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Friends with benefits.
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xFaith
post Nov 4 2006, 02:46 PM
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I dont know,
i think you should seperate your friends and your lovers. if you go to bed with your friend, its pretty much not just a 'friend' anymore...
 
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post Nov 4 2006, 03:11 PM
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QUOTE(funk.this @ Oct 27 2006, 9:58 PM) *
Anytime you get into something physical with someone, SOMEBODY's going to get attached.

It might be fun at the time, but someone's gonna be hurt.

Agreed. I've tried it a few times and it just doesn't work. Someones feelings develope into more and thrn it just gets messy.
 
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post Nov 4 2006, 05:23 PM
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I've done it, and ended up getting hurt, so it's probably not the best thing in the world.
 
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post Nov 5 2006, 01:26 PM
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gahhh i hate fwb
 
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post Nov 5 2006, 01:54 PM
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i know this girl and this guy who are friends w/ benefits. when the guy started to like another girl, she got hurt.

it's not good for you.
period.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 12:34 AM
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anybody in it? i personally never have. unless anyone here wants to be in one with me?
cool.gif im serious.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 12:37 AM
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I'd rather be in a relationship. Also, I think Createblog isn't a great place to look for buckfuddies.

Unless you mean business partners, and then I'm completely sorry I took that the wrong way?
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 12:38 AM
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I'd rather be in a relationship, but I wouldn't care.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 01:26 AM
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there's already a topic on this

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...=156110&hl=
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 12:16 PM
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i'd rather be in a steady relationship. throb.gif
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 01:00 PM
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i kinda had one before but it was a while ago. friends with benefits are just a tease pinch.gif
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 09:22 PM
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I think benefriends are hard to maintain. Doesn't one usually end up liking the other or whatnot? *shrugs* I can't really say cuz I think I'm in one, but whatever.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 11:10 PM
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at least one person ends up liking the other, and wants more, or a real relationship, but that one doesnt feel the same cause they have commitment issues, and then the other person ends up getting hurt. I hope that made sense
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 11:23 PM
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No I find it a bit immature. Eventually the relationship is going to go downhill because eventually someones going to fall for the other more than just being a friend.

Perhaps search around for other similar topics happy.gif
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...s+with+benefits
 
AngelinaTaylor
post Jan 1 2007, 11:35 PM
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Yeah I have a few, so what? It's fun, especially at parties :)
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 11:58 PM
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No I don't have one. I prefer to be in a relationship.
 
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post Jan 2 2007, 05:34 PM
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Any "benefits" should be kept between two people who actually love each other. There is not love in a sexual relationship and it actually hurts people the most when they breakup. This is because they feel like they have given up a huge part of themselves.

So, I wouldnt recommend a "friends with benefits" type of relationship.

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post Jan 2 2007, 07:12 PM
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mellow.gif I'm finding it gross seeing my
female friend let my ex grope her in my
computer class. He had this sick-perverted
"I'm getting some" smirk on his face
and she was just laughing away doing
nothing not even saying anything about
his hands being all over her breasts.

I was so bothered I looked away while it happened.
Didn't say anything to them about it until I went online.
But once I was able to talk to them in private,
man did I lecture them out.

We talked about it the next day as well and I sure-darn
hope they felt so ashamed they wouldn't even think
about doing it in front of my eyes at least.

My female friend's behavior disgusted me the
most. Guys.. Some are like that in general
but it is only because she put'd herself out
like a sex doll they treat her like my ex did.

I wonder sometimes whether she likes looking like a
hot whore giving out freebies during school hours.
I hope she grows out of it soon. I don't blame her for
wanting to be attractive and wanted but even
the innocent need to feel attractive has its limits.
By the way, FWB doesn't get my approval.
/mom-ish rant
 
voguelove
post Jan 2 2007, 08:42 PM
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i say..booty call.
 
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post Jan 2 2007, 10:42 PM
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AIDS AINT NO BENEFIT
 
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post Jan 2 2007, 11:49 PM
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Nopers... I guess I see my friends do it, and someone always gets the shaft.
 
AngelinaTaylor
post Jan 2 2007, 11:51 PM
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I've got a few :)
 
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post Jan 2 2007, 11:52 PM
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Ehh it kinda just happened to me.. it's not so cool.
 
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post Jan 5 2007, 05:02 AM
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QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Oct 27 2006, 5:09 AM) *
^ you spelled friend wrong.
and i think the whole concept is ridiculous. someone always gets attached and hurt in the end.



i agree 32097532759869876 percent i hate the concept of fwb and i dont understand how people can just do stuff eachother with out any sence of emotional attachment
 
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post Jan 5 2007, 08:41 PM
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Eh, i'm whatever with it.
Not yes, not no.
 
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