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 Sep 14 2006, 06:56 PM
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Eep. So basically I have a crush on a guy, and I think he likes me back (in "that" way. -giggles immaturely-
 ). The problem is, one of my friends also has a crush on him, and I think it's a little obvious I like him. I mean everyone by now knows I like him, even though I swear I didn't tell anyone. And everyone else also knows that my friend likes him too. I guess obviousness is contagious.  Obviously I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I also want to be able to actually go out with someone amazing and awesome and, you know. Just not worry about hurting her more than necessary.So what should I do?  (btw I bet Jeffrey's going to read this and start laughing and all that junk. It's not -------. Someone else.  )
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Sep 14 2006, 07:01 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
hm...well, are you really close friends with her? Did you like him long before her? I think that if he likes you and you like him, it should be okay.
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Sep 14 2006, 07:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
Well no I haven't known her for long (to tell you the truth, I think she flirts way too much), but we're still pretty good friends. I know I'd feel terrible though if she felt hurt/betrayed/whatever.
I have no idea when she liked him.
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Sep 14 2006, 07:56 PM
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i have the same problem... other than the friend part but you should try to tell her your feelings politely and if she takes it extremely horribly, you can just try to talk to her about it and if he likes you and you like him and he doesn't like your friend, then i guess it's only fair that he "chose" you, so i dont see a problem about that =P
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Sep 14 2006, 08:38 PM
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Priscilla Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,856 |
I've been in this situation before. It's difficult, but I think you should just tell her. See how she takes it. If she's a good friend, she'll understand.
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Sep 14 2006, 09:45 PM
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Hm I say go for it, if she hasn`t made a move then maybe you should before it`s too late. If the opportunity was gone, you might end up regretting it. So yeah. Good luck Andie
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Sep 15 2006, 10:18 AM
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If she's a good friend:
Respect, you should talk to her about it. If she doesn't care. That's one more thing off your mind. If she does care, and she wants to turn it into a game or something. Um... I recommed just being friends with the guy until he chooses who he wants. That way, if he chooses you it was his choice, and if he chooses her... well, he's not your type anyways so you shouldn't worry about it. If she's an acquaintance: She hasn't made a move and you're ready to get this thing started? GO FOR IT. Just don't rush it if all you're doing is trying to beat her in the game. Relationships shouldn't be a competitive sport, but there is nothing wrong with making a first move if you're ready to do so. Be yourself, and don't worry abotu a thing... XD |
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Sep 15 2006, 01:43 PM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Me i would rather leave her to have the guy its only one guy .what is he really that cute i mean seriousley a friend like your he is bound to break up with her fast cuz wehat she is ,is wrong so dont mind her just like acid said be friends and ev3rythign will work out for the best.
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