This darn thing keeps happening..., help!! |
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This darn thing keeps happening..., help!! |
| *RiC3xBoy* |
Jul 25 2004, 08:34 PM
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ok, i had liked this girl in 8th grade, she was cool and stuff, but at the same time, so did one fo my best friends....so i kinda let him make the first move and well, now they are going out -_-, again, freshman year, same thing happens somehow...and yea, now at the end of the year, ive gotten pretty close with a friend of mine, and i think i like her, but then BAM, found out another 1 of my friends likes her....should i just b the good friend and just give it up again? or should i just go for it?
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Jul 25 2004, 08:42 PM
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![]() WUT THA DUCK? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
nooo way!!! you did that b4!!! i mean its nice that you gave her up for your friend.. but now he has to do that for you!! soo take this one!!
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Jul 25 2004, 09:43 PM
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![]() 042304<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,231 |
yeah, i agree with her. you cant be the bystander and the doormat all your life. take a chance. go for it.
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Jul 25 2004, 10:07 PM
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![]() Unlock the Darkness ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Take the shot while u still can. You've stepped aside enough.
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Jul 25 2004, 10:36 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
I think you should go for it this time around. I mean, you can't always step aside! It's your turn to do your thanggg. lol.
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Jul 25 2004, 11:20 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,295 |
I agree...and from experience...by giving it up...there is still no guarantee their relationship will last..so setting them up might not be for the best. I gave up two guys to my best friend because she always beat me to telling me who she likes. Hint: tell your friends if you like someone. trusted friends that is. so that they will know..and maybe back off for you to make a move. And you'll be happier too. however...give and take ...don't be too selfish now.
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Jul 25 2004, 11:44 PM
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![]() i need an sn change. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
go for it! do it before ur friend does. u have the right to say sumthin
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Jul 26 2004, 12:21 AM
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ok, thx for the help
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Jul 26 2004, 12:26 AM
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![]() im lying just to keep you here ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,947 |
go for it if she likes him more she'll tell you, but screw your friend for right nw, this one is yours
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Jul 26 2004, 01:28 AM
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i <3 me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 315 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,888 |
go for it...if ur friend really has problems w/ it, then maybe he's really not ur friend
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| *Azarel* |
Jul 26 2004, 03:19 AM
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If you haven't read it before, look up the article Nice Guys Finish Last by Garrett Hols. Read it.
Stop stepping aside. It's time for your own happiness. |
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Jul 27 2004, 06:18 PM
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
tell your friend if u hadn't really how you feel. maybe try not asking the girl out [both of you for a while] and see if one of u guys have lost interest in her. and den you noe the rest !
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Jul 27 2004, 07:48 PM
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tag! you're it! ;D ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,572 |
go for it ! don`t let that happen again . i mean you are a niCe friend & all, but you need to take some chances t0o !
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| *CEP* |
Jul 27 2004, 07:50 PM
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Take the initiative.
If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll end up losing the girl that's right for you. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 27 2004, 11:18 PM
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![]() doot doot doot ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
go for it, ur best friend should be understanding and knoe that whoever gets the girl wont affect the friendship
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Jul 27 2004, 11:28 PM
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![]() I'd surf if I couldn't bodyboard. ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,817 |
GO FOR HER DUDE!!
every girl likes to be fought for.. =P well some.. hehe.. <3 DAVe |
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Jul 28 2004, 12:34 AM
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![]() Jeff The Crazy Jew ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,689 |
Go Go Go Go Go Go!!! The time is now!! Your going to regret it later...trust me...
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Jul 28 2004, 07:26 AM
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![]() dudeee! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOOOOOOOOOO!!
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Jul 28 2004, 11:21 AM
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![]() unify and defeat... divide and crumble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
GO GO GO GO GO!!!! man, you are one nice guy...... i feel sorry for you
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Jul 28 2004, 02:19 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Being nice, is a good thing. But giving up something you really want will lower your confidence.
Go for it, and reffer some girls to your friend. |
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Jul 28 2004, 03:13 PM
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Gackt's Wife ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
when u like someone... next time tell them rite away so ur friends wont take them^^
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Jul 28 2004, 03:16 PM
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![]() Roses are red so r my cheeks! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,115 |
I say take her, sometimes life isnt fair and u have had ur unfairness for a while its ur turn to have a fair life lol I hope I helped :)
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Jul 29 2004, 05:06 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
oh nooo, snatch her before ur friend does. it already happend once, dont make it happen to u again!
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Jul 29 2004, 10:59 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
go for her! learn from your mistakes.. dont make them again.
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Jul 29 2004, 11:34 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
go for her! dont keep letting your friends take the girls you like away!
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