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 Aug 14 2006, 02:44 PM
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Honestly, if you are even asking this question then you shouldn't do it. Please save the millions of teens in this world that is already having sex and regret it afterwards and JUST SAY NO, I honestly don't think you are ready AT ALL
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Aug 14 2006, 09:47 PM
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You wouldn't be nervous about it if you were ready...
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Aug 14 2006, 09:56 PM
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 What side was that Prvt Pile? Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,960 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 14 2006, 7:47 PM)  You wouldn't be nervous about it if you were ready... I agree, my first time yes I was young but it just happened we were "ready" as far as I had protection my uncles and cousin made sure of that all the time...but we never planed it or anything like that just happened. |
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Sep 8 2006, 04:01 PM
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well, i lost my virginity about a year ago with a girl i had known for 4 months, and i had really cared about her and all, but she was a slut, and if i could i would probally take it back, but its a little late for that
if your really nervous then you probaly should wait, anyways, you have your whole life |
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Sep 12 2006, 01:58 PM
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there are questions you should ask yourself ...
how long have you been with him? and do you really love him? or are you just infatuated? theres a fine line between real LOVE and reallly really really liking him. do you trust him? does he love you? are you doing it because you feel pressured to? do you feel like he's pressuring you? ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's the person i lost it to. it was 6 months into the relationship ---- its when i fully trusted him, completely loved him, and knew he felt the same about me. i dont regret it because it was real love. make sure you're really ready and he's the person you love. |
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Sep 12 2006, 07:01 PM
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I'm sure your still very young and very confuse. You believe that you care for eachother and that ur in love when ur actually not. Being that ur so nervous about this decision, it is best if you just don't do anything at all. I myself, lost my virginity when I was very young and til this day, I regret it with everything that I've got. So if you can hold on to NOT doing it then I would suggest you to but if you think that ur REALLY ready then go for it. Just be wise about ur decision.
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Sep 15 2006, 05:45 AM
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QUOTE(salcha4u @ Aug 5 2006, 8:16 PM) Why don't you just....not do it Exactly!.. |
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Sep 15 2006, 01:25 PM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
A word of adive you should never plan it out.If you plan it out and it works hooray for you but really its always best when it just happens cuz i mean you can tell that there is no forcing that the chemistry is strong and also the connection.Honestly if your second guessing your self then honestly i dont think your ready but if yu feel that you can do this then go on.
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Sep 18 2006, 07:38 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
Actually, when it was first time, and that was 7 years ago! I am still with the same guy i did it with. we were already together for a year and we both trusted and loved each other very much. but hey we both were very nervous. it's a natural thing to feel. but if you arent ready then you shouldn't do it. but if you think you are, then go for it. me and my bf were ready but nervous because he knew it was going to painful for me, and he was bervous because it was his first time too.
hope this helps you out. |
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Sep 18 2006, 08:04 AM
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Yeah. LOL.
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Sep 18 2006, 11:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 277 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 381,654 |
just DO IT... yeah u WILL bleed a lil! its ok tho!! it only hurts the first time! after that it is all bliss and u will be wanting dick everynite if that dude is layin it down rite...
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