its all downhill, 5 year relationship |
 Sep 12 2006, 01:45 PM
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ive been with chris since the 8th grade and we`ve been together for almost 5 years now. when it`s good, it`s oh so good but when it`s bad, hell breaks open.
it`s weird with us because one day, he`s so committed to us. all he tells me is, "i want to be with you forever. i love you with all my heart. i want to marry you." and the next day, he tells me, "i don`t want to be committed. i don`t want to talk about the future." it hurts me because i love him that much and we`ve been together for 5 years. does he not want to be with me anymore? i don`t understand --- why does he always change his mind? is it something i`m doing? what could i do? our relationship hasn`t always been the best because we`ve gotten into countless arguments over petty things. now i`m going to go to college in san diego and he`s going to be here in los angeles. i`m planning on coming back every 2 weeks, but i don`t know if it`ll be enough. i don`t want him to get tired of this "long distance thing" and i don`t want his eyes to wander while i`m away. chris has always been a faithful person and i know he`d never cheat on me. is it wise to keep going with this relationship even though i`ll be a 100 miles away? i feel like i can`t live without him because we`ve been through everything together. what do i do? help! thanks  EDIT ---- i know that 2 hours isnt as extreme as other long distance relationships :p but remember that we have been practically neighbors for the past 5 years & its hard to go from that to being in different cities :( THANKS for all of your advice. |
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II_noFOREVER its all downhill Sep 12 2006, 01:45 PM
hardxcoreL0VER talk to him. ask him about your future. maybe you ... Sep 12 2006, 04:31 PM This Confession You know the best thing to do at the moment is tal... Sep 12 2006, 04:34 PM m_h I'm sorry to hear that ur going through this. ... Sep 12 2006, 06:39 PM tinasmileeetina I think he's afraid. Maybe he feels that he ca... Sep 12 2006, 09:21 PM Uronacid Look, it's not going to be easy to go from a r... Sep 12 2006, 09:45 PM krnxswat Guhfren~! That's not even longdistance. Wh... Sep 12 2006, 09:58 PM
Uronacid QUOTE(krnxswat @ Sep 12 2006, 10:58 PM) G... Sep 12 2006, 10:27 PM krnxswat Not even two hours! Sep 12 2006, 10:36 PM _sarcastic_ sit him down and talk to him about this long dista... Sep 13 2006, 01:18 AM II_noFOREVER thanks to everybody for your advice :)
and as fo... Sep 13 2006, 01:48 AM Venomous Lust Oh come on thats not even a long distance 2 hours ... Sep 13 2006, 12:50 PM This Confession I can agree that yea you both have been together f... Sep 13 2006, 03:31 PM Uronacid QUOTE(This Confession @ Sep 13 2006, 4:31... Sep 13 2006, 06:33 PM  |
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