Is he interested Options

[nikkiSLUT]

Ok,
Theres this boy,
HE alwas stares at me when i pass by.
And my friend say he has an eye for me?
I might tell him i think hes cute but idk if hes intereted is he?

[xlitoxb]

Why don't you just tell him that you think he's cute, and see how he reacts first. I mean, your friend could be right that likes you. My friends told me that this kid liked me once, but I didn't believe them. Turns out they were right. *shrugs* Pay attention to what he does or how he acts around you. =]

[nikkiSLUT]

Yeah ;
But the thing is he has a girlfriend.
Which is my friend;
Ive known her for 6 years;
BUT the thing is they barely talk;
Its like once in a blue moon.
But yeah;

[***Lucy**]

If he has a gf don't tell him u like him especially now that the gf is your friend.

Friendship is more important I guess..

[*Infinite.*]

Well if the friendship is real then yes friendship is pretty much important then a relationship. If hes in a relationship leave him alone, and if the girl is your friend then I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be to happy if you liked her boyfriend and had a 'eye' for him too. Put yourself in her shoes and picture how you would feel.

[xlitoxb]

Ooh, see, I didn't know he had a gf. Yeah, you should listen to what everyone else said then. Just be friends, and see what happens from there. =]

[*Uronacid*]

Yeah, if he's in a relationship you should leave it alone. Don't tell him, the possibility of a new relationship may shake the relationship that he already has. That's even worse. I hate it when people tell me that they like me like that while I'm in a relationship. I feel like, "MAN, WTF DO YOU WANT ME TO DO ABOUT IT."

You said that the person he is in a relationship with is also your friend right? Is it worth it? I know I wouldn't chance loosing one of my friends over a relationship that I don't have. It's just wrong.

[***Lucy**]

I know I wouldn't chance loosing one of my friends over a relationship that I don't have. It's just wrong.

^ that's so true.

Plus, if the relationship doesn't go well, you'll have lost your friend.
So don't do anything. If the boy really likes you he will break up w/ her. Then it'll be more easy and less complicated for u.

[nikkiSLUT]

BUT now the thing is;
He barely talks to her
and my friends says he would probably go out with me;
But i have a bf now too;
One that i dated over the summer;
and my friend wouldnt care because she doesnt really like him;
BUt if i had to choose what should i choose.
A guy whos in highschool and not shy BUT is flirty;
Or a guy whos a year younger than me and IS a man whore
shy;

[lovescream]

That's just messed up. How you guys are dating and not really liking them. WTF pity dates, much?
Yeah. Okay. How can you be so damn certain that he likes you? It's just glances everytime you walk past him. Even though your friend says so, how can you believe her also? Just go for it if you want him so badly though. Just go. When I read your posts, you're pointing to me to go in the direction to tell you to dump your now bf and date the other guy.

[nikkiSLUT]

okay
Hold up.
I NEVER said i didnt like my boyfriend.
How am i damn certain?
Puh-leeze.
He even told me so Those Glances
Mean more than glances.
He even smiled.
And to get your facts straight he wants to date me
soo ahahaha. I get what i ALWAYS want.
So shhh.
And im not saying this to anyone else who replied to this
just that girl Electric shock.
And How can i believe my friend?
She tells me everyboy that likes me And they all
do like me and she doesnt like so shhh.

[QueenAkahsa]

My personal opinion is that you get to know him better, first.
Like, before leaving your boyfriend or anything, get more close to him?
A glance isn't enough to figure out whether he is better or not than what you have right now.

He has a girlfriend. I might sound like a bitch right now, but so what? :P
Also, don't tell him what you feel about him until you get to know him better, because things might get awkward between you two. Looks isn't all that matters.

[nikkiSLUT]

Yeah, Thats what im trying to do I sit with him at lunch and chill;
Yeah I told him how i felt a while ago But he thinks im OVER him.
Yeah and when i did tell him i thought he was cute It was pretty
akward.But now we talk so Its all good.

[alysaphobia]

And to get your facts straight he wants to date me
soo ahahaha. I get what i ALWAYS want.
So shhh.
And im not saying this to anyone else who replied to this
just that girl Electric shock.
And How can i believe my friend?
She tells me everyboy that likes me And they all
do like me and she doesnt like so shhh.

that sounded pretty bratty to be honest, but whatever. if you are so confident that he's into you, why the heck are you posting a topic with the title, 'is he interested'?

How am i damn certain?
Puh-leeze.
He even told me so Those Glances
Mean more than glances.
He even smiled.

just because a guy smiles at you, doesn't mean he likes you.
k, you have a BOYFRIEND. and he has a GIRLFRIEND. this guy is off limits. it doesn't really sound like you like your boyfriend much if you're considering whether or not to go for the other guy. i wouldn't stay in the relationship with this guy if i 'liked' him but was considering dating other guys. don't tell the guy how you feel while he's in the middle of a relationship, that's so inconsiderate, do you think he'd just go ahead and dump his current gf for you?

[QueenAkahsa]

that sounded pretty bratty to be honest, but whatever. if you are so confident that he's into you, why the heck are you posting a topic with the title, 'is he interested'?

just because a guy smiles at you, doesn't mean he likes you.
k, you have a BOYFRIEND. and he has a GIRLFRIEND. this guy is off limits. it doesn't really sound like you like your boyfriend much if you're considering whether or not to go for the other guy. i wouldn't stay in the relationship with this guy if i 'liked' him but was considering dating other guys. don't tell the guy how you feel while he's in the middle of a relationship, that's so inconsiderate, do you think he'd just go ahead and dump his current gf for you?

You're right, and then, you're not.
Sure, don't tell him you like him in the middle of his relationship...
unless.
1. You're sure he likes you a lot.
and
2. His relationship is not goint well.

Then again, your relationship with your boyfriend..
You.. don't love him, do you? I mean, it's just for fun, what you are doing, since your heart allows another person in after a mere look.
*shrugs*

[rainie8847]

i used to hav a bf over the summer
but during that time, i went to summer skool
and i noticed this guy who i was just so attracted too
everyday i would think, do i like that guy at summer school more than my bf?
one day... when my bf went for vacation, i realized that i actually reli like the guy at my summer school
so i broke up with my bf
i still reli like that guy in my summer skool...
i never even talked with him b4...
i feel reli sad cuz i know that i'll probably never see him again...
so r u even close with that guy who glances at u?
did u talk to him before?
and also, the most important thing is, who do u like more deep inside?
ur bf or that guy that glances at u?
think carefully~

[nikkiSLUT]

Okay Puh leeze bratty?
No.
Can you see the date when i posted it.
So shush.
And I DID like my boyfriend.
Were over.So got it?
ANd He does like me shut your mouth up.
And You dont know what happen at the dance so shut the f up.
Yeah i told him i liked him,
And yess im suree he likes me.
and his relationship is crappy.
so yeah
and yeah i talk to him everyday.
and i sit with him sometimes.
and i realized i like the boy then my bf.
so yeah.
how do i delete this topic,
cause were dating so yeah.

[lovescream]

great for you. you're so nice.

[malimars]

maybe he just had a problem with staring at ppl alot of ppl do lol

[Mikael]

heres your reassurance. YES. he stares at you! go talk to him already.

[RyeCatcher]

well if he seems like a nice guy and hes not thinking about you know what thrn maybe you should give it a chance. For me this girl last year who sat right next to me would always stare at me since junior high and i was a junior last year and believe me she looks like one of those stalkers let alone i had a girlfriend, she was just plain creepy but anyways if you have a good vibe than go for it.