am i ready for this kind of relationship??, please i need advice |
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 Aug 14 2006, 06:49 PM
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ok. so i have a bf, and he's really sweet. the problem is, is that sometimes, i feel like i want to be single. i kinda like it better than being in a relationship. I dont want to break up, because then i'll miss him too much. but if i dont,i wont enjoy the things that sinlge girls can do [look @ other guys..flirt] what should i do?
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Aug 14 2006, 06:51 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
Take a "break". Tell him that you want to "explore" life for a bit but you still want him there with you. He may understand he may not. It is up to you two.
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Aug 14 2006, 06:53 PM
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it could be that you just got used to your boyfriends company and you dont really love him. it depends like how old you are if your like really young then why do you have a bf on such a young age? just go and live your life before being in a realtionship. Or it could be that you need a break from your boyfriend and live the single life for a while.
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 14 2006, 08:14 PM
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Look, the single life is appealing... Really, it's easy, you don't have to worry about what your partner is feeling or thinking, the only one you have to trust is yourself, and you are in complete control... I mean, look... why do you think so many people are single. There are alot of benefits to being a single guy or girl, but there are also benefits to being in a relationship. Especially a loving relationship. You have someone to talk to, who cares about you, who wants whats best for you, who will listen to you, and who will make you feel valuable.
You can't have both without being monogomous... You really need to make a decsition. What do you think is best for you. Being single, or being in a relationship with the guy you are in a relationship in. A break is also a good option, but it has to be mutual. You need to talk to your boy-friend. |
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| *suddenly she* |
Aug 14 2006, 08:19 PM
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QUOTE(The E-Man @ Aug 14 2006, 6:51 PM)  Take a "break". Tell him that you want to "explore" life for a bit but you still want him there with you. He may understand he may not. It is up to you two. i don't really like the break idea, as in how he's still there with/for you, but you can flirt. to me, it just sounds like she's using him as backup to run to. it's not something i say to most girls, but ... man up.  boyfriend or spontaneous flirting. one or the other.
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Aug 14 2006, 08:20 PM
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All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
QUOTE(suddenly she @ Aug 14 2006, 9:19 PM) i don't really like the break idea, as in how he's still there with/for you, but you can flirt. to me, it just sounds like she's using him as backup to run to. it's not something i say to most girls, but ... man up. boyfriend or spontaneous flirting. one or the other.Yeah you are right. I agree with her^^ |
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 15 2006, 07:57 AM
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Would you rather flirt, or have a relationship?
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 15 2006, 09:11 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Aug 15 2006, 8:57 AM) Would you rather flirt, or have a relationship? good question.... you need to ask yourself this... like I said above. you can't have both, and the only way that a breakwill work is if its completely mutual. |
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Aug 15 2006, 09:14 AM
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 I've got ADD and magic markers. Oh the thrills I will have. Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,743 |
Yeah, everyone has given you great advice. It's clear that you're not ready for a relationship. Ask yourself if you'd rather flirt or have bf. And then you'll have your answer.
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Sep 27 2006, 11:15 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
girl be single!! if you like it then do it!! actually if i didnt have a bf right now, i know i will have an awesome single life, just chillin with friends and having crazy fun.
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Sep 27 2006, 03:36 PM
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u must be want a open relationship
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| *BONNIE.* |
Sep 27 2006, 05:36 PM
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Let it burn , Let it burn, gotta Let it burnnnnnnn
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 28 2006, 06:53 AM
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This one's a toughie. I guess you have to decide for yourself if you're willing to be dedicated to the relationship or if you prefer being single.
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