Can somewhere pls EXPLAIN THIS to me???, -ugh--don't get this guy. |
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 Oct 30 2006, 05:32 PM
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I have a guy that I like romantically, and he knows, but he told me that he's looking for "a close friend he can spend his free time with, and yes, sleep with too." <---Those were his exact words. To me it sounds like a gf, but I asked a friend and she says something different. Can I get more opinions, please???
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Oct 30 2006, 05:35 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
he just wants a girl to be "friends with benefits" with.
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Oct 30 2006, 05:40 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agree..
he probably just wants to have "fun" with a girl with no strings attached |
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Oct 30 2006, 05:43 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
QUOTE he just wants a girl to be "friends with benefits" with. ^ That's exactly what I think. You should forget about him unless you want to get hurt or don't care that he would be using you. |
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Oct 30 2006, 05:43 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 476,542 |
Oh........why couldn't he just tell me point blank: "I'm not ready for a relationship" or "I just want a friend with benefits", instead of making me asking people what the hell he's talking about???
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Oct 30 2006, 05:54 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 476,542 |
QUOTE( @ Oct 30 2006, 5:44 PM)  This is true and most obvious. I have to agree. If you are ok with that, alright then. But beware of his other 'benificial' friends. cool your birthdays in may, me too. going on 22 :) LOL, May people rox! But seriously, I know I'm not a good canadiate for that whole "FWB" thing--which I told him, yet he still talks to me....oh well, life goes on, right? 
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Oct 30 2006, 06:54 PM
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Exactly what the others said. I'm pretty sure he means a girlfriend (without the whole thing of being together.) Just for pleasure and happiness. I'm no fan of FWB. I don't think you should do it---but if you do, go ahead and be careful.
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Oct 30 2006, 07:24 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
He doesn't want to be with you, just wants to f**k (:
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Oct 30 2006, 07:45 PM
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^LMAO
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Oct 30 2006, 09:10 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
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^ haha ditto to that. he's not looking to be commited to a girl, but he badly wants sex, i guess. |
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Oct 30 2006, 11:02 PM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
wow, this is quite confusing.
it really does sound like friends with benefits, and a 5 year old talking. like he doesnt know what he wants. i personally don't like fwb, but it's because i like long-term. if you want to have fun and know how to control your feelings, then fwb is good. i say, trust this guy to see if it's worth of yourself and your body. ask yourself, do you really think this guy is worth it? you'll answer your own question. |
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Oct 31 2006, 07:32 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Let me dumb it down for you: he wants to get into your pants and then dump you.
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Oct 31 2006, 09:30 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i agree with everybody who's posted, this is definitely a FWB scenario and nothing more. :[
i'd really stay away from the guy until i got over my feelings for him, and definitely not make a move or step into the FWB relationship. hope it works out for you... |
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Oct 31 2006, 09:40 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
no it means he just wants easy ass so if you wanna be easy, go wit him
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Oct 31 2006, 01:53 PM
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This is the kind of ***hole that will, tell you that he wants to be with you, but is not ready for a relationship, manage to sweettalk you into ****ing him, and then go around calling you a s*ut
My advice? Get him the hell out of your life before you get hurt. Unless you want to be trash talked and have your heart broken. 
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Nov 22 2006, 06:15 AM
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i hate friends with benifits with a passion
and thats all this guy thinks he can get i dont get why men and some women find this acceptible hmph |
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