He 'disappeared' |
 Sep 3 2006, 03:13 AM
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So this guy asks me out to the movies, but apparently I can't date a guy without bringing him home first. So, I did. But before I did, there was alot of flirty texts back and forth, everyday. There was even a point where I could've sworn we were already going out, officially. But I pointed it out, and he said we havent even really done anything at all to really feel anything yet.
So, one day, I finally bring him home. We got a little too intimate for the first hour when my parents weren't around yet, and I'm talking about 1st,2nd,3rd base all together. It was all too fast, I thought, but we were already talking about it beforehand, text-wise. So, after 4-5 hours in the house, meeting the family and fooling around every chance we got, he went home. A day after that we exchanged only one text, and the day after that there was nothing. Then the day after that, I sent a text for a kicks, and there was no response. So, what happened? |
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Sep 3 2006, 03:18 AM
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He used you
 Atleast that what comes to mind, sorry to say that and all I wish it wouldn't ever happen to anyone but yea. Perhaps you could call him or something and ask him what he thinks of it all and what does he want to do. I suppose if he doesnt' want to do anything then you can't do anything to change his opinion because you made the choice to move as fast as he did the first time you guys did things. Just remember theres always more people out there as well. |
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Sep 3 2006, 03:32 AM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ Sep 3 2006, 4:18 AM)  He used you Atleast that what comes to mind, sorry to say that and all I wish it wouldn't ever happen to anyone but yea. Perhaps you could call him or something and ask him what he thinks of it all and what does he want to do. I suppose if he doesnt' want to do anything then you can't do anything to change his opinion because you made the choice to move as fast as he did the first time you guys did things. Just remember theres always more people out there as well. You're right, maybe he did, but something's telling me that it was never just because of that. I think that's what's making me question the whole thing and bothering to post it up on a forum for opinions, but thanks though for you're opinion (: Ah, but what confuses me, is that through it all, he chose not to go all the way. He said that one reason was because he didn't want to hurt me, but then he mentioned about not seeing himself 'having fun doing it'. It confuses me. But our conversations were never always about intimacy. There were times when it was just simple and sweet. Some showing that he even cared. That's what's stopping me from thinking he used me. |
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Sep 3 2006, 04:36 AM
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Maybe he's confused at what he wants?
I'm not to sure on that, but thats what came to mind when I was reading your last post. Perhaps talk to him if he'll ever respond back. Maybe give him a day or two to think on things and then see if he'll reply. Maybe send him a text and write a joke in it that you know if he read it then it would make him smile. I suppose if you guys were anything, relationship wise it would be nice to let him know that you want him to have a nice day and stuff. Just don't be to clingy about things, it still kind of questionable. I wish you the best of luck though 
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Sep 3 2006, 09:08 AM
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QUOTE(hershey-kissesz @ Sep 3 2006, 4:13 AM) So this guy asks me out to the movies, but apparently I can't date a guy without bringing him home first. So, I did. But before I did, there was alot of flirty texts back and forth, everyday. There was even a point where I could've sworn we were already going out, officially. But I pointed it out, and he said we havent even really done anything at all to really feel anything yet. So, one day, I finally bring him home. We got a little too intimate for the first hour when my parents weren't around yet, and I'm talking about 1st,2nd,3rd base all together. It was all too fast, I thought, but we were already talking about it beforehand, text-wise. So, after 4-5 hours in the house, meeting the family and fooling around every chance we got, he went home. A day after that we exchanged only one text, and the day after that there was nothing. Then the day after that, I sent a text for a kicks, and there was no response. So, what happened? A) Too easy for him B) Used you C) Didn't like your body D) Or he might have actually got hurt or something and is in the hospital |
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Sep 3 2006, 10:36 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
he may have used you...or he could just feel wierd about everything and realized it was a mistake to go that fast? i would say let him come to you, or you might come off as a stalker. but if he doesnt, oh well hes a scumbag who doesnt deserve your time!
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Sep 3 2006, 10:45 AM
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Perpahs your father told him to back off, biznatch!
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Sep 3 2006, 12:16 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
He either used you as a booty call or maybe he's embarrassed or something since you guys went too fast & that could've sort of scared him off.
Hm, what you can do is stop sending him 4987598437 txts per day since that'll make you come off as clingy & scare him away even more, & then after a few days (or if it has already been a few days) call him up & see what's up & take it from there. You might even want to block your number while doing so since he might be avoiding you. |
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Sep 3 2006, 01:01 PM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ Sep 3 2006, 1:18 AM) He used you Atleast that what comes to mind, sorry to say that and all I wish it wouldn't ever happen to anyone but yea. Perhaps you could call him or something and ask him what he thinks of it all and what does he want to do. I suppose if he doesnt' want to do anything then you can't do anything to change his opinion because you made the choice to move as fast as he did the first time you guys did things. Just remember theres always more people out there as well. yeah, i agree with thee above ^. sorry if it's going to angry you.  i hope you work things out with eachother 
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