I'm in a weird situation rite now..., and it's making me confused =[ Options

[rainie8847]

so thers this guy (call him guy A), that i thought was quite cute he goes to my school. we sorta met at this camp thingy and we just talked for very little. so then later i see him in one of my lessons n we talked a bit too. =] thingz wer sorta ok cuz then we went on this trip where we stayed at a hotel for camp and his room was rite in front of mine. i noticed that he would stare and smile at me a lot which i found a little embarassing. n i kno he's like the shy type. so one time i was sitting near the door and he came out of his room and my fdz happened to open the door and they said that he was all like looking inside our room (there was only me inside and my other friend) n they said he was 'looking' @ me =S. so ya... i didnt reli like him @ first cuz i liked sum other dude... =T so then later... my friend likes this guy... but i super duper hate him. that guy happens to be best buddies with guy A! so ya... apparently the guy that my friend likes i think doesn't like me either. so i now notice that guy A always avoids me at school... im not sure if it's just me but i reli get this feeling... cuz one time i was walking to this class and i saw him and then he very quickly saw me and ran off. im serious, like just scurried off. =[ so then im juz like... err... ya it's happened a lot of times. =T it's reli weird... im not reli sure if he has a thing for me anymore cuz he keeps on avoiding me... and yes i am starting to like him a little now =\

[OhMyAnniee]

Your typing is bugging me.
But that's alright

I think it's just feeling.
Like, you know he likes you but you don't like him but once you lose him you really want him. You know? Maybe he heard stuff from that guy your friend likes?

[absinthe]

Nahh. The typing could be worse. *bangs head on table*

1. He's his own guy. You guys have had the chance to talk and he should have gauged your overall personality by now. If his friend choses to talk trash about you, he should be intelligent enough to pick of the baise from the truth. If he's not, why bother with an idiot.

2. Maybe he's just avoiding you because he finally became aware of his feelings. Bizarre, but not unheard of especially if he's the overly shy type.

3. If its bothering you that much, and you're sure you two had something before he started avoiding you, why not take the first step?

:]

[_sarcastic_]

you should just make the first move, instead of dwelling on whether he hates you or not

[rainie8847]

Sorry about the typing, I was typing fast. ^^"
Well I'll type better now~ =]
And yeah he might've heard stuff about me from his guy friend...
I am so clueless right now because we don't have any classes together and we only see each other in the hall sometimes...
And I avoid making eye contact with him... =T
And also it's making me start to avoid him badly also...
I saw him in the hall and I was so embarassed that I just ran straight into a classroom (luckily it was a room that I actually had a class in XD). =[

[rainie8847]

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[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

so thers this guy (call him guy A), that i thought was quite cute he goes to my school. we sorta met at this camp thingy and we just talked for very little. so then later i see him in one of my lessons n we talked a bit too. =] thingz wer sorta ok cuz then we went on this trip where we stayed at a hotel for camp and his room was rite in front of mine. i noticed that he would stare and smile at me a lot which i found a little embarassing. n i kno he's like the shy type. so one time i was sitting near the door and he came out of his room and my fdz happened to open the door and they said that he was all like looking inside our room (there was only me inside and my other friend) n they said he was 'looking' @ me =S. so ya... i didnt reli like him @ first cuz i liked sum other dude... =T so then later... my friend likes this guy... but i super duper hate him. that guy happens to be best buddies with guy A! so ya... apparently the guy that my friend likes i think doesn't like me either. so i now notice that guy A always avoids me at school... im not sure if it's just me but i reli get this feeling... cuz one time i was walking to this class and i saw him and then he very quickly saw me and ran off. im serious, like just scurried off. =[ so then im juz like... err... ya it's happened a lot of times. =T it's reli weird... im not reli sure if he has a thing for me anymore cuz he keeps on avoiding me... and yes i am starting to like him a little now =\

Oh, ok, I think I get this. Someone you met at a camp event liked you but you happened to like another guy. Coincidentally, his friend. And now you and the boy you liked don't get along at all.

So you think that the guy you liked (B) hates you now and is telling the guy who liked you (A) bad things about you?

Had you ever had a good relationship with guy B, or was it just an admiration? Do you like guy A now, or are you just upset that he doesn't want to acknowledge you?
You made it seem that you never really liked him?

[rainie8847]

^ Oh no no no i've never liked guy B, i hated him from the start.
it just so happens that, my best friend likes guy B and guy A is best friends with guy B!!!! >__<
n these few dayz, it has gotten better
seems like he is smiling at me, and yesterday, i think he was stalking me O__o
cuz then i was walking and i passed his locker, saw him, and walked to the cafeteria to find my friends.
i turned around, and i saw him about a few meters away from me 'looking around' and then i quickly turned away
i think he saw me >____<
hmm i think we need an opportunity to get to kno each other and talk =T

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

Oooooh, ok. When you said "i didnt reli like him @ first cuz i liked sum other dude" I thought that was referring to guy B. This is confusing

But if you don't like guy B, then why does it matter if he doesn't make an effort to talk to you and such?