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 Sep 24 2006, 05:29 PM
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me n this guy just broke up...i know for a fact he still likes me and i still like him but he doesnt wanna go out due to religious differences...but we still like eachother and i'd love to go out with him still...im thinkin he might wanna get back together cuz of the way hes been acting lately...about a week ago ...actually 8 days ago...i texted him telling him i still like him and i told him basically everything...he never replied to my text but we hung out only once that week and he was flirty...now is it wrong for me to be sending him texts like that? i wanna text him again to say i miss him...is it dumb/wrong
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 24 2006, 06:02 PM
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Well, it's not dumb and niether is it wrong for you to send the messages, but you still have to respect the fact that he doesn't want to date you. He may feel that you want keep dating him, and that the only reason you are sending him text messages is to get back together with him. Are you religious?
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Sep 24 2006, 06:40 PM
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Personally i think religion shouldn't get in the way. It's not dumb to be sendin those texts but maybe you should give him sum space and time. He said he didnt wanna get back together, maybe he might change his mind so don't lose complete contact with him
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Sep 24 2006, 07:02 PM
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im not...hes actually not either...but he used to be and he wants to go back to being religious in the future...he wants to raise a family religious...but he believes im never gonna become religious...he has no clue
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Sep 24 2006, 10:34 PM
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 Dr. Phil McGraw Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,015 |
Dr. Phil is confused because Dr. Phil read both of your threads. Dr. Phil feels that you are currently in a situation with two individuals. Dr. Phil currently feels as if you are not so sure of your emotions, and a tad bit unstable.
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Sep 24 2006, 10:58 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
I agree with Dr. Phil.
Didn't you just start a topic about another guy? Or is this the same one... because I'm really confused. |
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Sep 25 2006, 08:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
lol no one guy!! wat did i say that made u think it was2 guys?
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 26 2006, 10:20 AM
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QUOTE(blurrr @ Sep 24 2006, 8:02 PM)  im not...hes actually not either...but he used to be and he wants to go back to being religious in the future...he wants to raise a family religious...but he believes im never gonna become religious...he has no clue Well, just so you understand. Many religions strongly suggest that you date or see people who share the same religion as you. I does make sense. A religion will effect your values, morals, and goals that you hold in your life. It's important for those things to be similar while you are in a relationship, or you will get into alot of fights. QUOTE(Dr. Phil @ Sep 24 2006, 11:34 PM) Dr. Phil is confused because Dr. Phil read both of your threads. Dr. Phil feels that you are currently in a situation with two individuals. Dr. Phil currently feels as if you are not so sure of your emotions, and a tad bit unstable. BTW, Dr. Phil is very religous... haha, I thought you would have said something totally different./ |
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Sep 30 2006, 01:20 AM
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Due to religious reasons? As in you guys believe in different religions?
I believe that no one should date if they believe in a different religion. You're just going to end up getting attached to someone you're not going to be able to marry. Now, I'm not being like religionist or whatever. I don't degrade people that aren't Christians because I wouldn't date them, but because dating is just a pre-marriage step that you can go through with a lot of different people, we should all hold the same standards for dating as we would for marriage. Why can't two people of different religions get married? Because you'll fight over what you tell your children. Sure, you could tell them both sides and let them pick for themself, but that can still cause conflict, or a competition to see who can win their religious beliefs. Also, you'll have different morals, which can also cause conflict. |
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| *mipadi* |
Sep 30 2006, 01:25 AM
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QUOTE(.Hakalu @ Sep 30 2006, 2:20 AM) Also, you'll have different morals, which can also cause conflict. At their core, most religions have nearly the same moral teachings. |
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Sep 30 2006, 01:32 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,501 |
^Well that's true. So that doesn't really count. That's why I greaterly [is greaterly a word? whatever. it is now] expanded on the part about raising your children.
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| *mipadi* |
Sep 30 2006, 01:35 AM
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I think two adults who are otherwise compatible should be able to reconcile their differences on religion in order to have a family.
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