emotional issues,and boy problems. Options

[ariana8716]

sorry if it's kinda long,im just upset right noww and i need someone to help me.


well you guys know i left that thing about asking how to make them jealous..yeahh i decided to screw that.

one ended up leaving anyways.

emotional issue

i have this really big problem about my emotions.see i go to horse shows and i see this guy i really like and if we don't talk or something bad goes wrong,or even when we do talk but we leave the next day i'm upset because it's gone.

i think it might be because i don't get to go to horse shows a lot or see that guy i really like a lot,but i don't know what to do i mean i went to a horse show lastnight,and i have one this weekend too and im trying to cheer up and realize there is one this weekend,but then there won't be another til November 11th.

lastnight's pretty much sucked ass though,like i didn't talk to EITHER of them.

I NEED THIS SATURDAY SHOW TO BE A REALLY GOOD ONE.

any idea how i can control this a little better.

boy problem

this one also deals with seeing them at the horse show,but we make no communication realllly.theres two guys:

guy 1
guy 1,i've known for about 3 years,and i really like him and he supposevly likes me too because he just stares,and flirts and everything.well he told my friend he'd go out with me if he didn't have a girlfriend, i saw him lastnight for the first time since my friend told him i liked him and i saw him for about 10 minutes but i was with my mom so idk maybe he was scared to try to talk to me with my mom there about "us" but all he did was stair at me? And when you reply with advice on this, don't say anything like he was just trying to be nice,he doesn't like you or anything because he is REALLLY shy,and i usually have to say something first to get him going!well the problem is I am REALLY shyy too,and scared to say something to him when I see him.Well lastnight I was hoping to get a chance to talk to him about "us" alone but somethign came up and they left early.I saw him playing football with his friend and he was stairing at me,and then every now and then he'd look at me.Just at shows i'm usually with my Mom because she visits people at their trailers,and I have no where to go really alone.Do you think he's just really shy to say something? because he ALWAYS stairs at me!! I think he's a guy where the girl has to say something first.I know he'd go out with me if I probably said, Hey I like you,but it's not as easy.I really want to ask him if he likes me and if he'd ever want to date but it's hard to get us alone at these horse shows..especially because i don't really have any business being around his trailer with his dad and everyone.I don't want to call him,because i'd rather do it in person.

I'm seeing him this weekend at a horse show,if another problem doesn't come up and I REALLLY need to talk to him,because i've liked him for 3 years and i still haven't said anything myself,but im not quite sure what to say and how to approache him..I thought if i couldn't say it myself give him a note?..But what to put in it?

guy 2
never talked to this guy,but my horse stays where his does so i see him at his place,and at horse shows. there's been shows i've been to were he's fallen out of a chair looking at me,got his friend with him and pointed at me and then his friend started walking towards me && yeah i um..RUN.. ..,when i got to his place where i keep my horse i saw him fixing his hair when i got up there,and he looks at me a lot.. I think he's hot,but when I'm around him I don't really stair at him that much,but i want him to know i'm kinda interested in him.. when I'm around him though I see him looking at me sometimes but not as much..do u think its just because im near him and he doesn't want me to see him lookin??
i need some ways to talk to him,and let him know im interested.


advice needed,and soooon before like wednesday,because i might see guy 2 wednesday night.

ps:
i'm not the one thats good at flirting,in fact im bad.
so if you have any flirting ideas let me know.