friends are NOT forever Options

[irishmonkey_3]

Ok...so friends. You think you find this friend that you can tell everything to and do everything with. You tell them your family problems, and trust them to keep it shut up. You tell them who you like and trust them to respect you enough to not flirt with that person...or GO OUT WITH THEM and talk about it infront of you every chance they get. Your constantly over at their house, or they are are at your house. Basically they have become like a sister. Everything seems great and then she goes out with this guy i have like for YEARS! And she rubs it in my face. Then she starts messing with my sisters boyfriend. But she only wanted to know him because I knew him. And she goes to the muvies with him and she didnt even know what he looked like. >< Ok so then she tells him[that same guy while she is at the muvies] that she told me to go to hell and that she never wanted to talk to me again[for some odd reason]. And she had never said this to me so i was like, WTF??? Then AFTER she pulls that stunt she says [to that same damn guy] that she said she wasnt gonna miss me when she moved and that i could go screw off. and well he told her to go to hell...but when i asked her about it of course she says, "uh! i dont know what he is talking about....i would never say nething like that about you!" but she starts dissing my sister. and she has the AUDACITY to ask me if im her friend. i said to her that i had been a friend to her but she had never been one back, and if she considered herself a friend she would have never asked a dumbass question like that. and then she goes on sucking up saying she wont get mad because she is good like that. i just havent talked to her. what should i do? tell her to piss off or give her another chance?

[PrincessAda]

I think this belongs in Relationships more?
Well anyways How sad.I`m sort of confused though..did you hear your friend say those things? or did the guy tell you she did?

[n00b]

I think this goes in relasionships, too

[Gigi]

Tell her to piss the hell off. A person who's done so much damage in a blink of an eye with no remorse whatsoever doesn't deserve a second chance. I've been through a situation very similar to yours, and I gave her a second chance. That's a huge regret I still carry today.

Don't give those bitches the time of day.

[lalalaLANUH]

Listen to gigi.
Tell her to piss off.
You can do so much better that this girl.

[loopylandscapes4...]

hm.. that sort of thing always seems to happen with amoung my friends.. sometimes it'll be over in a week, or sometimes a couple of months, but in the end, someone needs the courage to stand up and confront the other person about their feelings on the situtation. good luck

[whenshesdancing]

WHAT A BIZZO.

well, she was one of your closests friends, tell her everything she's done wrong. keep your guard, and see what she says. if she denies everything, i would tell her to piss off. if she fully understands and grovels, maybe you should give her a second chance.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Tell her to f**k off.

And know that the only true friend you'll ever have is yourself.

Taylor``

[Ajmalhuuss]

Tell her to piss the hell off. A person who's done so much damage in a blink of an eye with no remorse whatsoever doesn't deserve a second chance. I've been through a situation very similar to yours, and I gave her a second chance. That's a huge regret I still carry today.

Don't give those bitches the time of day.

Exactly.

[*Uronacid*]

good friends are forever... bad friends should be either droped or taught a lesson

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

first of all you need to talk to her and tell her what the heck is up and why this dude keeps on telling you that she says hecka shit behind your back. but think about your friendship with her do you think that she would ever do that kind of thing? because guys can lie at times..jus think if she has ever done this before with someone else. i believe in second chances BUT dont give her your full trust.. i was in a fight with my EX best friend.. i gave her a second chance but i told her i would not be best friends with her or our friendship would be the same as it was before. and i told her that if i ever heard that she was talking shit i would drop her as my friend.. you need to find out wich of those two are telling the truth your friend or the guy.