After The Break Up..., do you stay friends? |
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 May 29 2004, 11:51 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05  Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851  |
i know how most people say "lets just be friends" when they break up, but do you actually stay as friends after the break up?
i'm actually still friends with all my exes except for maybe like the first bf i had, well i don't really consider SOME those a relationship anymore now that i look back, they were just too short to be considerd a relationship... in my opinion less than 3 months... |
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May 29 2004, 11:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
You can always try to be friends.
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May 30 2004, 12:00 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
second!! well im still frienz wif mai exes..
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May 30 2004, 12:36 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
It might feel weird afterwards thats why.
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May 30 2004, 12:38 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
im still friends with mai exes
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May 31 2004, 01:34 PM
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fionnaax33 Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,129 |
[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1]i guess it depends on who you are. i mean, i had a few exes. but i dont talk to them again. i would say hi and everything. but i think they're still pissed off that it was me who broke up with them (;
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May 31 2004, 01:41 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
nope, the majority of my breakups are messy.
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May 31 2004, 02:05 PM
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 technicolor girl Group: Member Posts: 1,075 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,104 |
nope im not friends w. my exes
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May 31 2004, 02:09 PM
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*marie* Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,051 |
im friends with all my ex boyfriends because they really are great people.
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May 31 2004, 02:16 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
 with most of my exes, we are cool, but the one that I really cared bout is a no no and wants nothing to do with me.
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May 31 2004, 02:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 943 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,007 |
i'm still friends with my ex gf's
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May 31 2004, 03:00 PM
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 that's ohˇpim Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,936 |
I'm still friends with half of my ex's. One half I don't see everyday and the other half, I see on a daily basis.
But then again..we talk occasionally...so I guess they're more of an aquaintance? |
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May 31 2004, 04:44 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
im still friends with all of them, why make it hard fo urself rite? like i mean they really are great ppl, or i wouldn't have gone out wit thm rite?"
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May 31 2004, 04:47 PM
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 - kuupi! ♥- Group: Member Posts: 937 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,148 |
Most of my breakups are messy messy things, and I'd rather avoid the exes at ALL COSTS.
Im actually only friends with one of my exes - he was my first real, substantial boyfriend too. We're very very close still. I actually still have a thing for him ... even though we broke up a couple years ago. 
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May 31 2004, 04:51 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
i at least *TRY* to stay friends with my ex boyfriends... even though it dont work half the time
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May 31 2004, 04:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
9 out of 10 people do not stay friends... that should explain everything...
Me and my ex were friends but she tried changing me cause she wanted to get back together with me... and i hate when people do that... so you do the math 
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May 31 2004, 06:16 PM
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 "i AM A ROBOT" Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,681 |
Ehh, it took me a couple of months, but we're talking. But not as much. He thinks that i've gotten over with whatever he's done. But in my head, i'm still really mad at him.
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Jun 9 2004, 07:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
in some cases yes, but in alot no. either too painful or jsut too different
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Jun 9 2004, 08:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I've only had to real BFs and the break ups were mutual. So I'm still friends with both of them.
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Jun 9 2004, 08:54 PM
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 "KDrama Obsessed" Group: Member Posts: 307 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,156 |
no, because there's a reason for them being my exes. thats y i broke up with those bastards! excuse de language.
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Jun 9 2004, 09:15 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, my boyfriend and i broke up mutually, but i guess he doesn't want to be friends or anything because he always tries to avoid me. but i still want to be his friend!
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Jun 9 2004, 09:22 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
im stio frenz with mai exs. in fact im almost best frenz with one of em. the rest moved away.
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Jun 10 2004, 08:13 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
hrm... well as far as I know, some break ups end up like that, and some are too violent or too messy as roxanne said. so yah. anyway, mai past break-up was... okai i guess? said it calmly and stuff... "I don't love you anymore" o.o;; was what i said just to make him stop calling o.0; there were more tears than yells so yah xD
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Jun 10 2004, 08:46 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I have a thread that relates to this. It depends on how you break up. I would want to stay friends with my exes though..
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Jul 9 2004, 07:37 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(mai_z @ May 31 2004, 4:44 PM) im still friends with all of them, why make it hard fo urself rite? like i mean they really are great ppl, or i wouldn't have gone out wit thm rite?" i agree |
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