I hate that she likes someone else., And I feel bad for hating it. |
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 Nov 15 2006, 08:54 PM
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I like this girl and she does not like me back, and I'm okay with that, but I see her being all obsessed with some guy and I go crazy. Then I feel bad. Anyone else ever have this?
PS: I'm a girl. |
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Nov 15 2006, 09:33 PM
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Hm, I don't. But have you talked to her?
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Nov 15 2006, 11:03 PM
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it's absolutely normal as long as you don't take it over board. sometimes you can't help but feel jealous or hurt even if the person made it clear that the feelings weren't mutual.
give it time and it will go away. the more you agongize over it, the more it consumes you. try to take your mind off of it. |
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Nov 16 2006, 12:41 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
It's worse when you're not out, but if you are then good for you.
Flirt with her, then convert her to a lesbian. LOL LOL. |
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Nov 16 2006, 01:27 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's ok to feel that way, i've gone through that before cept it was with a guy but yeah. don't spend too much time dwelling on it, it's just going to make you feel worse after awhile.
do something that will take your mind of this at least for awhile |
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Nov 16 2006, 05:01 PM
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hmm i know what you feel
but not always are you going to find a girl who will respect your how should i say. sexualality, so maybe its best for you to find a bisexual/lesbian girl. beacuse it never works with the straight ones. =/ |
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Nov 16 2006, 05:07 PM
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don't think about it. it'll keep reminding you about it.
take your mind off her! talk to new and different girls. |
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Nov 16 2006, 06:12 PM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
well girls do usually like guys
so i guess w/ your sexual preference, that's a feeling you will have to get use to in life |
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Nov 16 2006, 06:41 PM
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It's definitely different since your crush is a girl. I don't really know what to say. I guess that you should do what other people have said and try to find girls who you know are bi or lesbian. Your crush can't help that she likes other guys, and she also doesn't know how you feel so she can't tone it down.
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