Anyone know how to cope with missing someone? Options

[fgfgfgrfg]

I currently have a relationship with a girl called Anna who lives a hour away from me :( so i only see her once every two weeks or one week if lucky by train, during that time i miss her loads. Does anyone know how to like, i dunno take my mind of it a bit?

[xlitoxb]

I would say hang out with your friends, or get involved with after school activities. =] If you miss her soo badly, or that much, why don't you call her sometimes?

[xostolenkissezox]

all you can really do is keep busy to keep your mind off things...

[djilltactics]

if you really love them and miss them try ta get closer..unless your younger just try and call em whenever possible..

[fgfgfgrfg]

I do call when i can and thanks i'll try keeping busy and whatnot :)

[ariana8716]

i've had this problem, and i've used


+school
+riding horses in afternoon [afternoon activites]
+movies

anything were you can just hangout, and have a good time should help.

but call,email,text,etc.

[BeautyInATragedy]

You can try to occupy yourself with other things. Though honestly, if she's that special to you, she will stay in your head. I don't think it's bad to miss her anyway.

[alysaphobia]

i've dealt with LDR's by:

• talking to friends who have gone through the same situation
• emailing and IMing frequently, whenever possible. try to set up a consistent time to IM each other. call loads too, but make sure you've got a good phone plan/deal so you don't end up being screwed by the phone bill. (:
• hanging out with my friends more often. it really takes your mind off things; it's a lot better to be preoccupied with something than to stick around your house moping for your gf.
• running. i personally love running, it lets you take out all your frustration, anger, sadness and negative feelings in a harmless way. adrenalin = good. :D
• getting busy. for ex: i love art. i started taking more art classes whenever possible so i'd take my mind off my bf; plus, it's super hard to get all depressed when you're in the studio. (for me, at least.)
  
  yeah. stay strong, LDR's can be worth it if both people put in their effort to keep it alive. and hey... when you get to see your gf, it's that much more special. take care.

[Emma Sue]

spaghetti

[raenbow*]

thats how i am w/ my bf...... we call each other everyday unless some circumstance comes up. just enjoy the time u have w/ ur friends and focus on things like school... and then when u get to visit, its all the better - more stories, less hw or w/e to do... and you can leave cute voicemails/emails/etc saying that you miss them. i always feel special when my bf leaves things for me

[grobanite3388]

:-) It will be ok, you're only an hour apart. You can call each other etc.
I know some people who are dating internationally! That must be bad. I only have to miss my boyfriend a couple of months, but those people get to see their significant others about twice a year. Insane.
So think about those people, and realize that you're not that bad off at all.

[xourzestt]

Mope for a really long time. Then you would get so tired of moping that you would just forget about her and everything will be like you never met before.

DON'T DO THAT!!! That's what's happening to me and my BEST friend since preschool...

[*Infinite.*]

Go do other things, believe me it could be worse. Think about other people that only get to see each other a few times a year.

[michelina0kudelk...]

My ex lived half an hour away. I got to see him once a week on weekends usually, it sucked, but I liked him so much, so I lived with it. We talked on the phone everynight. God, I was stupid for ending that.

[alysaphobia]

My ex lived half an hour away. I got to see him once a week on weekends usually, it sucked, but I liked him so much, so I lived with it. We talked on the phone everynight. God, I was stupid for ending that.

lol that doesn't really answer his question...?

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

spaghetti

ooooookaay....



anyways only time can help you stop missing someone so much....at least you get to see her even if its not often, there are other people who are going out with people like who live far FAR away and only get to see them every 4 months or so. just occupy yourself with other stuff.

[Allycat]

Aw, i know how you feel, my bf lives a whole state away.. so its all.. long distance.. i hardly ever get to see him.... and yeah.. it is hard... sometimes you do have to try to focus on other things, but usually you cant, and that sucks...
and so.. i have nothing positive to say.
sorry..