jerkkk, what do i do? Options

[ariana8716]

okay well this guy i really liked.. he got a myspace a few weeks ago.

i added him.he accepted.we talked.
a few days later i decided to ask him if he liked anybody.

him,being so full of hisself thought i ovbiously was asking him out.

he said, "sorry..lol syke but i already go out with someone .. byee"

so i was like in amazement of how rude it was..

so i said,"thanks you sure did say that nicely! i really liked you but gah i was stupid."

he wrote back and said "lol..yep u sure was stupid"

thenn i said "why are you being such an a-hole?! i haven't done anything to you!"

and he said, "i guess because i want to be an a-hole"

and so i was like "seriously! you're really hurting my feelings,we've been friends forever and i dont want it to end because of that stupid question."

so he said "i know well i guess ill ttyl..peace"

so then yay i was happy.

next few days we talked,and it was all good stuff,and i brought up old funny memories..

then out of the blue he messaged me and said,

"lol.......sorry but i wont b talking 2 u 4 a while, and dont write back why i wont b talking 2 u because i will not respond, or talk 2 u ever f**king again BYE BYE BYE BYE BYE BYE BYE "

so i was like uhh wtf did i do.. so i wrote back and said

"you know i have NO idea what is wrong with you !!!!!!because i have just tried to be friends with you and i've tried to think that you really weren't a jerk but you know what your worse than a jerk and i promise you that i won't ever try to talk to you again in your life because you are the biggest jerk and the most immature person i know.whatever i did like i said i haven't got a clue??????

maybe you might wanna go tell your daddy on me!!!!

BYE BYEEE!"

and then he said
"guess what i am telling him right now b,cause he just read what u wrote"

so i was like
"did you let him read what you wrote in the first place?! cus maybe i should let my mom read it too!"

and then he said
"no because i didn't want to get in trouble..did you show ur mom what i wrote?"

and i was pissed so i didn't respond..

then a week and two days later..
i had wrote on my myspace headline about how i was going to a scary haunted house and so he messaged me as if nothing happened!

he was like "hey im going to that haunted house friday too.. its not as scary as the furnace..lol anyway peace out g's up hoe's down."

so i havent responded yet,and i will be seeing him saturday.
what should i do?
ignore..?

[DirtehConverse]

From my own personal experience some guys get a kick out of playing with peoples minds, not everyone but a little few. Don't totally ignore him, if he puts the effort in to talk to you; then be friendly and see if he apologizes...if he doesn't then give him the cold shoulder, or try and find out why he was being a complete jerk.

[-sincerely]

maybe a hacker or something is on his site sending you that shit.

[mznikki]

wow um first off he's really immature and you don't need a friend like that honestly.
2nd maybe he's bluffing about showing it to his dad, and 3rd if you still want to be friends with him then just forget all about what happened before hand and message him back saying you're going (that's if you want to and if u still wanna deal with him but then again you never know if he'll be a real jerk and do something like that again) and see what happens if he'll grow up and appologize or you could be like yea i'm going but tell him how you feel about him being immature like if your mad or upset/ pissed.

[ariana8716]

we've been friends for three years,and i haven't been able to actually be able to talk to him everyday if i wanted..and because of that i didnt really know how he would act because i only see him maybe like twice a month..

i really just don't want to talk to him at all,and let him figure it out that i'm mad all by himself.

i don't really want to be friends with him at all now,until he says he can maybe maintain how he acts because i'll always look like this when i see he's written me something because i dont know if it's ever going to be good or bad you know?

it just bothers me.
like i remember one time when we would write stuff back and forth ... it's all i could think about at school.

i haven't responded yet..i really don't want to either.
because im 99.9 percent positive it wont cross his mind what even happened a week ago,and
he's made me upset to many times over messages.

i'm seeing him saturday..
as for that i have no idea what i'm going to act towards him.

what are the disadvantages if i dont respond..?

[sprezzatura]

Tell him the truth IN PERSON or else kick him in the balls.

[ness_live.laugh....]

omfg! he is a jerk!!!! urgh! i hate guyz like that---i'd would say tell him the truth about how your feel, if he dosent listen slap him and call him a MAN WHORE lol!!

im sorry about what happend too!

-Vanessa

[ariana8716]

thank you.

should i message him now... or just wait til i see him saturday?

[gr00vyswordsman]

wow, im baffled...actually never heard of something like this before or came across yet. If this happend to me Id be wondering whats the other persons problem. Maybe he is to cuaght up in a controlling relationship he doesn't see things right?...just a guess.

[Stefanny]

Amazing, what an immature little brat! Haha, to simply answer your question, ignore him. He's not worth liking or talking to if he acts that way to you. :]

[malimars]

OMG LMAO WHAT A KID!! HE IS SO IMMATURE AND A "MIND F..U..C..K" ID TELL HIM SEE YA LOSER MSG ME WHEN YA GROW UP A BIT AND NOT INCHES JUST MENTALLY LOL

[ariana8716]

OMG LMAO WHAT A KID!! HE IS SO IMMATURE AND A "MIND F..U..C..K" ID TELL HIM SEE YA LOSER MSG ME WHEN YA GROW UP A BIT AND NOT INCHES JUST MENTALLY LOL

[jumpropeforheart]

you fought over myspace and he told his dad.

enough said. :)

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

eehhh i cant believe you still want to talk to him....im like in a dilema WHY THE HELL DO YOU STILL WANNA TALK TO HIM?!??!

you need to kick him in the nutts.

anyways when he messages you say you have other important people to talk to and you dont have time to talk with him. (that jerk)

[ariana8716]

err. i think you read it wrong!
I DONT WANT TO TALK TO HIM GIRL!


you guys he's messaged me two more times :[


errrrrrr.
GOOAWAAYYYYY stupid boy.

[espressive]

Because boys PMS too?


But I'd try talking to him about it, but don't be like, "you did this, you did that". Instead of accusing, say something like, "Hey, what's been going on lately? It seems like there's a lot going on lately that I feel should be discussed. I don't like it when I am treated in this way...." (but not so corny like that) If you accuse him, he'll get defensive and it'll get into a big fight. If he responds well, I'd say, give him a second chance. If he's in denial, personally, I wouldn't want to be friends with him anymore.

Oh, and last thought? Speak to him in person about it. Guys like that aren't so cocky and as confident when you talk to them in person.

[ReggieM]

can u show me his myspace this guy has no clue how to talk to girls i dont understand boys like that even if he didnt like u he talks to u like a 10 years old, u might be 10, >.> but uh yea.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

so i havent responded yet,and i will be seeing him saturday.
what should i do?
ignore...?

excuse me ariiana but you need to read what the heck your saying if you noticed what you typed before let me bold it out for you "so i havent responded yet," well hun that is some form of communication.

you guys he's messaged me two more times :[

uhm if you dont want to talk to him WHY ARE YOU SO WORRIED ABOUT HIM MESSAGING YOU? didnt you just tell me that you didnt want to talk to him? contradiction is so sweet... good luck kicking him in the nutts.

[DORKalicious]

wow, what a jerk. forget him

[ariana8716]

excuse me ariiana but you need to read what the heck your saying if you noticed what you typed before let me bold it out for you "so i havent responded yet," well hun that is some form of communication.
uhm if you dont want to talk to him WHY ARE YOU SO WORRIED ABOUT HIM MESSAGING YOU? didnt you just tell me that you didnt want to talk to him? contradiction is so sweet... good luck kicking him in the nutts.

im saying he is annoying me!!
i want him to stop messaging me!
i want him to go away.
i meant he's messaged me two more times and its getting annoying.
i want him to leave me alone.

and to whoever said they thought i was 10 im not im 14,and he is too.

[chrissytinac]

ok...

this is lame.

[*My Cinderella.*]

He does seem rude. If I were you, I would just ignore this guy. Maybe he just acts "tough with the keyboard". Does he act that way in school?

[LostRenaissance]

if he's gonna be a lil immature brat ignore him and if he still go around and B***h to u kick him in the balls and tell him to grow up if he decides to be nice and all give him a chance

[xmoon_lightx]

Ask him wah really happened in person.

[kimmytree]

When you see him on Saturday, go up to him... smile, and kick him where it hurts. HARD.


Problem solved.