im still in love with my ex..., & i have a boyfriend :[ |
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 Sep 30 2006, 01:48 PM
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 another victim of love  Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214  |
Im so confused....
Okay well i had my first love during the summer [may31st] well we broke up because he worked too much & didnt think we would have a successful relationship..we still talked & flirted on the phone & i thought to myself i need to find out if he's really over me so i can move on because there is no point in having feelings for someone that doesnt have any feelings for you back. Well i did, i asked him, & he wouldnt aswer me we were just like sitting there arguing, i kept saying please just tell me if your over me so i can move on & he kept saying i cant im tired im going to sleep i'll talk to you tomorow. We hadnt talked since that convo, i never got any of his calls which he told me last night he called me plenty of times. it took me 3 months to get over him, which i didnt really i just kinda just didnt think about him. Im dating this guy, i dont love him or anything but i just like him, what makes everything harder is i asked my ex why he wouldnt just tell me he's over me so i could have moved on & he told me because he didnt wanna sit there & lie to me saying he's over my when he's not. Im so confused i love him, but i dont know what to do. Last night we were on the phone & my doorbell rang & i went out there & there were roses & a card saying i hope you feel better from my current boyfriend, because i told him i wasnt feeling good. I got off the phone with my ex to call my boyfriend & when i told my ex i would call him back he seemed really pissed, he herd me say "aww look mom he got me roses" & i tried calling him back 3 times he wouldnt answer the 3rd time he let it ring 3 times then rejected it, i sent him 2 texts he hasnt answered back. i dont know what to do i have a wonderful boyfriend but i love my ex still. |
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Sep 30 2006, 04:14 PM
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WOW. isnt this funny, i have the same problem! well i used to.. its kind of obvious that your ex isnt over you, and im assuming that he loves you? but besides that, its nothing wrong to love your ex. i still love my ex, but i try to keep everything minimal with saying 'i love you' or hanging out, etc. because knowing him he'd try to lure me back into being with him again when i already have a bf. and same with you i have a good bf AND still love my ex, but that shouldnt be the BIG PROBLEM.... everybody has somebody they still love [in their past]; just KNOW what your boundries are, so your current relationship wont get f**ked up.
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Sep 30 2006, 05:52 PM
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who do you love more?
who is better for you? who is going to support your descions better? which of them could you call (and would come)at 3:00am in the pouring rain to come pick you up on the side of the road? go with that person. |
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Sep 30 2006, 06:06 PM
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another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
QUOTE(just another teenage dirtbag @ Sep 30 2006, 5:52 PM)  who do you love more? who is better for you? who is going to support your descions better? which of them could you call (and would come)at 3:00am in the pouring rain to come pick you up on the side of the road? go with that person. wow, thank you so much. you dont know how much that has helped me. |
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Sep 30 2006, 06:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,480 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 444,349 |
QUOTE(STFULiNDA @ Sep 30 2006, 6:06 PM) wow, thank you so much. you dont know how much that has helped me. aww! im glad i could help my mom tells me that so i guess go mom! lol! 
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