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 May 28 2006, 02:17 PM
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Alright so.. This might be a bit long? But anyways. For the past two months or so, this guy and I have been talking, getting to know eachother, etc etc. He was in my biology class [school ended thursday] so it was easy for us to spend time together and junk. We both knew that we liked eachother, and I know he had contemplated asking me out because he had talked to my friend about it. But she had told him to wait until the summer because the whole having a class together thing, might be a bit awkward for us, not to mention the rest of the class. So two days before we get out of school, he's walking me to my next class and attempts to give me a kiss. It went extremely downhill- I ended up not being able to move because I wasnt expecting it, and I completely just shut him down in the middle of the hallway. I felt so bad afterwards.. We talked it over and everything was good. He had hinted that he was going to try again the next day. Eh. The next day comes and I end up leaving class before he does [im not thinking straight at this point, so I dont even realize what Im doing], so I dont even see him between classes; thus not even giving him the chance to try again. Turns out he wasnt exactly happy about that. I'm pretty sure I completely ruined any chance of us being more than good friends, because afterwards when I tried talking to him about it, he told me he was scared to like me anymore than he already did, because he didnt want anything else bad to happen bewteen us. He assured me that he still likes me, and I for sure still like him.. but the thing is, we sort of stopped talking and it seems like he just doesnt want to have anything to do with the whole dating scene anymore.
I just.. dont really know what to do. |
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May 28 2006, 03:44 PM
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well good job.
[sorry had to say it] All you can really do is put some effort in to talking to him still reasure him that you still do like him and want to be in a relationship with him and that your sorry and that you weren't thinking cleary. |
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May 28 2006, 04:03 PM
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It's fine.
I screwed up bigtime, I know. But thanks. |
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May 28 2006, 05:49 PM
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tell him you just weren't expecting it.
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May 28 2006, 06:40 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Just tell him you weren't expecting him to do what he did. And if he won't listen......then I guess you should move on?
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May 28 2006, 11:48 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I would try to explain things and if explaining doesn`t work..I would forget about him and find another fish
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