Nice Guys Finish Last, Nice Guys Get Stepped On |
 Mar 14 2007, 07:42 PM
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Just another kid...  Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,690  |
We've all heard the infamous line "Nice Guys Finish Last" and wether you believe it or not, the world relies on that quote. The rude ignorant people intimidate others to gain power. We as a world fall victim to the "bad guys"
So.. are you a good guy or a bad guy??  This is pretty serious for the lounge...This post is directed to both genders |
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| *salcha4u* |
Mar 14 2007, 08:00 PM
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Nice guys can be assholes too.
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Mar 14 2007, 08:17 PM
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 oooh yeah. Group: Member Posts: 1,333 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 376,533 |
OK, before we discuss this, let's attempt to define a "nice guy" and a "bad guy" -- any guy with at least a little bit of humanity inside him does not necessarily fit either category. It's far more complex than that.
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Mar 14 2007, 08:19 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
QUOTE(salcha4u @ Mar 14 2007, 5:00 PM)  Nice guys can be assholes too. haha |
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Mar 14 2007, 08:27 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
I get trampled on easily cause I'm helpless. Does that make me a "nice guy" or just a weakling?
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Mar 14 2007, 08:31 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
^ YOU'RE WEAK!
I like nice guys, but guys that are TOO nice are gross. |
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Mar 14 2007, 08:55 PM
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I think there are nice guys and good guys. The nice guys are going to be stepped on, because they allow themselves to be. Relatioships should be a give and take and I think for the most part nice guy are the givers and whomever their with is usually the taker. Good guys are guys who can give and TAKE. I think nice guys are the guys who tend to lack self esteem, so they have to go and do other things to boost that self esteem, whereas good guys have respect for themselves but also respect the person their with (which is why they aren't bad guys)
Just a thought. |
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Mar 14 2007, 10:05 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
im a good guy like she said (im friends with everyone!) but once they think they can bully me i retaliate even if there bigger just to show them there not gunna walk all over me.
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Mar 14 2007, 10:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
All the 'good' guys I know are the ones all the 'bad' guys are jealous of.
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Mar 14 2007, 10:48 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Neither, I'm whatever pays more money, or can get me laid quicker. (sometimes being nice DOES get you laid..)
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| *Monochrome.* |
Mar 14 2007, 11:02 PM
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I LOVE NICE GUYS.
its those ones that are so nice they are near gay im worried about. |
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Mar 15 2007, 12:00 AM
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Just another kid... Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,690 |
im a good guy i tend to let people step on me
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Mar 15 2007, 12:34 AM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
i think nice guys are guys who think of others first and themselves last. the kinda guy whose incredibly sweet and attentive. nice guys are great as friends. but they tend to get overlooked or stepped on. |
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Mar 15 2007, 12:43 AM
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i am a little bit of both.
im told i am sweet. im told i am an ass. but if your talking about dating... i usually stick with the tough guy but then i am sweet. (make sense?) |
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| *Intercourse.* |
Mar 15 2007, 05:16 AM
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I'm a nice girl and I like nice guys
 Well a little touch of the bad isn't such a bad thing at times either. Anyway, what are the definitions of a good/bay guy to you Selvy before everyone goes on saying they like this or that? |
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Mar 15 2007, 08:55 AM
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 cb's #1 fan! =) Group: Advisor Posts: 2,342 Joined: Nov 2003 Member No: 1 |
QUOTE(ItsSelvy @ Mar 14 2007, 7:42 PM) We've all heard the infamous line "Nice Guys Finish Last" and wether you believe it or not, the world relies on that quote. The rude ignorant people intimidate others to gain power. We as a world fall victim to the "bad guys" So.. are you a good guy or a bad guy?? This is pretty serious for the lounge...This post is directed to both genders nice guys finish last because the "nice guys" you talk of are the guys without backbones - guys who are nice not out of choice, but because of the lack of. power is there for everyone's taking, so why not take it? this world is for those who are daring, ambitious, and proactive. there's nothing rude or ignorant about that. know what you want, and once you do, go for it. complaining and deluding yourself to believe youre being "nice" will get you nowhere. nice guys who are nice out of concious choice rarely finish last. remember, fortune favors the bold. =) |
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Mar 15 2007, 09:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 950 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,808 |
QUOTE(salcha4u @ Mar 14 2007, 5:00 PM) Nice guys can be assholes too. LOL Anyways, I think nice guys can fend for themselves... |
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Mar 15 2007, 09:15 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Well, like that one dude said...
What are we going to define a nice guy and a bad guy as? A nice guy in my definition is some one who is willing to do things for others. Those who take initiative. May be a little timid, but timid doesn't necessarily mean nice. Timidity means weakness. Maybe timid to a point, but isn't afraid to tell people what's wrong. Honest. Caring. A bad guy is some one who will do anything to get ahead. Prideful, shameless, and doesn't care about the little guy. So, as I've seen results of both of these, I would have to disagree with the on going trend. Reason: Nice guys often tend to do their work load and if anyone else is in need, he is there to help. Let's say we have a nice guy as a boss. It's been shown that a boss who exerts servitude has a better chance of having his workers put forth more effort. Why wouldn't you? You have a good guy boss. Bad guys don't necessarily get ahead. Yeah, they might for the short run, but in the end they what's coming for them. A nice swift kick in the ass. Stalin, Lenin, Mussilini, Hitler...all bad guys. Look where they are? Or I should say, what happened to them. So, what do you think? I really think this should be in the debate forum. I mean, we have people trying to define the variables and whose better. Seriously. |
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Mar 15 2007, 12:54 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(Monochrome. @ Mar 15 2007, 12:02 AM) I LOVE NICE GUYS. its those ones that are so nice they are near gay im worried about. I'm a nice guy!
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Mar 15 2007, 12:57 PM
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oooh yeah. Group: Member Posts: 1,333 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 376,533 |
QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Mar 15 2007, 9:15 AM) Well, like that one dude said... << Um, I'm a girl.  Just wanted to let you know!
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Mar 15 2007, 12:59 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Mar 15 2007, 1:57 PM) << Um, I'm a girl. Just wanted to let you know!YOU ARE? |
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| *mishyerr* |
Mar 15 2007, 02:01 PM
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QUOTE(salcha4u @ Mar 14 2007, 9:00 PM) Nice guys can be assholes too. MMHMM! I hate closet assholes; they're the worst! |
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Mar 15 2007, 02:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
But the bad guys will feel bad when the nice guys kick their booties
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Mar 15 2007, 05:21 PM
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 Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
So there's this boy...
and he's so sweet! omg, he is SO nice. and funny and sweet and holds doors open for girls and gives up his seat for girls standing and is totally respectful and nice and sweet and nice and sweet. He is SUCH a nice guy.  But I don't like him at all. Nope, not me. At all.  So basically, I like nice guys better than bad guys. Especially the nice ones that look like bad ones. If I was a guy I'd probably be a bad guy because I have no patience for anything
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Mar 15 2007, 07:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I'm a nice guy. Well, girl.
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