything, you just want to know why you can never get through. And if he says is nothing and its just your calls aren't going through. Get our your cell infront of him and call it and see if it goes through, and since it probably will then ask him for a new explanation.

[*My Cinderella.*]

It might make him feel uncomfortable. I agree with Holly, lay off the calling. Try to get to know him better in person or online first.

[orgasm]

Um. You should probably lay off on the calling.

He might be like me... I never answer the phone when someone calls. I'd rather call them back on my own time. Or if I wanna talk to them, I call them back right away.

Leave a message and step back.

[angelrevelation]

maybe it's always on silent? i put mine on silent for most of the day cuz i'm in school.

but i agree, you should stop calling him for a while. you sound a little... clingy at this point, no offense. he might just be annoyed.

[Trinie]

wow thats odd. maybe he has it on silent or maybe he is busy? or he could be ignoring you. but why would he?? but anyways just stop calling him for a little bit, maybe he'll start calling sooon. :)

[datass]

Probably he really couldn't pick up his phone? You know...bad timing.

Don't stress it.

[***Lucy**]

stop calling him sweetie. he finds it flattering but also annoying.

Maybe if u give him time he'll miss your calls. who knows!

[*Uronacid*]

Let him call you. If he likes you great, and if he doesn't just move on.

[shinysparkle3]

he doesn't want to talk to you?

[purrfecto]

i'm not clingy...it's like i call once a month or so. but it seems that everytime i call there's no answer. and i've known him like all my life...we talk alot in person and online, but it's just that the phone calls never come through

[mznikki]

i agree with what eveyone else has said so far, and it maybe just be bad timing or they don't get reception? or its just not getting though. but ask him too if you want. but i was in the same situation but the other way around and i got so agrivated that he kept calling and i told him the truth after and yea that was that.

[RyeCatcher]

i have a friend where this girl calls him every 5.3 seconds if this sounds like you you shouldnt call him that much and actually have him call you. with my friend hes often annoyed having to pick up his phone more than 20 times... so just cut down on the calling.

[yaamakoh]

Well... the more you call him the more annoyed he might be, and he just might not be telling you. Try to balance it out, call him every other day, and after a week if he doesn't call you just move on. Once he calls you back, call him again the next day, and if he finds interest he'll call you again a day or two, maybe few.
Without balance, there is no relationship, friendship or b/f-g/f types.

[luckyxi3]

it does seem kind of fishy that he may not be attracted to you.
but let's be optimistic.

i have a boyfriend who doesn't answer his phone, most of the time.
i get frustrated, so i know how you feel.

tell him to call you, instead of you calling him.
maybe you're coming out too strong.
if he doesn't call, then just talk to him in person.

[purrfecto]

i think you guys have the wrong idea...i don't call him every day. i call him maybe once a month...or maybe a bit more, but still.

[magicfann]

i dont carry my phone around with me, mainly cuz i forget
SHAZAM

[jumpropeforheart]

here's the thing...i dont answer the phone either rather, i dont even answer my house phone when it rings because i dont like the phone. its not that i dont like the person calling, i just dont like the phone. i hate being stuck there listening to someone talk or just listening to someone breathe. its much better to talk in real life because if nothing is happening you can always do something rather than say "okay well ill let you go because you're not talking". the phone just seems boring and i usually only use the phone if i have to talk to someone about something rather than someone calling me to just call.

[_sarcastic_]

maybe the time you call him he doesn't have his phone with him, or he's left it on slient or just totally can't hear his ringtone cause thats what happens to my bf...

[Mikael]

hmm, i can see from his point of view that, to him, you are probably just an option. stop calling him. this is a bad situation.

[nightacer-x]

may be he doesn't like to answer phone calls? i have this habit to ignore calls cos i detest talking on the phone cos there're often awkward silence. may be you can try calling him when he's around, see how he reacts. but make sure he doesn't see you! another possibility is that he's a ultra lagger. the guy that i liked once took 18 hours to reply one of my text msgs -_- and he takes around 10 minutes to reply one too lol. guys are slow you know.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

thats a sign that hes not intrested doll.
a guy whos intrested would jump to awnser his fone..

[mouse_3k]

well since u aint GOING out with him, let lose. ur actin like hes ur husband or somethin already and u just like him. maybe its a sign to say u should back off.

[*Libertie*]

thats a sign that hes not intrested doll.
a guy whos intrested would jump to awnser his fone..

Not necessarily, I can't always answer my phone. In fact, nine times out of ten if a person calls me, they get my voicemail because I'm at school or work.

Sound familiar, Jose? :P

[*Pl-dot-lS*]

What? I only call to leave messages nowadays.