some tips on how to get a girlfriend? |
| *videogamsta* |
 Oct 24 2006, 08:38 PM
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well as you guys know i am in 9th grade and i have plenty of time to go through this situation .. how can i get a girlfriend? i mean im kind of talkative around my friends etc at school when just chillin outside/cafe, but when i talk to beautiful girls im kind of shy. how can i approach a girl i want? or do they approach me first? cuz i dont know a lot of ppl in my grade .. theres like 345 people in 9th grade .. help
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Oct 24 2006, 08:39 PM
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 One Love.  Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,079 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,480 |
^^tap her you idiot. i'm a freshman as well
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| *Uronacid* |
Oct 24 2006, 08:54 PM
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Well, you have to have confidence... if you don't have confidence than you arn't going to get one of these "beautiful" girls you're talking about.
Of course, there are some girls that like guys who are shy, but hell from what I have seen. Girls tend to go for the confident guys (NOT COCKY, CONFIDENT... there's a big difference). Here's a good rule of thumb. You shouldn't date people when you feel like they are better than you or worse than you. You should generally go after people that you can speak to on the same level. Someone that makes you feel that you are just as important as they are. You need to be confident in yourself. |
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Oct 24 2006, 09:14 PM
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^^ I agree. Don't be too cocky. You can't have that additude like "Oh, I already got you."
If you are a naturally shy person, like I tend to be, don't worry about it too much. Sometimes it takes me a while to warm up to people to know how they are going to react to my personality. A lot of girls think it's cute when you talk to them and get a little shy, it's probably one of the biggest things a girl will react to as far as the "he likes me". I say just be yourself. Don't try to fit a mold of what you'll think they'll like. Just start talking to them... if you find that you get nervous and tongue tied, ask open questions. Meaning questions that you can start up a conversation about. It works best for me when I talk to anyone. If you want to go out with her, maybe just ask her to hang out with you and your buddies at first, or just hang out... nothing too serious so you you guys can get more comfortable around each other... |
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Oct 24 2006, 10:04 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
Hahaha. The above advice is so much better than anything i could give.
I say, be confident and take more time in front of the mirror so girls'll notice you. Haha, but then again, don't like a girl who likes you for your looks; like a girl who likes you for your feelings. |
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Oct 24 2006, 10:56 PM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
Be confident!
Okay, I personally think that shy guys are really cute, but don't be so shy that you can't even approach/talk to a girl! Here's an idea for conversations. When a girl is talking to you and asking you questions, try not to have a one word reply and then just look at her. Answer mroe thoroughly (but don't go into a big paragraph), and ask her the same question. Oh yeah, and try to make eye contact while talking (but don't stare her down), and smile occasionally. Smiling is cute  |
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| *salcha4u* |
Oct 24 2006, 11:10 PM
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That's nothing. There were 812 kids when I was a freshman.
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Oct 24 2006, 11:22 PM
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 D.J. Illtactics Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,047 |
lol 1 tip....Just dont be like me and get crazy girls////lol....Nawww just be confident but not cocky....girls love guys who are humble....Remember that....And dont ever try to over impress a girl...It doesnt work/..Just be your self
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Oct 26 2006, 06:54 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
ur in 9th grade calm down. if u are desperate do it like my fiance and get a book bout it ahaha
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 26 2006, 10:11 AM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 26 2006, 7:54 AM)  ur in 9th grade calm down. if u are desperate do it like my fiance and get a book bout it ahaha Fiancé? Geez, you're only 17, calm down. |
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Oct 26 2006, 03:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
I'm a girl.
Girls are complicated. They think too much. So what I'm saying is, you need to approach her. you have to do everything first for her to be comfortable around you. |
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Oct 28 2006, 01:50 AM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
make sure you really like the girl.
then just go up to her and say something sweet. don't alarm her, talk about something suttle at first and work your way up. if all hope is loss, don't lose your confidence. there will be PLENTY of girls out there. most likely, someone you like more than the one you approached. don't wait for a relationship to be knocking on your door, while you're laid back. work/try for one instead. |
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