I don't wanna break his heart.. Options

[ichiban]

when I first started liking him..i REALLY RELLY REALLLY loved him.. it was like i was OBSESSED ... then i found out he liked me too, and then we were together .. but its been 3 weeks .. and since the 2nd week i started having no feelings for him ... i just find that so weird! to like someone 100 times more when i wasn't with him .... now i can't bear breakin his heart and breakin up with him .. so i'm waiting to see if my feelings will change .... but they're not .... right now i just find him annoying for no reason ... .. before i NEVER thought of him that way .. we used to be best friends .. and now im afraid if i break up with him, we wont be friends anymore ....

so what should i do?!!??!?!?

[ryfitaDF]

that sucks. i know how it is, though. girls have done that to me.

a fact about being human: you want what you don't have, and when you have it you don't want it.

and, besides, unless he is as obcessed about you as you were about him, you won't break his heart.

how old are you, anyway? you shouldn't be worrying about love till you're atleast 20. until then it has been proven impossible to really seriously be "in love". i know it for a fact

[xquizit]

I guess you wanted him cuz he was unattainable? And once you had him all to yourself, there was no challenge there for you and you lost the zest of it? Could be possible. I say give it some time. Dont rush things and think there's nothing coming out of the relationship.

[DixieDaCutie]

a fact about being human: you want what you don't have, and when you have it you don't want it.

s0 tru~!! even though it sux like cRaP i DunNo wHaT.. me & this guy seriously liked each otha...fine * i wont say love, cause accordin 2 u that isnt possible * but we liked each other s0OOO MUCH~!!!! & then when i saw him in math & hung out w/ him...itz like i had nO aBsOLuTeLy NOO feelingz 4 him.. he was gettin on my frikin nervez...

it was like that a lot 4 me...on & off... i started liking him, then he started liking me, then i stopped liking him, n he continued liking me, then i liked him again, n he stopped liking me, n i stopped liking him, n he started liking me....

gRr. im so confused i dunno if i like him or not

[illuminessence]

Oops...that last reply was me! My sis doesn't know how to log off.

[DixieDaCutie]

^_^ not last reply...like 2nd to last...but yeAa i got what u meant lol

[ImInYourFlesh]

You get wut u wanted only to find u want more. I understand, i mean i'm not you in that situation, im ur boyfriend. If you ask me, u might be doing more damage to him by keeping things as they are. You say he loves u, but u dont love him? Not your fault, we're all human. But as humans we do feel and so if he ever finds out u dont love him....it could be worse than if u would just break it off. Say to him, "i love u as a friend, and i dont think i could go on if our friendship is ruined by us dating" See wut he says. I'm sry if im no help, i can barely help myself, but i just thought i'd share wut I'd do.

.::::You have everything, yet you wish you felt something. All you need you retain and you still require more. You are with the person you sought, and you still want to touch. Everything you wanted you have, and you ask why, why are you still hungry?::::

[xDrowningInTears...]

ive been through this same situation. i had no more feelings for my ex and i cheated on him. i felt soo sorry for him and i found out i still had feelings for him. one week later, he was so freakin annoying. he lies to me ; pretends to be his family members talking to me on the internet and asking me annoying questions [e.x. : if he changed, would you give him another chance ? ; do you believe in second chances ? ; etc. etc..]

dont feel bad about breaking his heart. you should deserve better. just be brave and break it off. if you dont, youll just hurt yourself. its all up to you. =]

[ichiban]

I would break up with him .. but then i'm afraid we won't be friends anymore ...... because before we were best friends ...

[GuardianAngel18]

U girl's Heart are werid. Truth is if you dont know whats love or relationship. Dont go out with anyone and hurt them. U might be too young to having a relationship or Tell them to like them and having a changing mind 2nd week, thats like somone promise you something than U break it.. But I dont know.. If I was you, The mistake is on me.

[xxkiki_chanxx]

a fact about being human: you want what you don't have, and when you have it you don't want it.

My language teacher said that while we were watching the anne frank movie. anyways, u should tell him in a nice way. of course, seeing this happen to my friends and i being in the middle of it. when u do break up with him, talk with him a lot because he'll start to think your ignoring him, hate him, etc. then again, not all guys are like that so yea.

[aznraver396]

oh man..that happened to me too many times before. yeah, i know how it feels...to be so guilty about everything and knowing that you're the one who liked him first...yeah, anyways, tell him about it, tell him he's annoying and you just wanna get a lil space..he won't mind too much..but don't start ignoring him.
i don't know..if you really don't like him anymore, tell him and i guess..break up..cuz extending this relationship longer won't be any use.

[MrTurtle]

thats happened to me before. you have to risk the friendship and hurt him. you`ll both get over it. if you dont, it`ll hurt more in the end.