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Should a girl keep dating her man even tho he's in a gang??, well should she??
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post Jul 7 2006, 12:05 AM
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well i think its alright....but iono im not so sure becaue im going out wit sum1 in...well that isnt important n well im not to sure whether or not to stay with him or dump him.... cry.gif but can u all giv meh advice....plz!! sad.gif iono wat to do..... n iph u were in mai position would u stay with him or not?
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 12:10 AM
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Why not? If he's a good guy, then sure. Isn't that all you care about? So what if he's in a gang? As long as you don't have get involved, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Just watch out for him, and make sure he doesn't get into too much trouble.
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 12:11 AM
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i don't think there is anything wrong with it. as long as you're okay with it, then it should be fine, and as long as you're not in any trouble or danger with being with him, which i don't think there would/should be.

just make sure that you're comfortable with it.

if you're contemplating though, just think things through because having doubts isn't a good thing. mellow.gif

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post Jul 7 2006, 12:14 AM
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i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang...
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 12:18 AM
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QUOTE(skinnyminnie @ Jul 7 2006, 12:14 AM) *
i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang...


u got a point but...he isnt really lyke dat...i mean sure he's in one of da badest gangs i knoe n all but he doesnt put me in his busniss...
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 12:37 AM
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QUOTE(skinnyminnie @ Jul 7 2006, 12:14 AM) *
i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang...


What makes you think that because he's in a gang he'll bring harm to his own girlfriend?
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 03:45 PM
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my bfs in a gang but he doesnt drag me into the stuff they do. as long as you know that the gang life is far from family...when you get the sh*t beat out of you to go into or out of the group, thats not family. if your ready to handle the responsibility and deal with the not so glamorous life style he brings then go ahead. but just dont get caught up in it, its not a vey nice life to live....
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 04:04 PM
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as long as u feel safe with him & he's a good guy be with him. _smile.gif
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 08:28 PM
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welll....its up to you if you wanna be with him i mean gang members are not exactly "saints" they dont go out and do great things for the world..but if you can handle his life style and the things he has to do to be in his gang and if he is nice to you and does not indanger you then go for it! =)
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 08:49 PM
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I dunno..I think it depends on the gang and how much they care about eachother.

I think that'd be kinda scary & stressful though, especially if the gang was dangerous or something.
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 10:57 PM
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^^ i agree..it depends how much you guys love eachother and what kind of gang too..if its really really really dangerous..its probably not worth it..
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 11:10 PM
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Oh dang. I dont want to tell you what to do or anything, but I'd back off... fast. Personally, I wouldnt want to have anything to do with a guy if he was in a gang.

But then again, it depends on how long you've been with him, how he treats you, and how much he means to you.
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 11:58 PM
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I'm going to assume he's not that safe but you know, who knows? He could be just a sweet guy trying to find acceptance.
 
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post Jul 8 2006, 01:02 PM
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no cause he's probably a druggie, probably has violent tendancies, probably will get in trouble with the law, and probably doesnt have enough common sense to love u over his cheap thrills of being in a gang. most likely, he'll be bragging that ur his bitch when ur not around.
 
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post Jul 8 2006, 01:52 PM
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i wouldn't. depends how dangerous the gang is.
 
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post Jul 8 2006, 04:37 PM
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QUOTE(skinnyminnie @ Jul 6 2006, 10:14 PM) *
i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang...

what does 'wanting more' have to do with being in gang.

I've gone out with gang members before, sadly, only 3 boys i have gone out with did not claim or were not in a mob. Some of them were assholes, some of them were some of the sweetest boys i've ever been with. It depends on the boy you roll with, not the gang hes in. Sure he might get in trouble, and you have more to worry about at times, but if he treats you good then thats what matters
 
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post Jul 8 2006, 08:29 PM
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sure if hes cool
 
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post Jul 8 2006, 11:08 PM
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QUOTE(BabypeachesLR @ Jul 7 2006, 1:05 AM) *
well i think its alright....but iono im not so sure becaue im going out wit sum1 in...well that isnt important n well im not to sure whether or not to stay with him or dump him.... cry.gif but can u all giv meh advice....plz!! sad.gif iono wat to do..... n iph u were in mai position would u stay with him or not?



Honestly only you know the answer to this because every girl would treat this differently depending on their views on dating guys in gangs. Personally I wouldnt, but that's me. Generally though think of it this way, it -could- work considering you do hear about women marrying to the mafia or in your case dating so I dont see how a guy in a gang is any different. However, if you feel like your life is in danger because of this, you need to make a decision based on how much you care about this guy. Also put into consideration if it doesnt work out in the end, is he the type to go after or send people after you?
 
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post Jul 9 2006, 04:46 PM
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I hink if you care about him it doesn't matter. If that isn't something you want to be a part of don't hang out with him if they are around. If you don't see a problem, I wouldn't worry about it.
 
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post Jul 9 2006, 05:06 PM
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but what iff the guy was a drug dealer instead? hmmm?
 
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post Jul 9 2006, 08:55 PM
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I don't see anything wrong in it, unless you don't feel safe about it or something.
 
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post Jul 10 2006, 12:21 AM
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bloodz or crips? huh
 
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post Jul 10 2006, 01:39 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jul 9 2006, 11:32 PM) *
Free drugs? Lol.

no he isnt a drug dealer

QUOTE(magicfann @ Jul 10 2006, 12:21 AM) *
bloodz or crips? huh

does it matta??? n dere r more gangs out dere den just bloodz or cripz
 
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post Jul 10 2006, 01:46 AM
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its very dangerous
 
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post Jul 10 2006, 01:55 AM
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Funny u have this topic up. I like someone in a gang. rolleyes.gif

its ok though. i think its fine to date a gang member
 
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