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 May 26 2004, 07:41 PM
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ive liked this guy for over 3 monthes, he has no idea. he makes me laugh and when im around him im happy. it doesnt feel like just a crush.. but maybe it is. do i like this guy, or love him?
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May 26 2004, 07:43 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Stupid-baiting!
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May 26 2004, 07:45 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
I think only you'd know that answer.
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May 26 2004, 07:59 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well umm onli u would noe it, no1 else cuz wen u love some1, u jus noe it
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May 26 2004, 08:08 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(dani41790 @ May 26 2004, 7:59 PM) well umm onli u would noe it, no1 else cuz wen u love some1, u jus noe it This thread is stupid bait... |
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May 26 2004, 08:17 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Oh and also, you don't love him. 3 months isn't enough...so I guess I do have an answer for your question.
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May 26 2004, 08:47 PM
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You like him.
And you should know that. Hell, $5 says you wouldn't take a bullet for him. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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May 26 2004, 11:31 PM
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QUOTE(xEat a VeganX @ May 26 2004, 7:41 PM) ive liked this guy for over 3 monthes, he has no idea. he makes me laugh and when im around him im happy. it doesnt feel like just a crush.. but maybe it is. do i like this guy, or love him? like. it doesn't make sense when people say they 'love' someone in such a short period of time. it's like everybody abuses the meaning of love. it's weird...and unpleasant.  too common. like, someone 'loves' their boyfriend/girlfriend one day.next day, they break up, and poof, next week, they don't 'love' each other. real love isn't like that, right? |
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May 27 2004, 12:05 AM
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 the girl next door Group: Member Posts: 145 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,579 |
QUOTE(shortie09 @ May 26 2004, 11:31 PM) like. it doesn't make sense when people say they 'love' someone in such a short period of time. it's like everybody abuses the meaning of love. it's weird...and unpleasant. too common. like, someone 'loves' their boyfriend/girlfriend one day.next day, they break up, and poof, next week, they don't 'love' each other. real love isn't like that, right? Well for people who fall in love in a short period of time are probably believers of love at first sight... Just like you, I have a problem with people saying they "love" someone.. They go out with someone for a long time they are in love.. they break up and they move on and fall in love again. There was a time when love was suppose to be reserved to your one true love wasn't it? Nowadays, love just doesn't have the same meaning.. |
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May 27 2004, 12:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
Yeah I agree. I don't think you can actually fall in love with someone that fast and I think it will have to take some time.
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May 27 2004, 12:20 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
It really depends on which way you want to look at it. I fell in love in just a few months. I would have died for him. I would have done ANYTHING for him. But he shattered my heart and now I kinda look at love different. Your personal experience is what counts. Well, if you've known him for 3 months, but hardly ever see him.. that's a doubted love. But if you've known him for 3 months and see him often.. then it COULD be. Not entirely likely, but there is a chance.
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May 27 2004, 12:53 AM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
no one can tell you how feel about someone except for yourself..maybe you think its love but its realli infatuation..maybe it is love..but onliee you will know..we cant tell you no matter how much you tell us about the way you feel because we cant feel it..we dont know how strong or how not so strong your feelings are..listen to your heart and it will tell you how you feel..
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May 27 2004, 03:05 PM
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 this one time at band camp... Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,926 |
you just do. you cant ask someone if youre in love. like, you just KNOW. i mean, when he touches you your heart thumps no matter what and you shiver for no reason and you blush everytime you see him...its just...well not perfect..but amazing.
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May 28 2004, 08:56 AM
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when u love someone, you always want to be with that person and never leave... you wnat to spend the most time possible being near that person... do you alwyas wnat to be with your crush? and never leave?
and than when u love someone you always have things to talk about an dyou can talk about naything! at all, nothing embarrasses u to talk about... so can you talk to this person about ANYTHING?? |
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May 29 2004, 09:35 AM
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i have liked this girl for 5 or 6 months i thought i loved her but it was that i like her alot
on the 5th month i finally could say i love her because i do i have been lying to myself saying i love her but now i really do mean it love to me is you would do everything just to make that person happy but make you sad i have done that and thats when i relized that was love this is my story i told her i will wait for her she told me not to because she really dont think we have a chance together at the end because of her religion and if she sees me hurt she would be too so i gave up not for me but for her it hurted so much that night i told her i will not wait any more |
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May 29 2004, 09:37 AM
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QUOTE(177emories @ May 28 2004, 8:56 AM) than when u love someone you always have things to talk about an dyou can talk about naything! at all, nothing embarrasses u to talk about... so can you talk to this person about ANYTHING?? thats true i am on the phone with her we really dont talk about something we always talk about nothing lols do you people get what i just said if not nvm lols |
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May 29 2004, 02:15 PM
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QUOTE Oh and also, you don't love him. 3 months isn't enough...so I guess I do have an answer for your question. Love doesn't always have to be determined by how much time has passed. I always thought that it was, but after my boyfriend told me he loved me about a month and a half later, my perspective changed completely. You can say what you want that he's just telling me this and throwing the word around or wanting some ass, but when he told me, I believed him. Sometimes you just feel "the love." So my point is, it's not always how much time has passed, but what has happened in the time passed. You don't always have to give up your life for them in order to be in love. Though, since you're asking for advice whether you love him or not, I don't think anyone can answer that question but you. |
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May 29 2004, 07:41 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
heh... well i knew that i loved someone after a month...because i missed him everyday.. i was very crazy over him. it's like loving one of ur fan...it's kinda like that. so i would say is that... if u miss him every day and night, think about him, sometimes dream about him, u jus wana give gifts to him, but u jus cant cus u dont have money but u reallie wana, cry when he is hurt, cry when he gets a car accident or something horrible but not death lols, well... also if u have the mind to die for ur loved ones... i love justin...and i would die for him because i love him so much. i cant live without him. it's kinda like that.
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May 30 2004, 01:30 PM
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QUOTE(shortie09 @ May 26 2004, 11:31 PM) like. it doesn't make sense when people say they 'love' someone in such a short period of time. it's like everybody abuses the meaning of love. it's weird...and unpleasant. too common. like, someone 'loves' their boyfriend/girlfriend one day.next day, they break up, and poof, next week, they don't 'love' each other. real love isn't like that, right? i agree. i know all these people and they have new bf/gfs like every few weeks, and with everyone it's like '*name* ilyssssfmm' and it's like they love every one of them. they say you only fall in love once. i think that's kind of bending it a bit... but really, how long does it take to actually call it love? i went out with this guy for 5 months, and, yeah, i said i loved him. but did i really? i don't know. but there's this other guy, and i've liked him for a lil over 14 months now. i've never gone out with him. he's never liked me (to my knowledge). he had a gf for like a year. and still i like him. i've thought that i stopped liking him like three times...but it just keeps comming back. i even liked someone else at one point (my ex). but i think i always still liked this guy deep down. what do you think?  
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