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 Oct 29 2006, 08:29 AM
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ok so ive been talking to this girl and i kinda liked her but not really, one of my close friends asked if i did and i said yeah kinda, and she told her!!! now its really awkward between us, we were pretty good friends...is there anyway to restore that with out the oddness?
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Oct 29 2006, 09:18 AM
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Just give it time and try to act normal around her. If she initiates something more, then do the same unless you feel uncomfortable.
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Oct 29 2006, 01:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,821 |
well you should go and talk to her as in "well i like you and all but i don't anything to be different between us.. etc.." and yeah, if you telll her that or something similar to that things might go well as followed.
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Oct 29 2006, 05:52 PM
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go talk to her about the whole situation. clear things up and tell her you don't want it to interfere with the friendship you guys share already.
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Oct 30 2006, 02:01 AM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
if its ackward, its because you are feeling ackward. so what if she knows you have a slight interest? it shouldnt be a 'we were pretty good friends'. it should be 'we ARE pretty good friends'. cause really, nothing has changed. its all in the head. no one died, no one was insulted. feelings are not hurt. its all good. just remember, have a care free attitude about it.
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Oct 31 2006, 01:32 PM
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Why do you feel awkward? It's not like she hates you... she's still talking to you and all that. It shouldn't be awkward. You liking her [sortof] doesn't really change anything. Just, do what you would do normally with her, and if she acts discouraged, or you think she feels awkward around you, sit her down for a talk. There's nothing wrong with talking about the situation with her.. it might give her a chance to ask a few questions. Besides, communication is a good way to keep a friendship, or relationship going strong.
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