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how should i break up/dump the guy.., read my story. ! and help mee
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post Jul 23 2006, 08:04 AM
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i really want to break up with my boyfriend because i suddenly realized [yes literally] that i didnt feel what i used to feel toward him.

and im really not comfortable in long relationships either because i dont like serious commitments. i think im a bit weird like that ermm.gif I'd very much rather have "flings" with guys. im starting high school after the summer..
his personality is OK but its all so PHYSICAL. not that weve been to second base or whatever but he always does PDA with me and we get told off soo many times. and its getting SO annoying. also he sucks at kissing and he smells. lol.. but ya you know thats not the real reason why.

im bothered by all the girls commenting on his Myspace. how theyre al from where he is at the moment in the US for summer and theyre all beachy and pretty and blonde. He also has a history of cheating on his ex-girlfriend [i just found out] who is a semi-close friend of mine, but a friend of mine all the same.

its also.. just me pinch.gif im just the kind of girl who'd rather be "free" and not committed/stuck with ONE guy for such a long time. it scares me. and he wants to rent a hotel room for us i mean what the hell..?!?! i played along and sounded all excited and crap.

ive realized just in the airplane (lol) that i dont want a relationship with him anymore. and im not exactly ready for all this. cause im only 13..

another problem is.. ive developed a crush for another guy. god.. but i dont want him to break after seeing me with anonther guy right after him you knwo?!? but i wantt to have the opportunity to date different guys. not having a relatioinship exactly but just having funn.

soo. how should i say it.. when should i say it.. where should i say it..??

and dont think im not scared and nervous for breaking his heart.. cause i am=( id feel mean to break up with him RIGHT as high school starts cause weve been messaging alot lately and hes going on about us & highschool. cry.gif noo.

im not experienced at all, since this is my first. so help me pleasee!!

[and itd be good if you could give me examples of your own breaking-up experiences, thankss]
 

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xx_kiss_me_xx   how should i break up/dump the guy..   Jul 23 2006, 08:04 AM
aRiiaNa   hey, i've only had one breaking up experience....   Jul 23 2006, 11:35 AM
Programmer   the f**k? you need to stop kidding yourself...your...   Jul 23 2006, 12:20 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   QUOTE(Programmer @ Jul 23 2006, 12:20 PM)...   Jul 23 2006, 09:16 PM
_sarcastic_   heck you're only 13 of course you're not r...   Jul 23 2006, 02:02 PM
ashley7945   QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jul 23 2006, 12:02 PM...   Jul 23 2006, 10:23 PM
xbabyboo   Your soo young,you still have time to find your so...   Jul 23 2006, 05:32 PM
aubbob.   just say i think i'm a bi. i wanna see my othe...   Jul 23 2006, 09:19 PM
The Music/Fashion Whiz   woah this is somewhat weird extremely similar expe...   Jul 23 2006, 09:20 PM
felicity*aka*fe   i agree....your only 13....don't worry about r...   Jul 23 2006, 11:01 PM
lilannienie92   tell him that high school's gonna start and yo...   Jul 23 2006, 11:04 PM
tooeffingcrazy   I don't call what you "had" a relati...   Jul 24 2006, 12:21 AM
vn cuti3   write it down on a note everything. then give him ...   Jul 26 2006, 01:34 AM
sadolakced acid   1- tell him you're tired of being a piece of ...   Jul 26 2006, 01:40 AM
Uronacid   Look, I don't really like you that much... You...   Jul 26 2006, 09:50 AM
This Confession   ^and then you walk away.   Jul 26 2006, 10:26 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 26 2006, 11:2...   Jul 26 2006, 10:52 AM
msladyliberty   TELL HIM. He'll get over it. It's high...   Jul 26 2006, 04:01 PM
da_SALSA   here: you: let's talk him: ok! you: i don...   Jul 26 2006, 05:23 PM


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