this friend i have, i told her to do something Options

[AimeeLynn]

ok,i have this so called "friend". i trusted her to go to my myspace to give this message to someone since i couldn't go to my myspace mail at that time. Stupid me trusting her, i gave her my password and my email to do it not thinking she would look through ALL my other messages i gave to ppl. She is madd at me cuz b4 she was mad at me and wrote this HUGE 2 page letter on how i was a bad friend and how i use Big words. I was madd too so to get all that anger i sent to this other friend of mine online. She read it and it was dated july 4,2006 [dont worrry i said sorry on that message] & now she is making a hissy fit. i know she talks crap about me w/ her outside friends. i have other message i sent to ppl and i feel like its was wrong for her to go through my mail. i never had done that to anyone who had gave me their email and password to me to do something. i feel stupid around her because she tells me off on how to look, how to talk, and basically i have to act like a lacky.

So do think im wrong? should i say sorry again?
or should i not talk to her?

she always fights w/ me and im tried of it, most of the time its because of somthing stupid. i think i twas wrong she looked though my mail. its a ferderal offence to do that.

[OhMyAnniee]

first of all, you shouldn't be the one to say sorry. you should really just like ignore her.. or act like you don't care what she talks about. & if you happen to catch her gossiping or talking bad.. then i would just like fight with her. it's not worth it if she doesn't respect your privacy.

[akjsd]

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[AimeeLynn]

in school, her friend told me she told her that she will let ME say sorry if she wants. wtf hell no! Am i some kinda lacky to that i need permission from her to say sorry?
No im saying sry she should say.
should i? im really tired of her controlling me all the time

[blacknailpolish]

What are you gonna say, "I'm sorry that a long time ago we were mad and I told my friend I was mad at you. Thanks, by the way, for taking the time to read my mail (although, it must be said, that one was your fault for giving away your info) and go through all my messages to see what I say about you. It was my fault for talking about you the fourth of july."

Just please tell her to get over herself and stop getting mad at you for stupid shit, and if she thinks she's getting an apology from you, she has to beg it out of you first. She had no reason or right to be going through your mail. Can you not ask her for a simple favor anymore without her getting mad at you for something you did when you were mad at her last summer (ask her this)? I used to have a friend like this myself once. Let's just say I don't anymore. If you want a friend who gets mad at you for everything you USED to do during the summer, then go ahead. Just know that I personally would never put up with this crap.

You sound mad.... and then you turn around and sound like a little puppy thats unsure of what to do. Seriously, look here:

i feel stupid around her because she tells me off on how to look, how to talk, and basically i have to act like a lacky.

So do think im wrong? should i say sorry again?

If your mad, let her know!!!!

[OkamaPower]

change your password and shes an ass, your the good one. she was the nosey ass @#%^$. so i see, she will let YOU say sorry? Tell her this, "What if i looked through your personal messages of any kind that you wouldnt want anyone else to know? How would you feel." and if she doesnt answer than forget it, flip her and not be freinds.

[vn_cuti3]

people can get curious sometime but then you shouldn't gave out your password in the first place couldn't you just wait a little while to send that message? just change the password now so she wouldn't sneak on anymore.......that is if she does sneak on.

[*Uronacid*]

Wow, look, everyone needs an outlet. I talk about how I feel about my friends behind their backs all the time. Most of the time it's because I have to vent about it. Either that or I have to talk about them to under stand how I truley feel about them.

I talk abotu Holly behind her back all the time (sorry, but it's the truth). I only expect her to do the same. I encourage her to talk about he problems and issues with other people becuase I know that it will only help her to better understand herself and what she needs as an individual. I don't care if she talks about me behind my back. I want her to vent if she has something on her heart.

Now, at the same time, you can't just vent, vent, vent, and never say anything to the person that (you are have your conflict with/will be effected by that conflict). If you didn't say anything to her about the way that you felt about her, then you do owe her an appolgy. You owe her an appology because you are not allowing her to become the best person that she can be. If you have figured out how you feel about a person, and you do care about that person. You need to do your best to tell that person how they effected you, what they did to effect you that way, and why it effected you that way. If what they did was wrong they will be able to see that and possibly make an attempt to change their behavior for the better. If they didn't do anything wrong, perhapse you misunderstood what they were doing, they will be able to help you understand why they had done what they did or what had meant to do.

Yes, she didn't have the right to read all that stuff and is in the wrong for invading your privacy, but at the same time you did allow her to do that. It's your fualt. She should appologize for going through your profile, but if you never told her how you felt about her when you were angery. You may owe her an apology for that.

When if comes right down to it... You really need to talk to her. She shouldn't get mad when she is reading stuff that she isn't supposed to read, and from now on maybe you should just work things out with her and talk it over when you're angery with her. If she can't handle working things out then maybe you need to find a new friend.

[AimeeLynn]

omg, i freakin scared right now. that friend i have wrote a threat letter to mein myspace saying she/he is gonna kill me or beat me up. its those "ghetto" people. im really scared she knows where i live.

[*Uronacid*]

omg, i freakin scared right now. that friend i have wrote a threat letter to mein myspace saying she/he is gonna kill me or beat me up. its those "ghetto" people. im really scared she knows where i live.

Omg, those people are so much talk... just ignore them, and don't say anything. I live in the ghetto. All they want to do is feel like their tough and shit. Let them feel better than you, f**k it. Just don't talk to her/him anymore. Don't reply... don't say anything. Just delete them from your friends list and ignore them forever. People like that don't deserve attention.

[*StanleyThePanda*]

You should let her know how you feel, if you havent yet.
But like Kimi said, its kind of your fault... You did give her your password.
The same thing happened to my friend, except she gave the girl her password to make a layout for her. The girl started logging in daily and reading her mail. So my friend changed her password.

[AimeeLynn]

Omg, those people are so much talk... just ignore them, and don't say anything. I live in the ghetto. All they want to do is feel like their tough and shit. Let them feel better than you, f**k it. Just don't talk to her/him anymore. Don't reply... don't say anything. Just delete them from your friends list and ignore them forever. People like that don't deserve attention.

one thing idk who it is, she/he had a blank account and the name was "f**k".
and i i said sry and asked if we were cool and she said alittle but not all the way, and i asked her is that ur friend who sent me that? and she said maybe and she said u should be afraid. i was like what?
and i said dont talk to me.

[*krnxswat*]

ok,i have this so called "friend". i trusted her to go to my myspace to give this message to someone since i couldn't go to my myspace mail at that time. Stupid me trusting her, i gave her my password and my email to do it not thinking she would look through ALL my other messages i gave to ppl. She is madd at me cuz b4 she was mad at me and wrote this HUGE 2 page letter on how i was a bad friend and how i use Big words. I was madd too so to get all that anger i sent to this other friend of mine online. She read it and it was dated july 4,2006 [dont worrry i said sorry on that message] & now she is making a hissy fit. i know she talks crap about me w/ her outside friends. i have other message i sent to ppl and i feel like its was wrong for her to go through my mail. i never had done that to anyone who had gave me their email and password to me to do something. i feel stupid around her because she tells me off on how to look, how to talk, and basically i have to act like a lacky.

So do think im wrong? should i say sorry again?
or should i not talk to her?

she always fights w/ me and im tried of it, most of the time its because of somthing stupid. i think i twas wrong she looked though my mail. its a ferderal offence to do that.

Let's see what kinds of big, complex, and intricate words you just used in that above content. "cuz" "be4" "Big" "madd" "ppl"
In addition, a couple, actually more, grammatical errors, as well as spelling errors, here and there.

I'm not going to f**king sympathize and have pity on you like other fellow createBlogans, which you probably expected them to. [ Kay, don't include that. -_- ]

This post has been edited by mona lisa: Sep 14 2006, 06:17 PM

[AimeeLynn]

^why do you hate me so much? did i make fun of you and did i hurt you? you always insult me even before this topic.

[*krnxswat*]

asdasd

[*chaneun*]

is myspace your life?

[AimeeLynn]

is myspace your life?

who me?

[Synthetic.Love]

first of all, you shouldn't be the one to say sorry. you should really just like ignore her.. or act like you don't care what she talks about. & if you happen to catch her gossiping or talking bad.. then i would just like fight with her. it's not worth it if she doesn't respect your privacy.

^Agreed. It's totally not right to look through your mail. It's disrespecting your privacy and throwing away your trust. You trusted her to only send a message, yet she looked through all of your personal stuff.

You shouldn't be the one to say sorry. She should.

Drop her. Seriously. You're worth more.

[*Uronacid*]

asdasd

haha, you are so stupid....

He's like this little kid that runs around swearing and stuff... everyone pretty much ignores him or gives him a pat on the back saying somthing like, "awwww... you're funny, good job krnxswat." It's like they're handing him a treat or something. It feeds him. If you just ignore him, he eventuallly goes away. Just act like you don't care. All he wants is a reaction. It feeds him.

[Mizz1Exquisite]

haha, you are so stupid....

He's like this little kid that runs around swearing and stuff... everyone pretty much ignores him or gives him a pat on the back saying somthing like, "awwww... you're funny, good job krnxswat." It's like they're handing him a treat or something. It feeds him. If you just ignore him, he eventuallly goes away. Just act like you don't care. All he wants is a reaction. It feeds him.

He has a great sence of humer but he can somtimes be a jack ass.And i wont denie it i find it cute somtimes but anyways just go on ignoring krnxswat he is just being him.

[*Uronacid*]

He has a great sence of humer but he can somtimes be a jack ass.And i wont denie it i find it cute somtimes but anyways just go on ignoring krnxswat he is just being him.

Meh, I know... but like you said he often crosses the line and, just like a baby, needs a slap on the wrists.

[AngelinaTaylor]

What does "humer" mean?

And, by the way, jealousy is a bad thing.

[shortiiex]

that's an invasion of privacy it's not you're fault..you had no right to do that..so you wait till she apolgizes

[blacknailpolish]

^why do you hate me so much? did i make fun of you and did i hurt you? you always insult me even before this topic.

seriously dont take it personally hes just going around being himself

[Mizz1Exquisite]

Oh for the love of choclate just laugh at or ignore krnxswat.