Thrown Away...., I Need help... Options

[rAwritsgWeg]

Yea so like at the begining of the summer, I was my normal self. And like halfway through, I met someone. Someone who has and will affect me to the stage of complete and utter derpression. Me and my girlfriend. Well my ex. We broke up like 5-6 days ago. I have ben completely depressed since then and like she said that she can give me another chance but im not sure if i should take it because ive been doing some research and like, it seems like shes going out with soneone else. and like why would she give me another chance if shes with someone else? Im going f****** insane becuase of this. I think the only person who knows about this(well somewhat) is katie. But yea im like going insane and was wondering if i could get any advice or something

im like in tears like rito now too
cuz i just read everything her and this guy have been saying to each other

wtf.....i feel like i dont need to be here anymore. Oh yea, the other day....i tried to jump in front of a train. and like someone called me and i didnt do it....that feelin keeps on coming back.....and this shit is fuggin with me.............

[LiSFORLiNDA]

AWE im so sorry :[
You remind me of myself,
well I was in a situation similar to that...me & my ex broke up on june 27th, i was so depressed..life just felt meaningless without him. I always broke down & just cried my eyes out at random times. I just hated life so much. But i can promise you, you will move on/get over her. Even if it takes a year haha [which i hope it wont] - But i can tell you today that i am officially over my ex. If someone would've told me i would be over my ex 3 months ago i would've thought they were f*cking crazy. & about the second chance, dont take it. If she's already talking to a guy & wants to get back with you, she's not worth it. She most likely will still be talking to him while ya'll are dating ya feel ? Just do what you think is right & i hope you'll be okay. :)

wtf.....i feel like i dont need to be here anymore. Oh yea, the other day....i tried to jump in front of a train. and like someone called me and i didnt do it....that feelin keeps on coming back.....and this shit is fuggin with me.............

Please dont do that, maybe if she's hurting you so much that you might try to do that ^^. Well maybe you should just get over her..because what if ya'll break up again can you imagine how you would feel, or imagine what you would do ? You dont wanna go through that again do you?

[DisOriental85]

I dont want to sound clichey and say, I've been through it, but I have... When my ex broke up with me, i felt the same, and I just wanted to do something crazy... When she did it, I broke down into tears, punched concrete walls and the road, hoping the physical pain would take away the pain I was feeling inside... Like everyone will tell you, you will move on... It may just take some time... Second chance, I wouldn't even think about it, if what you said is true, about her seeing someone else already... Don't do anything to hurt yourself, instead try this, write a letter explaining to her how much it hurts, but don't give her the letter, talk to other friends, hang out in groups, and take this time to become a better person... Life in my view is not how we live it, its how we adapt to different situations... I dont want to cross any religious boundaries or anything, but I believe we have a predestined path set by God, but we change it everyday we make a decision... So become a better person and you'll be alright... (Not that you are not a good person but everyone is due for an upgrade or self-improvement, right?) Hope this helps...

[OhMyAnniee]

So I'm guessing that you don't want to try again because you're afraid of getting hurt again? If you really like her then I would try giving her another chance. Keep it simple though, like start completely new and pretend like you've never met each other before. But if you don't want to give her another chance, move on! Learn to cope with it and to just take it all in. It's not like your life is over, because it really isn't. Just do some more socializing and just have fun with your friends! Maybe you'll meet someone even greater.

[kstar]

im so sorry that happend :( breaking up definetly hurts

I have been through the same thing though...when me and my ex broke up i held on soo tight and so much stuff happend. he was the first guy i said i loved. We were at a party not to long after we broke up and we started kissing on this couch and then right after he got up and started making out with my best friend... it hurt like hell. he broke up with me on valetines day too. It serioulsy felt like i would never get over it...and it took about a year but i eventually did. I promise that your gunna feel better about it... its gunna hurt like hell for a while but it will go away!

[*krnxswat*]

Who the f**k is Katie, fucktard?

[*x1227x*]

yeah, like what the other people said. a break up sometimes hurts really bad. and you shouldn't hurt yourself because of it. you should just try to forget about her, and do something to calm you down from being utterly depressed. you should just try to be friends with her and try to do your own thing fo a while. then sooner or later, you're over her! cheer up.

[_sarcastic_]

i'm sorry that happened.
cheer up, there are alot of other girls BETTER than her.

[*Uronacid*]

NO! DO NOT GO BACK OUT WITH HER.... I know it's difficult, but you ahve to get ahold of yourself. Don't let this girl ruin your life. Don't let her get you down. You ahve your whole life ahead of you, and to waste it all over one breakup is just plain stupid. Talk to people abotu it. Tell them how you feel, and keep yourself occupied.

[misfit]

You need to move on ,you don't want to be hurt agib do you ?Just give yourself time it's only been 5 or 6 days since you broke up, I really know how you fel, I know it's hard but you need to move on to someone that you feel secure with.And that will not play with your feelings,sounds like she is,if she's possibly with another guy and saying you could have a second chance.

[lovescream]

No relationship (especially one that seemed to start just a few months ago?) is worth killing yourself over. I'm agreeing with misfit here, just move on. She's probably not feeling bad at all, seeing how she's the one who broke up with you and how you think she's seeing someone already. Either way, don't let her offer be a "take or leave it" chance, just leave it. You left her with your heart once and all she did was break it, how can you trust her not to do it again?

[rAwritsgWeg]

Hmmm very good points. Like, from all of you.
Umm im not sure if she is tellin the truth but.....she says that she isnt goin out with anyone, and that she does care about me. Im like gettin decently confused. Im not sure which path i should take. I wanna be with her again. Im just not sure if things will turn out the same. I know im different than i was before i met her, so there is a chance that things will go better this time but.....who knows
I gotta call her when she gets outa school....figure all this out

To all who have given advice, thanks

and to seon, i accidently typed the wrong name....hehe....i was goin crazy
im not sure what name i was meanin to put there but....yea when i do figure it out, ill tell ya