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post Jul 31 2006, 11:34 PM
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and i know it's kinda similar to my other topics,but please don't close it cus i don't know what to do.
i'm getting my friend to call up this guy i like because i can't tell him, i just freeze up.
i tryed to tell him today but there was never a moment where an adult was near.
if she calls him should i be on the phone,and her tell him im on the phone??
i'm scared he might think it's a little weird that i'm on the phone listening right?
and i'm pretty sure he won't care if i'm getting my friend to do this for me because he too is very shy and i mean cmon he's a 14 year old country boy so i doubt he'd mind either way.

thanks for your advice in advance. wink.gif
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post Aug 1 2006, 04:19 PM
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i know its scary as hell to put yourself out there. but having your friend tell him will not work in your favor. but if ur gonna do it don't be on the line...it just comes off as silly and immature. It is scary i know but until your ready to tell him yourself you prolly not ready for a relationship with him anyways
 
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Yeah, you really need to do it yourself... why don't you just call him now and just say... *just like jerry mcquire* "you... you complete me..."
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 04:28 PM
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I don't think you should get your friend to tell him. You need to tell him yourself. It would mean so much more to him.

Personally, it would feel awkward having my friend tell a guy I like him.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 05:08 PM
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would it be ok to text?
i can't do it in person or on the phone.
too hard. cry.gif
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 05:09 PM
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Do you get nervous or something?

I think it would be worth the effort though.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 05:13 PM
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yes!
im so shy,and super super scared of rejection.
i've liked this guy for 2 years and keeping all of my feelings inside of me for that long have built up,and it's just too hard to tell him in person. ermm.gif
 
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well, you have a better chance of being rejected if you have your friend ask him... you really need to just talk to him.... I mean, how are you going to talk to him when he knows... you have to learn to talk to him about it at some piont
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 06:11 PM
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true true,
i'm fine when he knows,it's just the getting it out.
i already know he likes me but i still dont have enough guts to go up to him face to face and say it,or say it on the phone. _unsure.gif
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 07:35 PM
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post Aug 1 2006, 09:21 PM
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she called him and she was like those past two years shes liked you a lot and he was like oh really and she was like yeah and then he was like so are you asking me if i like her and she was like well yea and he was like well i have a gf and she was like oh well if u didnt would u think of her that way and go out with her and he was like yea diffinitley.. so now what do i do..wait?
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 09:24 PM
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ouch. bad timing. you can wait but don't wait around. play the field.

although it sounds like he's saying that because he wants you as a safety net.

he'll probably end up using you as a rebound chick.
 
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well, um...

I think that you should wait, but in the mean time do what other people are saying... PLAY THE FIELD, don't jsut dwell on the one guy... if he frees up, awsome for you. If he doesn't, then you won't have to worry about it. You will have pleanty of other awsome guys to choose from.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 10:13 PM
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wait, but don't just focus all your attention on him.
besides there are plenty of other guys around.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 11:40 PM
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he IS my only one i pay attention to.
i've liked him for two whole years and i get my feelings out and he has a girlfriend. sad.gif
i was thinking about texting him asking if i should wait or move on.. or just say that im sorry i wouldnt have gotten her to call if i knew you had a girlfriend... or something like that.
what do you guys thinks? ermm.gif
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 11:46 PM
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i'm a little lost, but, if you feel he's worht the wait, wait. unless two years has been enough for you. i have a friend who's liked this girl for same amount of time as you. but things didn't work out because someone else liked him and his crush didn't want to put up a fight..this doesn't really have anything to do with the subject. he got hurt, she's moved on. he chose to wait, he's broken now.


i hope that didn't discourage you, i'm sure it probably won't be the same case for you.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 11:55 PM
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i think you should move on cause you've already waited 2 years and it turns out that he has a gf and if your gonna wait again something else might happen and then you might end up waiting AGAIN!!!
 
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no, omg no... your taking this entirely the wrong way, don't wait and pray on him as the only one, but at the same time if they do break up... don't forget about him either
 
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post Aug 2 2006, 12:04 AM
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^ that's a good way to put it.

QUOTE(aRiiaNa @ Aug 1 2006, 9:40 PM) *
he IS my only one i pay attention to.
i've liked him for two whole years and i get my feelings out and he has a girlfriend. sad.gif
i was thinking about texting him asking if i should wait or move on.. or just say that im sorry i wouldnt have gotten her to call if i knew you had a girlfriend... or something like that.
what do you guys thinks? ermm.gif


NO do NOT talk or text him like that. it makes you sound desperate and it might freak him out.
 
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post Aug 2 2006, 01:02 AM
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but i dont like anyone else but him,i dont like any of the guys at my school their all jerks and ugly.
how can i let him know he hurt me?
or do i just sit here like a bump on a log and wait.

it kinda makes me sad knowing i might be the replacement girl you know,cus i really like this guy. cry.gif
 
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post Aug 2 2006, 01:42 PM
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hello?somebodyy? ermm.gif
 
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post Aug 2 2006, 10:48 PM
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HELLO?!!
please S0ME0NE tell me what to do after what i said the post before these 2. cry.gif
 
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post Aug 3 2006, 07:23 PM
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BUMP.


hello somebody?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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post Aug 3 2006, 07:32 PM
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Okay hi deary. just have some patience and someone will come by and help.


If you really care about the guy then stick with it I suppose. Just talk to him about it but don't get in the middle of his relationship hes in now. That would be rude.

I'll finish this later, i have to go home now.
 
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post Aug 3 2006, 07:34 PM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ Aug 3 2006, 7:32 PM) *
Okay hi deary. just have some patience and someone will come by and help.
Anyway If hes shy, yes he will understand that your really shy and you may freeze up.

Just tell him yourself. Just get on the phone and just start talking to him like you would normally. And just bring it up when you think the time is right. Your on the phone alone with him, it will be perfectly fine.

Just breathe and don't think to much about it. Don't worry about what he'll think until after you say it. Once you say it , it will be a big release because it will finally be off of you and he'll know and you'll be really happy.

Be yourself, and stay calm. He'll understand.


my friend told him my only trouble now is the other post that are by me on this same thread under a few of other peoples responces.
 
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