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 Oct 9 2006, 11:36 AM
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Love is a very confusing situation to be in. No matter how much you love a guy, things always happen. Everyone fights with their boyfriends/girlfriends. Its the way to stay together. well, kinda. But i just don't get it. You could be dating someone who doesn't even like you. They could tell you they love you and all, but inside they could be lying. No matter to how many people they tell they like you, it could be a lie. That's why i don't trust being in a relationship. Most guys(sorry to you guys out there!) just use people for sex. Someone told me that someone they knew had a bf and got sex, then he broke up with her. Like that's really f*ed up. Who does that?
If anyone has had problems with being in love or anything they'd like to share about their feelings and/or or problems, be sure to share them. I could try to help and give you advice on what to do. I would like to hear everyones problems about being in love/liking someone, etc. Even problems with friends. |
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Oct 9 2006, 11:37 AM
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someone who's a mod should move this to relationships.
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Oct 9 2006, 01:49 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Love can be very confusing at times....
but just to point out, not all guys are total jerks and want girls just for sex. You have to learn how to choose the right guys. And I think people throw the word love around way too much nowadays.... but that's a different story. =MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS= |
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Oct 9 2006, 02:00 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Oct 9 2006, 2:49 PM)  Love can be very confusing at times.... but just to point out, not all guys are total jerks and want girls just for sex. You have to learn how to choose the right guys. And I think people throw the word love around way too much nowadays.... but that's a different story. ^agreed. i know a lot of guys who are only interested in sex, but i know a couple of really great guys who aren't and those types of guys are the right ones (not all the time though duh cause no one's perfect). And it is true the people throw the word love around way too much i don't understand how some people who just met a like a week ago all of a sudden say they are in love.. when they are like what? 16 then they break up 3 weeks later.  beats me. 
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Oct 9 2006, 02:49 PM
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i hate when people say they love someone, if they haven't even gone out for atleast a few months. like this girl on my buddy list, they didn't even go out for a day and it says 'i love you.' i hate when people toss around the word love.
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Oct 9 2006, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE(mznikki @ Oct 9 2006, 3:00 PM) ^agreed. i know a lot of guys who are only interested in sex, but i know a couple of really great guys who aren't and those types of guys are the right ones (not all the time though duh cause no one's perfect). And it is true the people throw the word love around way too much i don't understand how some people who just met a like a week ago all of a sudden say they are in love.. when they are like what? 16 then they break up 3 weeks later. beats me. lol EXACTLY! i know someone who has like been going out with her bf for like, 2 days, and she already says she loves him. it's so annoying. they don't know the true meaning of LOVE. i'd understand if they said they love each other after like a few months, not 2 days! |
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Oct 9 2006, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(Helaina @ Oct 9 2006, 3:50 PM) lol EXACTLY! i know someone who has like been going out with her bf for like, 2 days, and she already says she loves him. it's so annoying. they don't know the true meaning of LOVE. i'd understand if they said they love each other after like a few months, not 2 days! lol! we're talking about the same person! 
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Oct 9 2006, 02:53 PM
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QUOTE(ashopely @ Oct 9 2006, 3:51 PM) lol! we're talking about the same person! yes we are, because we both know each other and that girl! |
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Oct 9 2006, 10:52 PM
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i think..love is meant to be complicated, and is complicated for significant reasons: finding the RIGHT person.
and i do believe almost ALL guys are like that wanting a girl for sex, but i think finding guys that could care less about that but just the girl.. is amazing once you find that person. i hope tht helps. :] |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 10 2006, 04:16 AM
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QUOTE(ashopely @ Oct 9 2006, 8:49 PM) i hate when people say they love someone, if they haven't even gone out for atleast a few months. like this girl on my buddy list, they didn't even go out for a day and it says 'i love you.' i hate when people toss around the word love. Oh yeah.. 
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Oct 10 2006, 04:35 PM
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 Boy That Is Mischevious Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 373,511 |
lol, pretty much agreed with everyone here. I'm glad no one started bashing teens though. It's common for older people to say that we are to young, =P.
And trust me girls, there are not a lot of guys out there who don't want sex. I'm proud to be one of the people who don't, tee hee. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months now. And this is a conversation we've brought up a few times. Love is a very hard thing to find. We've noticed that even when we think we see a couple that truly is in love, they end up hitting a brick wall and falling apart. And one thing is for sure, true love never dies. So, really, maybe true love is one of the hardest things to find on this earth. =P. And even if you think you see a couple madly in love, it could be dangling my thread inside of their heads. I guess all I can say is this; Good luck, =D. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Oct 10 2006, 10:00 PM
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I'm begining to see a concept of love that I never witnessed before. But it still fits in with my deffinition of love.
I see love as one of the most difficult things ever... but if it wasn't... would it mean anything? Also, love isn't always making someone happy... it's giving them what they need. Sometimes the things that people need are the things that make them really angery. |
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Oct 11 2006, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Oct 10 2006, 11:00 PM) I see love as one of the most difficult things ever... but if it wasn't... would it mean anything? that really gets me thinking... 
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Oct 12 2006, 03:37 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
QUOTE hate when people say they love someone, if they haven't even gone out for atleast a few months. like this girl on my buddy list, they didn't even go out for a day and it says 'i love you.' i hate when people toss around the word love. That's true..but what if they're really in-love? |
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Oct 12 2006, 05:04 PM
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 another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
do you believe someone could be in love if they were only dating for 30 days?
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Oct 13 2006, 05:04 PM
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QUOTE(STFULiNDA @ Oct 12 2006, 6:04 PM) do you believe someone could be in love if they were only dating for 30 days? in my opinion, eh, not really yet. but thats just me. QUOTE(french_fries @ Oct 12 2006, 4:37 PM) That's true..but what if they're really in-love? i guess but they weren't even going out for a day. how can they be in love? 
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Oct 13 2006, 11:20 PM
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QUOTE(STFULiNDA @ Oct 12 2006, 6:04 PM) do you believe someone could be in love if they were only dating for 30 days? hmm. thats a hard one. depending on how well you know the kid and if you were like really good friends up to the point until you guys were going out. i think its hard to say you're in love in 30 days, but it depends on how well you know each other. |
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Oct 14 2006, 12:11 AM
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QUOTE(french_fries @ Oct 12 2006, 4:37 PM) That's true..but what if they're really in-love? ^ then obviously, say it, but most important show it. back up your words. my question is, how do you know when you're in love? |
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Oct 15 2006, 12:32 PM
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I have been with my boy friend for over a year and I still have not had full blown sex with him yet. <333 That is love.
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