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 Sep 5 2006, 12:04 AM
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Well it's a long story. I met this guy Charles two years ago and I have liked him ever since then. I never really got to see him because he never went to school with me until this year. He is older than me but yeah. Anyways this year at the beginning I met the sweetest guy. I like him and he likes me. So a couple days ago I went to Charle's party and we hooked up. I guess you would consider us "f*ck buddies" now. I feel bad because I have feelings for both. I haven't told the new guy about me and Charles because there is a chance we might go out. I hate sounding like a whore. I'm so confused. Comments... Anything.
I might go out with the new guy. Sorry just thought I would make that clear. The other guy likes to hook up and doesn't like to be monogomous. |
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Sep 5 2006, 05:44 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
if ur asking who to pick.
it's an obvious choice. ur not ready for either. ur gonna hurt both, and urself. end of story. stay single, cause ur not ready. |
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Sep 27 2006, 10:54 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
wow. thats kinda crazy. i kinda agree with him ^
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Sep 27 2006, 11:37 PM
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I second that. You are 15 and have f**k buddies. When i was 15 i was still playing with barbies or so!
Take your time... |
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Sep 27 2006, 11:44 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
^ really?? Barbies??
I personally think if a person's so conflicted between two people, then the feeling's definately not strong enough. Don't go out with either of them until you know for SURE that you really want one over the other. I know for a fact that if a guy liked me and another girl and wasn't sure which one to go for, that I'd be like "whatever" and not date him, period. Maybe it's just me and my insecurities, but I like to be the one and only. So just do yourself and both of those guys a favor. Don't choose until you're absolutely certain because I don't think you're ready. |
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Sep 28 2006, 01:30 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with dahding.
i say just stay single. |
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Sep 28 2006, 01:35 AM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(gerrit @ Sep 28 2006, 12:37 AM)  I second that. You are 15 and have f**k buddies. When i was 15 i was still playing with barbies or so! Take your time... LOL barbies. nice, but yea your way too young to be have f*ck buddies at the age of 15, but off subject. yea its pretty obvious as who to pick but just calm down take life easy dont hurry into things. |
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Sep 28 2006, 02:42 AM
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You're using lust to determine your choices.
think clearly. You dont need a f**k buddy. |
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Sep 28 2006, 07:31 AM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
i never had a f**k budyy at your age. definitely stay single.
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Sep 28 2006, 12:27 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like you would rather just fool around and not get serious... :p
Serious relationships take commitment, I think that you would be much more happy dateing around. Just be careful, don't lead anyone on. When you are ready for a serious relationship... you will know... :] P.S. having f**k buddies is a bad idea.. sex makes people attached... means youwill get feelings, and being dropped all the time after you have sex with someone (even if you know it won't go anywhere) is really bad for your self image. |
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Sep 28 2006, 02:59 PM
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 Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
Just give it some time.
Don't jump into conclusions just yet. |
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Sep 28 2006, 05:06 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Unfortunately, I'm going to have to be agreeing with everyone on this one.
Just watch yourself, okay. This is exactly how you get hurt. You want a guy that treats you with respect, and not just lusting after you. It would be very unfair for either guy basically. If you go with Charles, you basically used this new guy. You go with the new guy, well, you'll still have feelings for Charles...It's not really going to work. Solution: Stay single, figure out who you are first. |
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Sep 28 2006, 09:49 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 28 2006, 2:42 AM) You're using lust to determine your choices. think clearly. You dont need a f**k buddy. i agree ugggh your 15 for heavens sake!!! you need to be thinking about skool and jus meeting people not about F**K BUDDIES. if you havnt notice there is MORE to a realtionship than jus sex you need to analyze your realtionship ( and your self give yourself some respect) and what you look for because you guys just seem to want to have flings and usually that brings unwanted pregnancies or sexual diseases. geez im friggin 18 and i still watch damn cartoons... anywayz good luck and no you dont like either guy if you have to choose. |
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Sep 28 2006, 11:55 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,357 |
You f**king slut. You don't deserve either of 'em. Guys f**king hate easy girls, who knows yu might go hookup with a random bum on a street. Good way to degrade yourself.
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Sep 29 2006, 06:28 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
well since i dont believe in people having sex outside of marriage i say keep both as friends or choose one.
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