guys pls help me!, i need to know it from the guy's perspective.. |
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 Oct 28 2006, 02:29 PM
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 stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(:  Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985  |
sorry i know this is meant to go under the girls section but i kinda wanna know how guys would react to it and the explanations. hope you'll will help me out yeah =D oh and sorry i know there aren't suppose to be anymore dating issues but just help me k? =X
hi, this is my first time here. okay i'm a real confused girl. i like this guy senior of mine. he's graduating this year, or rather has graduated as the school term has ended in this part of the world i'm in. so i kinda got his number and msged him. we get along fine. he's real encouraging and sweet too. thing is, he knows that i like him. and apparently,his group of friends know it too. so the problem now is, is he leading me on? he knows that i like him and he sends me msgs to cheer me on for the exams/tests etc. is he leading me on? or is he fooling around with my feelings? or am i just reading too much into his actions which actually mean nothing? he's the kinda shy type of guy. kinda a cool nerd but not really a nerd cos he's real outgoing and good looking too. he's a nice guy too. cause he didn't blow up the matter of me liking him. actually no one knows it at all, besides me and him and his friends, whom i guess he told but no rumors went round.. so that shows that he's a nice varing thoughtful guy right? so i'm real confused now. pls help me! thanks :) |
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Oct 28 2006, 07:08 PM
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 Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
This is actually more of a relationship issue so...
Moved to Relationships |
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Oct 28 2006, 08:52 PM
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 Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
He could just be tryin to be a good friend. I do the same stuff he does like send messages and all. I always try to be sweet to every girl because I just try to be a nice person in general.
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Oct 28 2006, 09:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,956 |
 hmmm well the messages cud be a sign but they cud also mean nothing but to make u happy or whatever hmm well you cud just ask him or better yet just wait to see what happens next 
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Nov 6 2006, 09:05 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,106 |
ROFL chill out girl you should be happy!
This guy digs u I am sure ok? Plz persue this and post here or somthing to tell me I was right about this. A simple truth about men: They do not msg girls 'GL with your exams' out of the blue to girls they are not interested in loL! its the most obvious thing ive ever heard...IF he is initiating messages fullstop id say he liked you on that alone, but he is making lame excuses + being extra nice (guys arnt cheesy like that...u think he is wishing his MATES gl with exams...nope! this shows u are being treated differently to normal behaviour). Anything that is different from normal standard behaviour between women and men is almost always the result of physical attraction.Trust me on this. GL |
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Nov 7 2006, 09:06 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
lol but could be 'cause I wished him luck too? his papers were a month earlier so i msged him good luck. a month later he msged me good luck for mine. So?
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Nov 8 2006, 06:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,692 |
The best advice I can give you is to ask him straight out if he likes you. Or get a friend to ask him for you. There's no point of waiting forever for his answer, especially if he knows you like him.
I am saying all that 'cause I went through the exact same experience last year. But it was way more dramatic and such. It went on for nine months and in the end, he still did not give me a straight answer. Instead, I finally discovered the answer myself when he leaked out that he had a girlfriend from another school all along. & I found this out on the night before the last day of school - my last day of high school =/ So all thanks to that..ahem..my entire last school year was pretty much ruined and it ended in a bad way. So if he keeps on stringing you along or whatever, demand for an answer 'cause you really wouldn't want to experience through what I went through. |
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Nov 8 2006, 09:41 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
QUOTE(iRock cB @ Oct 28 2006, 8:52 PM)  He could just be tryin to be a good friend. I do the same stuff he does like send messages and all. I always try to be sweet to every girl because I just try to be a nice person in general. you are mean to me |
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Nov 10 2006, 06:49 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
erm huh?
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Nov 10 2006, 04:35 PM
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Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
QUOTE(magicfann @ Nov 8 2006, 9:41 PM) you are mean to me Haha, I'm sorry buddy. Just don't spam and we're a-ok!  I agree with seremela_culnamo although it is risky. But, who knows? If he says yeah, then there you go! If he says no, at least you gave it a shot. |
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Nov 18 2006, 10:11 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
but wouldn't that be kinda awkward? i know it's the 21st century but don't you find it weird if a girl asks you if you like her? his impression of me would be horrible?
lol
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