finding guys?! Options

[alli]

okay so all the guys that i go out w/ are either to shy or boring, and all the guys in my school are jerks. so heres my question..where do you girls all find guys? like besides school where do you meet guys and how do u start up a relationship..if that makes sense?! it always seems like im the one to make the first move and im tired of that. okay if this makes sense ..thanks for the help in advance.

[jenn_jenny]

school
mall
introduction from friends
clubs
iono

[xxeleganziia]

i dont even KNO, honestly. i think its best to just wait to find him. you never know where you can find somebody..i mean, i def. kno that it can just come unexpectedly. i know it probably frustrates you to be surrounded by jerks [my school is full of them too], but someway you will find somebody; probably when you least expect it. i mean, i met my bf as a complete coincidence; who knows, maybe you'll have the same luck i did

[lyin_in_wait]

some guys at my school are only intrested in one thing. and the rest it seemed were so messed up from the hoes at my school so i just quit focusing on it. no one is saying you need to be in a relationship, you dont need anybody to make you happy. once you get a different perspective a whole new set of guys will come into play, lord knows it happened to me. plus theres always next year. you havent seen the whole school yet...

[da_SALSA]

First of all... You will never find a good guy if you look for him. You gotta chill, and wait for him to come. You know?

That's true...I'm taking that advice! But, the best way is just...every time you have the chance to talk to someone new, go for it. Girl or boy--if it's a girl, chances are she has guy friends. Meet new people. Anywhere.

[_sarcastic_]

you've got to be patient

[AngryBaby]

First of all... You will never find a good guy if you look for him. You gotta chill, and wait for him to come. You know?

nah, f**k that, robbi doenst know what shes talking about. you gotta HUNT. you gotta go up to random guys and be like "R U FOR ME!?" we like it like that.

[xbby_charmz]

I sometimes have friends hook me up with their guy friends or go to the malls
or search around at parties

[*This Confession*]

i met my bf now on myspace

we got in a relationship rather slowly i guess
we talked a whole bunch
and then he had to ask me to be his gf on the 31st of december
because he didn't want it to be on some holiday or something
and then we broke up
and then we got back together at some point in time..
no real date though oO

Relationships take time
you have to get to know the person.
and if you two have enough in common and you can deal with their faults or flaws
then maybe you can consider being in a relationship
because mine tried to throw a lot at me
to trying making me go away
but it never worked.........

you can laugh if you want..

// all the guys here are jerks and pretty much backstabbers for the girls
can't trust many people besides a few..

[AnnahhbeL]

Wait for them to come...and be friends with them.

[PrincessAda]

Malls.Parties.

[xCrys]

As most people said, just wait, the "right" guy will come along sometime, but I like the "R U FOR ME?!" that was great, haha. My current I met in a DBZ Chatroom 4 years ago >.>

We've been together almost 15 months =O

[Annie5332]

Well, the boyfriend I have now is from school. But things I have done before are going to places near where I live and go do things that I like to do. Example: Go bowling or go rock climbing or something YOU enjoy doing. Chances are, if you go around enough, you'll find a guy. You just have to have the courage to go and start a conversation with them. It works ;) Trust me.

[alli]

thanks for the advice so far everyonee!

[Smoogrish]

This should go to Relationships.

[nikkkkki]

I once met a guy through a friend in an old school . He was very Wonderfuul, we started a Friendship through the Phhhoone, aannd, Eventually got together .

[radhikaeatsraman]

Well, going up to random guys and hellla flirting with them isn't the way to go, just so ya know.

If you do meet a guy at the mall, try not to look in the food court. If you want to, try going with some girlfriends and just going up to some guys and ask them if you can play DDR with them. If you're not into video games, you can always talk to the hot salesguys at Hollister or Abercrombie. xD

My $.02.

[SimplicityGirl]

Well you can meet guys at any social places really. That includes malls, clubs, gyms, schools..etc etc etc. But as for starting relationship part, I think it's better if you just wait for the right guy to come along. Be friends with them first. Don't go with the sole intention of starting a relationship. It just doesn't work all that well. =]

[ANG33ZY]

friend's friend's friend's friend's

[sayitaintso]

i believe in that fate thing, so i wait, rather than search.

if you rather do the searching,
well you gotta understand that the guys you meet might not be who you thought/wanted him to be.

since you might be interested in fun guys,
parties and other social gatherings should work.
LOL

[Ruler Face]

Well, I've only been interested i
n guys for three years.
Since I was in 6th grade.
And I've really only like one
guy the whole time, which I met at school.

So, my only advice to you is
DON'T LOOK FOR A GUY ONLINE.
That's all I have to say.
My friend has had like '15 relationships'
but they weren't real, they
were just guys she met online.
It's stupid, don't do it.

[lilnatcat]

Just be urself. Nobody wants a fake.

Or maybe like somebody said, u could get introduced to new ppls through ur frds or their frds. Attend more social events like frds' parties, church, youth group........ those kinda places u'd get introduced to some new ppl by ur frds.....

[Black Tulips]

MMm i dunno how to find guys but i guess some time in ur life u will eventually meet them. Try to go out more, you never know when you will meet him.

[shortiiex]

i know exactly what you mean..i know there is no such thing as a perfect guy...but there is noone even close to it

[push kicks]

when in doubt whip it out